A few words to the wise -- and unwise -- in friendly, light manner. Good horse sense, but nothing very basic psychologically speaking. The purpose of the book is to tell the truths about divorce, and to offer advice on behavior. First -- what there is to loss, socially, financially, emotionally -- and the gamble of a second husband. Second, -- such things as the first year hurdles, children and their relation to you and your ""ex"", family and friends, and the dangers of repeating the first errors. Intended to make you look before you leap.