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SAM IS MY SISTER by Ashley Rhodes-Courter

SAM IS MY SISTER

by Ashley Rhodes-Courter ; illustrated by MacKenzie Haley

Pub Date: March 1st, 2021
ISBN: 978-0-8075-0651-6
Publisher: Whitman

Sam’s brother wonders if they can still play the same games now that Sam has come out as transgender.

“Brothers to the moon!” Evan proclaims as he leads his two siblings on an imaginary space journey. The only problem is that Sam isn’t his brother—she’s his sister. Evan is hurt that Sam doesn’t want to be like her brothers anymore; Sam wants long hair, bows, and princess books. With the help of supportive parents, Evan comes to understand and accept Sam’s choices and her autonomy, and he learns that even princesses can go to the moon. The simple, full-page illustrations portraying the White family are cute but feel aesthetically and emotionally stiff. Like most trans girls in fiction, Sam has stereotypically girly interests and many pink outfits, but Rhodes-Courter does point out that clothes, books, and hobbies are for everyone, regardless of gender. The text is a little more instructional than it is entertaining, but it successfully explains being transgender in a clear and age-appropriate way while demonstrating the value of a loving family. Though it falls into the unfortunate trap of centering the experience of cisgender family members, it does have a worthwhile lesson: Transitioning does not change who someone is in their heart.

A satisfactory trans picture book that can support discussion at home or school.

(author's note, resources) (Picture book. 4-7)