CAN I GIVE YOU A SQUISH?

A lesson in consent delivered under the sea.

Kai is an affectionate merboy with light brown skin on his torso and an orange-scaled fish tale. He lives under the sea with his mermaid mama, who shares his skin color but has a silvery tail and flowing, white tresses instead of his blue-black hair. She warmly welcomes her son’s “squishes,” the text’s word for hugs, which seems ideally suited to the aquatic setting. In fact, lots of sea creatures enjoy Kai’s squishes, including an octopus, a lobster, and a dolphin. But when Kai swims up behind a puffer fish and gives it a squish, the startled fish puffs up alarmingly. Kai feels terrible about this turn of events, and his friends help him figure out how to make amends and do better next time. Ensuing pages show Kai and his friends asking for and then giving fin bumps, tail claps, and tentacle shakes. Humor, especially when the crab asks, “Does anybody want a claw pinch?” helps the intentionally instructive text avoid preachiness. Likewise, the tropical palette and rounded cartoon-style characters create a playful sensibility from one page to the next. Unfortunately, the story does not explicitly validate the right to refuse any contact at all.

A mostly nifty vehicle to teach little ones about personal space, respect, consent, and bodily autonomy.