This is a sort of Junior Sex and the Single Man--a manual of handy approaches (if you don't know how to unhook a bra--start practising with one of those little foundation garments) to what Dr. Ellis calls modified seduction, a facon de parler we find difficult to distinguish from that older fashioned term he also uses, ""going the limit."" The book is prefaced by a little Emily Posting (be polite; don't manhandle her, etc.) before going into a very precise, persistent description of all techniques. You won't need to be reminded that Ellis believes in the free love ethic (he does not sponsor adultery here as he did recently in the press)--he could be an old hippy offering the young de-flower power.