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Dr. Kriegman, a psychologist and evolutionary biologist is the co-author of "The Adaptive Design of the Human Psyche: Psychoanalysis, Evolutionary Biology, and the Therapeutic Process," an acclaimed "brilliantly argued book. The treatment of the biology is expert" (Robert Trivers, renowned Crafoord Prize winning biologist) and which has been considered "essential reading for anyone interested in the psychodynamics of the mind" (Irv DeVore, Chair, Dept. of Anthropology, Harvard University). Using cutting-edge, modern evolutionary biology, Dr. Kriegman presents the first complete answer to the conundrum of human inhumanity. "The Book of War" explains how we were designed by millions of years of natural selection to join together in groups that use ethnocentric racism, religious, and quasi-religious systems of belief to guide organized, intergroup violence.

Dr. Kriegman is a founder of the Psychoanalytic Couple and Family Institute of New England, a faculty member at the Massachusetts Institute for Psychoanalysis, and has taught psychology at the SUNY at Buffalo, Massasoit College, Lesley College, and Boston University.

In addition to his published books and many articles in peer reviewed, academic, professional journals (see below), he has served as a peer reviewer for major journals such as the Journal of the American Psychoanalytic Association and the International Journal of Psychoanalysis. As the Chief Psychologist for the Treatment Center for Sexually Dangerous Offenders, he evaluated and treated rapists, child molesters, and murderers. On many, many hundreds of occasions in various courts (e.g., Massachusetts, New York, Iowa, New Hampshire, and the Federal Circuit), he has been deemed an "expert witness" regarding the risks posed by men and women facing involuntary commitment due to mental illness. He has supervised the evaluations and/or testified in the trials of thousands of people facing "one day to life" commitment as a "sexually dangerous person." He has been an invited, plenary speaker at international conferences on psychoanalytic treatment.

Dr. Kriegman was the creative consultant for the acclaimed Edgeline Films (Showtime) docu-series "Couples Therapy" (https://www.nytimes.com/2019/09/05/arts/television/couples-therapy-showtime-review.html).

PUBLICATIONS

Books

• The Adaptive Design of the Human Psyche: Psychoanalysis, Evolutionary Biology, and the Therapeutic Process, with Malcolm Slavin (Guilford Press, 1992). (http://cogweb.ucla.edu/Abstracts/Slavin_Kriegman_92.html)

• Trauma, Repetition, & Affect Regulation: The Work of Paul Russell. Teicholz, J. G. & Kriegman, D. (Eds.), 1998. The Other Press.

• The Book of War: The Evolutionary Biology of Racism, Religious Hatred, Nationalism, Terrorism, and Genocide. 2023. Natural Selections.

• The Book of Monogamy: A Tantric Guide for Men Revealing the Techniques for Having Perfect Orgasms with One Woman for the Rest of Your Life (and for Women, the Operating Manual Your Husband Didn't Come With). 2024. Natural Selections.

• The First Book of Yo: Meditations on Godhood, An Exploration of Mystical Experience, and Proof of the Existence of God. 2024. Natural Selections.

