An amiably narrated LGBTQ+ odyssey through equitable polyamory and nontraditional child rearing.
A “throuple” embarks on the joys and pains of parenting.
In 2003, Jenkins, a Boston physician, fell in love with Harvard medical student Alan, and the couple soon relocated to San Diego. Years later, Jeremy, a zookeeper and a conservative pastor’s son who had just come out to his parents, entered the picture, and they formed a polyamorous triad. As they evolved further, the author describes their modern family as incomplete, and the discussion of children became commonplace. After months of careful consideration, deliberation, and planning, the three men set out on a journey to become poly parents and birth a child through surrogacy, which, as Jenkins notes, attaches its own set of complex challenges. The narrative voice oscillates between serious and humorous, as the author shows how their experience—though ultimately successful—was riddled with problems and stumbling blocks. The in-vitro fertilization procedure took several attempts, their physician became problematic, they had to deal with the threat of the Zika virus alongside domestic complications, and they engaged in epic battles with both doctors and lawyers. “Surrogacy comes with wallet-crushing expenses,” writes Jenkins. “The most painful costs are the ones that don’t even directly contribute to the baby making—like our legal expenses, which seemed almost unreal. We sometimes wondered if IVF doctors cared about their patients’ expenses at all, or if they just wanted to hear that their asses were covered for any upcoming medical procedures.” Throughout the book, the trio’s love and respect for each other are evident, and Jenkins makes it clear that their journey was not embarked upon lightly. The author wisely includes the perspectives of his partners, as well, creating a unique family portrait. Their two children became the first to have birth certificates recognizing the legal parenthood of the three fathers.
An amiably narrated LGBTQ+ odyssey through equitable polyamory and nontraditional child rearing.Pub Date: March 9, 2021
ISBN: 978-1-62778-310-1
Page Count: 286
Publisher: Cleis
Review Posted Online: Dec. 4, 2020
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Dec. 1, 2020
Spears’ vulnerability shines through as she describes her painful journey from vulnerable girl to empowered woman.
A heartfelt memoir from the pop superstar.
Spears grew up with an alcoholic father, an exacting mother, and a fear of disappointing them both. She also displayed a natural talent for singing and dancing and a strong work ethic. Spears is grateful for the adult professionals who helped her get her start, but the same can’t be said of her peers. When she met Justin Timberlake, also a Mouseketeer on the Disney Channel’s updated Mickey Mouse Club, the two formed an instant bond. Spears describes her teenage feelings for Timberlake as “so in love with him it was pathetic,” and she’s clearly angry about the rumors and breakup that followed. This tumultuous period haunted her for years. Out of many candidates for villains of the book, Timberlake included, perhaps the worst are the careless journalists of the late 1990s and early 2000s, who indulged Timberlake while vilifying Spears. The cycle repeated for years, taking its toll on her mental health. Spears gave birth to sons Sean Preston and Jayden James within two years, and she describes the difficulties they all faced living in the spotlight. The author writes passionately about how custody of her boys and visits with them were held over her head, and she recounts how they were used to coerce her to make decisions that weren’t always in her best interest. As many readers know, conservancy followed, and for 13 years, she toured, held a residency in Las Vegas, and performed—all while supposedly unable to take care of herself, an irony not lost on her. Overall, the book is cathartic, though readers who followed her 2021 trial won’t find many revelations, and many of the other newsworthy items have been widely covered in the run-up to the book’s release.
Spears’ vulnerability shines through as she describes her painful journey from vulnerable girl to empowered woman.Pub Date: Oct. 24, 2023
ISBN: 9781668009048
Page Count: 288
Publisher: Gallery Books/Simon & Schuster
Review Posted Online: Oct. 25, 2023
Kirkus Reviews Issue: tomorrow
SEEN & HEARD
SEEN & HEARD
SEEN & HEARD
What a talent, what a career, what a life, and what a treat to relive it all with this most down-to-earth of demigods.
A gloriously massive memoir from a sui generis star.
When Keith Richards and Bruce Springsteen published 500-page memoirs, that seemed long—but as we learned, they really did have that much to say. Streisand doubles the ante with 1,000 pages. In addition to chronicling her own life, the author offers fascinating lessons on acting, directing, film editing, sound mixing, lighting, and more, as revealed in detailed accounts of the making of each of her projects. As Stephen Sondheim commented about her, “It’s not just the gift, it’s the willingness to take infinite pains.” The pains really pay off. With every phase of her life, from childhood in Brooklyn to her 27-year-romance with current husband, James Brolin, Streisand throws everything she has—including her mother’s scrapbook and her own considerable talent as a writer—into developing the characters, settings, conversations, meals, clothes, and favorite colors and numbers of a passionately lived existence. In the process, she puts her unique stamp on coffee ice cream, egg rolls, dusty rose, pewter gray, the number 24, Donna Karan, Modigliani, and much more. Among the heroes are her father, who died when she was very young but nevertheless became an ongoing inspiration. The villains include her mother, whose coldness and jealousy were just as consistent. An armada of ex-boyfriends, colleagues, and collaborators come to life in a tone that captures the feel of Streisand’s spoken voice by way of Yiddishisms, parenthetical asides, and snappy second thoughts. The end is a little heavy on tributes, but you wouldn’t want to miss the dog cloning, the generous photo section, or this line, delivered in all seriousness: “Looking back, I feel as if I didn't fulfill my potential.”
What a talent, what a career, what a life, and what a treat to relive it all with this most down-to-earth of demigods.Pub Date: Nov. 7, 2023
ISBN: 9780525429524
Page Count: 992
Publisher: Viking
Review Posted Online: Nov. 6, 2023
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Dec. 15, 2023
SEEN & HEARD
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