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THE SURVIVAL GUIDE TO BULLYING by Aija Mayrock

THE SURVIVAL GUIDE TO BULLYING

Written by a Teen

by Aija Mayrock

Pub Date: Aug. 25th, 2015
ISBN: 978-0-545-86066-6
Publisher: Scholastic

Author Mayrock, a teen who was bullied for many years, offers tips and inspiration to others in her position.

Advice is presented in short, visually appealing chapters. Exercises, lists, drawings, and pull quotes are interleaved with text, and blue, bolded lettering emphasizes key lines. Each chapter opens with a heartfelt "roem"—a term the author has coined for her rap poems—in type that emulates handwriting set on a lined page. Creativity, Mayrock explains, has been one of the most powerful tools in her healing process. Throughout the book, suggestions are helpfully broad-ranging, from nitty-gritty safety tips (if you go to a party, make sure you have a trustworthy ride home) to internal affirmations (bullying is never your fault). One of the most effective chapters invites readers to identify traits bullies target and reframe them as positives; the author describes her own quietness, creativity, and long, thick hair as examples. The author writes transparently from personal experience, and some of the specific emotional impacts or bullying tactics she describes might not be wholly universal. Nevertheless, her advice is varied and her compassion, genuine enough that readers are bound to find plenty of applicable nuggets as well as a wealth of encouragement.

Practical, moving, and deeply kind.

(Nonfiction. 10-18)