Articles

• Kriegman, D. & Biederman, I. (1980). How many letters in Bidwell's ghost? An investigation of the upper limits of full report from a brief visual stimulus. Journal of Perception and Psychophysics, 28, 82-84. Featured in Scientific American, 252, 2, 126-127, 1985.
• Kriegman, D. & Solomon, L. (1985a). Cult groups and the narcissistic personality: The offer to heal defects in the self. International Journal of Group Psychotherapy, 35, 2, 239-261.
• Kriegman, D. & Solomon, L. (1985b). Psychotherapy and the "new religions": Are they the same? Cultic Studies Journal, 2, 1, 2-16.
• Kriegman, D. (1988). Self psychology from the perspective of evolutionary biology: Toward a biological foundation for self psychology. In A. Goldberg (Ed.), Progress in Self Psychology, Vol. 3, (pp. 253–274). Hillsdale, New Jersey: The Analytic Press.
• Slavin, M. O. & Kriegman, D. (1988). Freud, biology, and sociobiology. American Psychologist, 43, 658-661.
• Kriegman, D. & Knight, C. (1988). Social evolution, psychoanalysis, and human nature. Social Policy, 19, 2, 49-55.
• Kriegman, D. & Slavin, M. O. (1989). The myth of the repetition compulsion and the negative therapeutic reaction: An evolutionary biological analysis. In A. Goldberg (Ed.), Progress in Self Psychology, Vol. 5 (pp. 209–253). Hillsdale, NJ: Analytic Press.
• Slavin, M. O. & Kriegman, D. (1990). Toward a new paradigm for psychoanalysis: An evolutionary biological perspective on the classical-relational dialectic. Psychoanalytic Psychology, 7, 5-31.
• Kriegman, D. & Slavin, M. O. (1990). On the resistance to self psychology: Clues from evolutionary biology. In A. Goldberg (Ed.), Progress in Self Psychology, Vol. 6, (pp. 217–250). Hillsdale, NJ: Analytic Press.
• Kriegman, D. (1990). Compassion and altruism in psychoanalytic theory: An evolutionary analysis of self psychology. Journal of the American Academy of Psychoanalysis, 18, 2, 342-367.
• Slavin, M. O. & Kriegman, D. (1992). Psychoanalysis as a Darwinian depth psychology: Evolutionary biology and the classical-relational dialectic in psychoanalytic theory. In J. Barron, M. Eagle, and D. Wolitzky (Eds.), The Interface of Psychoanalysis and Psychology (pp. 37–76). Washington, DC: American Psychological Association.
• Kriegman, D. (1996). On the existential/subjectivism-scientific/objectivism dialectic in self psychology: A view from evolutionary biology. In A. Goldberg (Ed.), Progress in Self Psychology Vol. 12, (pp. 85–119). Hillsdale, NJ: Analytic Press.
• Kriegman, D. (1996). The effectiveness of medication: The Consumer Reports study. American Psychologist, 51, 10, 881.
• Kriegman, D. (1998). Interpretation, the unconscious, and psychoanalytic authority: Toward an evolutionary, biological integration of the empirical/scientific method with the field-defining, empathic stance. In R.F. Bornstein & J.M. Masling (Eds.), Empirical Perspectives on the Psychoanalytic Unconscious (pp. 187–272). Washington, DC: American Psychological Association.
• Slavin, M. O. & Kriegman, D. (1998). An evolutionary biological perspective on psychoanalysis. In Robert Langs, (Ed.), Theories in Psychoanalysis (pp. 255–296). NY: International Universities Press.
• Slavin, M. O. & Kriegman, D. (1998). Why the analyst needs to change: Toward a theory of conflict, negotiation, and mutual influence in the therapeutic process. Psychoanalytic Dialogues, 8, 2, 247-284.
• Slavin, M. O. & Kriegman, D. (1998). Bigger than both of us: Double binds, conflicting interests, and the inherent paradoxes of human relatedness. Psychoanalytic Dialogues, 8, 2, 317-327.
• Slavin, M. O. & Kriegman, D. (1998). Paradox and conflict, meta-communication and negotiation in psychoanalysis: Response to Dr. Ringstrom's discussion. Psychoanalytic Dialogues, 8, 2, 293-296.
• Slavin, M. O. & Kriegman, D. (1998, in press). Conflicting interests and the creation of a third space. Psychoanalytic Dialogues, 8, 3.
• Kriegman, D. (1998). Evolutionary psychoanalysis: An advance in understanding the human psyche or a phylogenetic fantasy. Contemporary Psychology, 43, 2, 138-139.
• Kriegman, D. (1998). Of quantum leaps and oxymorons: A reply to Langs. Contemporary Psychology.
• Kriegman, D. (1999). Trauma, conflict, and countertransference: A discussion of Peter Thomson's paper. Canadian Journal of Psychoanalysis, 7, 1, 59-62.
• Kriegman, D. (1999). Parental investment, sexual selection, and evolved mating strategies: Implications for psychoanalysis. Psychoanalytic Psychology, 16, 4, 1-26.
• Kriegman, D. (2000). Evolutionary psychoanalysis: Toward an adaptive, biological perspective on the clinical process in psychoanalytic psychotherapy. In P. Gilbert and K. Bailey (Eds.), Genes on the Couch: Explorations in Evolutionary Psychology (pp. 71–92). East Sussex, England: Psychology Press.
• Kriegman, D. (2002). Interpreting & Negotiating Conflicts of Interests in the Analytic Relationship: A Discussion of Salee Jenkins's Clinical Case. In A. Goldberg (Ed.), Progress in Self Psychology, Vol. 18, (pp. 87–112). Hillsdale, NJ: Analytic Press.
• Kriegman, D. (2006). The reduction of sexual offense recidivism following commitment and psychodynamic treatment: A challenge to the dominant cognitive-behavioral model. The Journal of Sexual Offender Civil Commitment: Science and the Law, 1, 90-98.
• Kriegman, D. (2014). The New Salem Witch Trials: Evaluating bias in expert witness conclusions of “sexual dangerousness. Part One.” Sex Offender Law Report. 15(4) Jun./Jul.
• Kriegman, D. (2014). The New Salem Witch Trials: Evaluating bias in expert witness conclusions of “sexual dangerousness. Part Two.” Sex Offender Law Report. 15(5) Aug./Sep.
• Kriegman, D., Trivers, R. L., Slavin, M. O. (2020) Trump’s Tell: How Trump’s self-delusions make him stunningly effective at predatory deception.. Raw Story. Washington, D.C.: Raw Story Media, Inc.
• Kriegman, D. (2022). The Transmogrification of Harvey Weinstein: On the #MeToo Movement and a Rational Approach to Dealing with Male, Sexual Predators. Quillette, February 20. (https://quillette.com/2022/02/20/the-transmogrification-of-harvey-weinstein/)
• Kriegman, D. (2022). Guilty and Insane: Dissociative Identity Disorder and the Riddle of Human Responsibility. Quillette, July 29. (https://quillette.com/2022/07/29/guilty-and-insane/)
• Kriegman, D. (2022). Robert Trivers and the Riddle of Evolved Altruism: Survival of the fittest versus compassion and cooperation in evolutionary theory and politics. Quillette, October 7. (https://quillette.com/2022/10/07/on-evolved-altruism/)

