WE CAME, WE SAW, WE LEFT

A vivid chronicle of a family's intrepid sojourn.

In the fall of 2016, Wheelan, a professor of public policy at Dartmouth, and his wife, Leah, who taught high school math, both just turned 50, decided to embark on a daring midlife adventure: traveling the world for nine months, accompanied by their three teenage children. Having traveled with Leah when the two were much younger, the author was convinced that they would again find that “the world is an interesting place,” the time away would give them a much-needed period to recharge and reflect, and—because they rented their house and put budget-conscious Leah in charge of expenses—the trip would be affordable. Most important, the “gap year” would give the family a chance to “push back” against conformity and break out of the “bubble” of American life. Wheelan offers an entertaining, upbeat account of the trip, often astonishingly beautiful and sometimes harrowing. They encountered snakes, huge spiders, inch-long bullet ants, mosquitoes, quicksand, and a flesh-eating parasite; missed buses, trains, and planes; wilted in enervating heat and humidity; and dealt with profuse vomiting, since all of the children succumbed at various times to motion sickness. Still, Wheelan writes, “during the stretches when I was not worried about dying, I felt deeply relaxed.” Traveling with teenagers—and home-schooling two of them—posed its own challenges: Their 18-year daughter insisted on being independent and occasionally left to travel with friends; their garrulous 13-year-old son became a judgmental environmentalist; and their 16-year-old refused to meet her school deadlines. Wheelan records five full-blown family meltdowns and many conflicts, requiring Leah to sometimes function “like the conductor of a needy symphony orchestra.” Nevertheless, Wheelan deems the trip a success: The “quirky experiences” taught the family about the world’s immense diversity and their own capabilities.

A charming celebration of discovery.