An inspiring and educational read for open-minded success seekers.
A leadership trainer and life coach offers a distinctive perspective on making choices.
In his debut book, Bourg examines what he perceives as “the two rivers of our minds.” It’s not as esoteric as it may sound. The author teaches readers how to choose a life of happiness and abundance over one ruled by detrimental “fears, acts,” and “beliefs.” He creates a fictional character, Captain Bon, who guides the audience on an adventurous journey to self-discovery. “Self” is the key word here. While the tale is ostensibly about Bon, a tugboat captain, the author invites readers to craft starring roles in their own stories. Bon dispenses his knowledge on a wide array of topics that can either help or hinder happiness and growth, among them: procrastination; habit forming and breaking; decision-making; imagination; strategic thinking; visualization; persistence; determination; and self-confidence. Bourg’s message emerges as Bon pursues his dream of traveling to Mount La Felicidad. His challenges and decisions along the way are drawn from some carefully curated life experiences of the author and others. Some of the book’s most instructive moments come when Bourg actively steps into the tale and speaks directly to readers rather than using his alter ego to illustrate his principles. Some may find that Bon (which means “good” in French) and La Felicidad (“happiness” in Spanish) make the concepts lighter and easier to digest; others may consider the literary device distracting or gimmicky. Regardless, the book provides valuable insights, such as the author’s 10 success principles and 10 success pitfalls. In addition, Bon’s seven truths about life include looking at existence through the uncorrupted eyes of a child. Lessons learned from Bon’s battle against his lifelong foil, Señor Doubter, are stirring. Bourg devotes a full chapter to Bon’s strategic choice: figuratively dividing himself into three entities (designer, engineer, and CEO), each with his own role in promoting success. The author half-jokingly acknowledges that the concept may cause some to question Bon’s sanity. But Bourg suggests that many accomplished people already live “their lives this way” even though they may be unaware of it.
An inspiring and educational read for open-minded success seekers.Pub Date: Oct. 9, 2019
ISBN: 978-1-5320-7042-6
Page Count: 270
Publisher: iUniverse
Review Posted Online: April 8, 2020
Review Program: Kirkus Indie
A sweet final word from an actor who leaves a legacy of compassion and kindness.
The late actor offers a gentle guide for living with more purpose, love, and joy.
Mixing poetry, prescriptive challenges, and elements of memoir, Heche (1969-2022) delivers a narrative that is more encouraging workbook than life story. The author wants to share what she has discovered over the course of a life filled with abuse, advocacy, and uncanny turning points. Her greatest discovery? Love. “Open yourself up to love and transform kindness from a feeling you extend to those around you to actions that you perform for them,” she writes. “Only by caring can we open ourselves up to the universe, and only by opening up to the universe can we fully experience all the wonders that it holds, the greatest of which is love.” Throughout the occasionally overwrought text, Heche is heavy on the concept of care. She wants us to experience joy as she does, and she provides a road map for how to get there. Instead of slinking away from Hollywood and the ridicule that she endured there, Heche found the good and hung on, with Alec Baldwin and Harrison Ford starring as particularly shining knights in her story. Some readers may dismiss this material as vapid Hollywood stuff, but Heche’s perspective is an empathetic blend of Buddhism (minimize suffering), dialectical behavioral therapy (tolerating distress), Christianity (do unto others), and pre-Socratic philosophy (sufficient reason). “You’re not out to change the whole world, but to increase the levels of love and kindness in the world, drop by drop,” she writes. “Over time, these actions wear away the coldness, hate, and indifference around us as surely as water slowly wearing away stone.” Readers grieving her loss will take solace knowing that she lived her love-filled life on her own terms. Heche’s business and podcast partner, Heather Duffy, writes the epilogue, closing the book on a life well lived.
A sweet final word from an actor who leaves a legacy of compassion and kindness.Pub Date: Jan. 24, 2023
ISBN: 9781627783316
Page Count: 176
Publisher: Viva Editions
Review Posted Online: Feb. 6, 2023
Kirkus Reviews Issue: March 1, 2023
Perhaps not magic but appealing nonetheless.
Want to get ahead in business? Consult a dictionary.
By Wharton School professor Berger’s account, much of the art of persuasion lies in the art of choosing the right word. Want to jump ahead of others waiting in line to use a photocopy machine, even if they’re grizzled New Yorkers? Throw a because into the equation (“Excuse me, I have five pages. May I use the Xerox machine, because I’m in a rush?”), and you’re likely to get your way. Want someone to do your copying for you? Then change your verbs to nouns: not “Can you help me?” but “Can you be a helper?” As Berger notes, there’s a subtle psychological shift at play when a person becomes not a mere instrument in helping but instead acquires an identity as a helper. It’s the little things, one supposes, and the author offers some interesting strategies that eager readers will want to try out. Instead of alienating a listener with the omniscient should, as in “You should do this,” try could instead: “Well, you could…” induces all concerned “to recognize that there might be other possibilities.” Berger’s counsel that one should use abstractions contradicts his admonition to use concrete language, and it doesn’t help matters to say that each is appropriate to a particular situation, while grammarians will wince at his suggestion that a nerve-calming exercise to “try talking to yourself in the third person (‘You can do it!’)” in fact invokes the second person. Still, there are plenty of useful insights, particularly for students of advertising and public speaking. It’s intriguing to note that appeals to God are less effective in securing a loan than a simple affirmative such as “I pay all bills…on time”), and it’s helpful to keep in mind that “the right words used at the right time can have immense power.”
Perhaps not magic but appealing nonetheless.Pub Date: March 7, 2023
ISBN: 9780063204935
Page Count: 256
Publisher: Harper Business
Review Posted Online: March 23, 2023
Kirkus Reviews Issue: April 15, 2023
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