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THE BOOK OF WAR

BY Daniel Kriegman • POSTED ON Dec. 11, 2023

Psychologist Kriegman presents a case for an evolutionary basis for tribalistic aggression and religious belief.

According to the author, it seems impossible to make sense of the “monstrous history of organized human violence” that reaches its grim zenith in genocidal action. However, he aims to do precisely that in these pages, relying on an evolutionary perspective that analyzes the development of human behavior due to adaptive pressures. Over time, he asserts, humans formed groups to survive and flourish, but tribal living demanded a volatile combination of social cohesion and conflict, making “coalitional aggression” necessary. Moreover, he says, humans used their superior cognitive abilities and verbal skills to “enhance their tribal cohesion” with religious ideologies, moral belief systems, and extraordinary loyalty requirements; these, in turn, provided them with rationales for marching to certain death in war. Kriegman’s account distinguishes itself from the crowded field of evolutionary biology by refusing to reduce religious impulses to a particular gene, and by acknowledging that organized religion has persisted because it contributes not only to survival, but to a search for meaning. However, he avers that religion was an adaptation to facilitate conflict, making it a principal barrier to the “elimination of divisive, antagonistic group identities and the false beliefs that facilitate warfare.” The best aspect of Kriegman’s monumental effort is its expansive survey of relevant literature; he provides a fine synopsis of the debates among evolutionary biologists and psychologists regarding war and religious belief. However, this strident, dogmatic study tends to caricature religion, as when it states that faith “shuts off the distressing ruminations” of life—a peculiar and unsubstantiated interpretation. He also offers the unsupported assertion that the foundational texts of the Abrahamic religions “contain calls for murderous violence against unbelievers.” Throughout, the book often takes for granted that religious belief is false and absurd, and that “in the most successful religious systems, belief withoutevidence is honored.”

