PARENT-CHILD GUIDE TO COPING WITH ANXIETY

An interactive guide focuses on managing anxiety.

Stress can feel overwhelming, especially for children. But with parental support, kids can learn to manage their fears, coping with strong emotions in healthy ways. Aimed at children between the ages of 8 and 12, Dessy Marinova’s manual provides valuable insights into emotional wellness for preadolescents. Asserting that stress management starts with role modeling, the author opens with a discussion about parental resilience, encompassing topics such as self-care, self-appreciation, and validation of feelings. Next, readers are led on a parent-child journey through emotional management. To serve as guides on this educational adventure, the author introduces Aimie, Brightie, and Dooie. Representing the amygdala, the region of the brain that controls the fear response, Aimie is portrayed as a protective presence. But this role can sometimes result in misguided fear reactions. Brightie, who embodies regions of the cerebral cortex, plays a part in fostering the imagination. When “enchanted” by Aimie, Brightie may deliver mental projections of worrisome thoughts. Lastly, Dooie signifies the brain’s motor responses, located in the prefrontal cortex. When influenced by signals from Aimie and Brightie, Dooie may spark such behaviors as running away and hiding from new experiences. Depicted as cute cartoon friends, these characters will help children and adults recognize and manage emotional reactions, demystifying the responses people feel to new or challenging stimuli. Designed as a workbook, the volume provides activities that encourage kids and adults to explore their reactions to stressful scenarios in their lives. Offering techniques to cope with anxiety, playfully referred to as “brain snacks,” the author coaches readers on contextualizing, managing, and releasing stressful thoughts. Presenting illustrations and insights by the author’s young daughter, Lora Marinova, the guide thoughtfully balances science and accessibility. Yet one of the work’s most beneficial elements may be its framing of anxiety as a protective response. Describing anxiety as the product of a “Super-Protective-Aimie,” the book effectively destigmatizes fear, encouraging children and adults to see stress as a normal—even positive—hormonal response, which can result in happy outcomes.

Filled with fun activities, this manual will help readers of all ages deal with anxiety.