A bracing and heartfelt call to abandon false humility in favor of the genuine article.
A spiritual work offers an examination of authentic Christian humility.
Many people, writes Seah, including myriad Christians, misunderstand the quality of humility. They see it as a lesser value, focusing instead on things like grace, kindness, or love. Far too many folks, he asserts, consider humility a weakness and take offense at the suggestion that they should learn to practice it themselves. The author’s inquiries into the subject revealed to him the workings of related concepts, like proud, boastful false humility. To Seah, true inner humility is based on an internal assessment of an individual’s own personal strengths and weaknesses and manifests itself on different levels, which he deftly explores. In order to illustrate the various pitfalls people can encounter along the way, the author presents both real figures like Jim Jones and fictionalized characters, such as “Mister Numb,” who exemplifies some of the worst results of false humility (“Left to himself, with no social interaction, Mister Numb will develop a toxic and vicious cycle of dark thoughts”). Since the 1970s, Seah writes, “rising trends of the self have turned many toward self-fulfillment, self-gratification, and self-indulgent behaviors.” By embracing these trends, numerous people fall into pride and false humility. But through his Christian beliefs, Seah was able to unravel the important facts about “True Humility,” which he characterizes as a “fun, meaningful, and collaborative process” while admitting it can feel daunting, especially if attempted alone. In his earnest work, the author’s thoughts on the broader subject of humility are intriguing and simply written, and it won’t only be his Christian readers who will benefit from a plea for greater mindfulness and less braggadocio. As a timely antidote to the ubiquitous “humble bragging” of today’s social media culture, the book’s many gentle calls for a low-key, unassuming perspective that gives as much credit to others as it claims for itself are both relevant and refreshing.
A bracing and heartfelt call to abandon false humility in favor of the genuine article.Pub Date: Oct. 19, 2021
ISBN: 978-1-63299-442-4
Page Count: 208
Publisher: River Grove Books
Review Posted Online: Oct. 21, 2021
Review Program: Kirkus Indie
A conversational, pleasurable look into McConaughey’s life and thought.
All right, all right, all right: The affable, laconic actor delivers a combination of memoir and self-help book.
“This is an approach book,” writes McConaughey, adding that it contains “philosophies that can be objectively understood, and if you choose, subjectively adopted, by either changing your reality, or changing how you see it. This is a playbook, based on adventures in my life.” Some of those philosophies come in the form of apothegms: “When you can design your own weather, blow in the breeze”; “Simplify, focus, conserve to liberate.” Others come in the form of sometimes rambling stories that never take the shortest route from point A to point B, as when he recounts a dream-spurred, challenging visit to the Malian musician Ali Farka Touré, who offered a significant lesson in how disagreement can be expressed politely and without rancor. Fans of McConaughey will enjoy his memories—which line up squarely with other accounts in Melissa Maerz’s recent oral history, Alright, Alright, Alright—of his debut in Richard Linklater’s Dazed and Confused, to which he contributed not just that signature phrase, but also a kind of too-cool-for-school hipness that dissolves a bit upon realizing that he’s an older guy on the prowl for teenage girls. McConaughey’s prep to settle into the role of Wooderson involved inhabiting the mind of a dude who digs cars, rock ’n’ roll, and “chicks,” and he ran with it, reminding readers that the film originally had only three scripted scenes for his character. The lesson: “Do one thing well, then another. Once, then once more.” It’s clear that the author is a thoughtful man, even an intellectual of sorts, though without the earnestness of Ethan Hawke or James Franco. Though some of the sentiments are greeting card–ish, this book is entertaining and full of good lessons.
A conversational, pleasurable look into McConaughey’s life and thought.Pub Date: Oct. 20, 2020
ISBN: 978-0-593-13913-4
Page Count: 304
Publisher: Crown
Review Posted Online: Oct. 27, 2020
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Dec. 1, 2020
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If the authors are serious, this is a silly, distasteful book. If they are not, it’s a brilliant satire.
The authors have created a sort of anti-Book of Virtues in this encyclopedic compendium of the ways and means of power.
Everyone wants power and everyone is in a constant duplicitous game to gain more power at the expense of others, according to Greene, a screenwriter and former editor at Esquire (Elffers, a book packager, designed the volume, with its attractive marginalia). We live today as courtiers once did in royal courts: we must appear civil while attempting to crush all those around us. This power game can be played well or poorly, and in these 48 laws culled from the history and wisdom of the world’s greatest power players are the rules that must be followed to win. These laws boil down to being as ruthless, selfish, manipulative, and deceitful as possible. Each law, however, gets its own chapter: “Conceal Your Intentions,” “Always Say Less Than Necessary,” “Pose as a Friend, Work as a Spy,” and so on. Each chapter is conveniently broken down into sections on what happened to those who transgressed or observed the particular law, the key elements in this law, and ways to defensively reverse this law when it’s used against you. Quotations in the margins amplify the lesson being taught. While compelling in the way an auto accident might be, the book is simply nonsense. Rules often contradict each other. We are told, for instance, to “be conspicuous at all cost,” then told to “behave like others.” More seriously, Greene never really defines “power,” and he merely asserts, rather than offers evidence for, the Hobbesian world of all against all in which he insists we live. The world may be like this at times, but often it isn’t. To ask why this is so would be a far more useful project.
If the authors are serious, this is a silly, distasteful book. If they are not, it’s a brilliant satire.Pub Date: Sept. 1, 1998
ISBN: 0-670-88146-5
Page Count: 430
Publisher: Viking
Review Posted Online: May 19, 2010
Kirkus Reviews Issue: July 15, 1998
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