A magisterial but reductionist work, paradoxically presented as a defense of science and enlightenment humanism.

Pub Date: Dec. 11, 2023

ISBN: 9798989740505

Page count: 767pp

Publisher: Natural Selections

Review Posted Online: Nov. 19, 2024

ADDITIONAL WORKS AVAILABLE

The Adaptive Design of the Human Psyche: Psychoanalysis, Evolutionary Biology, and the Therapeutic Process

Addressing one of the most fundamental issues in any examination of human experience, this important work connects evolutionary biological concepts to modern psychoanalytic theory and the clinical encounter. Synthesizing their years of experience in the practice of psychotherapy and psychoanalysis, the authors provide a comparative psychoanalytic map of current theoretical controversies and a new way of deconstructing the hidden assumptions that underlie Freudian, Ego Psychological, Kleinian, Object Relational, Self Psychological, and Interpersonal theories. In so doing, they provide a new vantage point from which to integrate competing models into a larger picture that more fully embraces the many facets of human nature. Moreover, they offer clinicians a new framework with which to understand and respond to the inevitable paradoxes and conflicts that arise in the therapeutic relationship.
Published: Jan. 1, 1992
ISBN: ‎ 978-0898627954

The Book of Monogamy: A Tantric Guide for Men Revealing the Techniques for Having Perfect Orgasms with One Woman ...

This is the marriage manual that works. From a renowned couples therapist, comes a new understanding of how to create lifelong marital bliss. ¶Aren’t men naturally polygamous? Is traditional monogamy a reactionary anachronism? Can a man find complete, lifelong, sexual satisfaction with just one woman? Is holy matrimony just a fanciful canard full of holes? ¶Indeed, it has been argued that the formerly absurd notion of marrying for love was a twentieth century invention. Could this fad have run its course? Could this unnatural, fragile arrangement account for the high frequency of divorce? With the continuing turmoil over same sex marriage — not to mention rapidly emerging polyamory arrangements — many people wring their hands worried about the fate of marriage, the family, and especially the children. ¶Into this cultural maelstrom, steps a marital therapist and "The Book of Monogamy: A Tantric Guide for Men Revealing the Techniques for Having Perfect Orgasms with One Woman for the Rest of Your Life (and for Women, the Operating Manual Your Husband Didn't Come With)." ¶In addition to being a highly regarded couples therapist who was the creative consultant behind the hit Showtime series Couples Therapy, Dr. Kriegman was also the Chief Psychologist at the maximum security Treatment Center for Sexually Dangerous Men. Without pulling any punches, without denying the darker side of human sexuality, Dr. Kriegman not only presents the case for monogamy, he also offers a unique look at human sexuality and explains how hypersexually charged males can find lifelong, marital bliss with one woman. ¶Dr. Daniel Kriegman — a much published psychologist and evolutionary biologist — demonstrates that, despite the well-known male longing for multiple sexual partners, despite the evidence of widespread infidelity, male sexual satisfaction reaches its ultimate glory when a man is in love with a woman. In a down-to-earth, Westernized version of Tantric practice, Dr. Kriegman elucidates how a man can discover the deepest meaning of his life: Only when head over heels in love can a man know the transcendent wonder and consummate joy that is his most profound longing. This is a commonplace truth: Such love is the essence of every great love story. In The Book of Monogamy, the reader learns how ordinary men and women can live in such marital bliss. ¶Dr. Kriegman presents a story of discovery based on scholarly research, extensive work with his patients, as well as his personal experience in love. The Book of Monogamy takes John Gray’s tame Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus into the 21st century to produce a guide for monogamous marriage and fidelity built around overt, male, sexual worship of one woman. ¶In a no-holds-barred examination of marriage and human sexuality, Dr. Kriegman presents an uninhibited manual that shows men how to remain ecstatically in love with their wives for a long as they both shall live. The marital result is an endless and plentiful series of perfect orgasms that, for men, form the unshakable core of truly loving relationships. ¶During courtship, couples typically find themselves in a state of heightened sexual attraction. Once the relationship starts to include sexual activity, virtually every time they see one another, the new lovers are drawn into physical contact. ¶And then the honeymoon ends. The couple starts to take the relationship for granted as they turn their focus to other life tasks. While this is normal and to some degree inevitable — courting and mating must coexist with other vital activities — honeymoon’s end is also coupled with greater emotional distance and heightened conflict. Dr. Kriegman asks the reader to consider what it would be like if the honeymoon could last forever. The Book of Monogamy is a realistic, practical manual showing how to make that happen.
Published: Jan. 1, 2024
ISBN: ‎ 979-8989740536

The First Book of Yo: Meditations on Godhood, An Exploration of Mystical Experience, and Proof of the Existence of God

This groundbreaking work presents Yoism: The World’s First Open-Source Religion. Borrowing from the best ideas, rituals, and symbols found in religions, enlightenment philosophy, and modern science, Yoism brings together the vital essence of human spirituality and wisdom. ¶A co-creation by all its followers, Yoism bases its beliefs on the direct experiences available to all members of the community. Modeled on open-source projects such as Wikipedia, Yoans are all invited to have a voice in creating Yoism. Yoans scour the vast resources of human knowledge and bring together the best spiritual understandings that have been created by humanity. ¶In the beginning was the Bang . . . ¶For example, Yoans have rewritten the tale found in the Book of Genesis so that the Yoan story of creation comports with modern physics and the Big Bang. While based in empirically verifiable science, Yoism came into being after Dr. Kriegman first saw God in 1969. In The First Book of Yo, he articulates what happens when an empirical scientist sees God and then creates a religion based only on beliefs that can be verified by each participant. While Yoism was still just beginning to develop, open-source movements began to take form utilizing the internet and the new social media. Realizing the extraordinary potential of a movement that could create something as marvelous as Wikipedia, Yoans embraced this new social technology and Yoism became the world’s first open-source religion. ¶With thousands of followers all over the world, Yoism is being recognized as providing something new, unique, and in many cases, life changing. There have been articles about Yoism in The Boston Globe, The Los Angeles Times, Search Magazine, as well as a 2005 reference to an early yoism.org page in The New York Times. Yoism’s crude, unpolished website received millions of visits. ¶The Apostle to the Atheists ¶And now, in The First Book of Yo, Dr. Kriegman bears witness to the experience of seeing God and explores how one can make sense out of profound religious experience while remaining true to the principles of science. This book explores and illuminates the mystical experience that many have experienced through the use of psychedelic entheogens. ¶In addition to his published books and many articles in peer reviewed, academic, professional journals, Dr. Kriegman has served as a peer reviewer for major journals such as the Journal of the American Psychoanalytic Association and the International Journal of Psychoanalysis. He was the Chief Psychologist for the Massachusetts Treatment Center for Sexually Dangerous Persons where he evaluated and treated rapists, child molesters, and murderers. To this day, he is frequently deemed an “expert witness” in court regarding dangerousness. Dr. Kriegman has supervised the evaluations and testified in the trials of thousands of people facing involuntary commitment. He’s been an invited plenary speaker at international conferences on psychoanalytic treatment. Dr. Kriegman is a well-known therapist who is often sent the cases of some of the most difficult patients when other senior clinicians find themselves stymied. ¶In short, Dr. Kriegman is a respected, levelheaded, clinical psychologist as evidenced by the judgements of mental health professionals and by hundreds of rulings by state and federal court judges. ¶And now he is ready to tell his story of his encounter with God. Along the way, he will present the first irrefutable proof of God’s existence. In straightforward, down-to-earth language, Dr. Kriegman explains mystical experience and proves the existence of something beyond the known world that is the source of reality as we know it. Then he describes what it means to live with God.
Published: Jan. 1, 2024
ISBN: 979-8989740529
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