Skillfully outlines how to prepare for and raise a child out of wedlock.
A complete guide to having a baby without being married.
Jim and Jessica Braz begin their book with some eye-opening numbers: nearly 40% of all births in America take place with unmarried parents—1,500,000 children are born out of wedlock every day. Those parents will have lots of questions, and the authors answer many of them here. Some topics will be familiar to parents reviewing information on childbirth: miscarriages, C-sections, vaccinations, and sudden infant death syndrome. But given the book’s emphasis on co-parenting that happens without the benefit (social and legal) of a marriage contract, much of their book deals with varying concepts of cooperation, ways for two people who are not technically bound to each other to work together for the sake of their child. The authors have been through this personally (they are married now, but each has had a child out of wedlock) and know the intricacies of, for instance, dealing with lawyers, warning their readers, “some attorneys are more interested in increasing their billable hours than doing what’s best for you.” If the need arises, it’s the lawyers who’ll establish the limits of sole physical custody, joint physical custody, and the complications of legal custody in all its forms. Those and other concerns—everything from prenatal care to school issues—arise from all aspects of having a child out of wedlock, and the authors tackle all of those complications with warmth, sympathy, and a very approachable style. They suggest a variety of ways to avoid escalating arguments—and are also very clear about what to do when the situation can’t be saved, if, for instance, the mother isn’t taking care of her health during pregnancy: “If you are begging and pleading for your unborn child’s well-being and Mom still won’t listen to reason,” they write, “then at that point, we think you would need to consult your lawyer.” Readers dealing with these kinds of issues will find this book invaluable, particularly with regard to negotiation.
Skillfully outlines how to prepare for and raise a child out of wedlock.Pub Date: May 30, 2021
ISBN: 978-1-73-681680-6
Page Count: 204
Publisher: BOOW
Review Posted Online: June 3, 2021
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Aug. 1, 2021
Review Program: Kirkus Indie
A powerful reiteration of principles—and some fresh ideas—from the longest-serving independent in congressional history.
Another chapter in a long fight against inequality.
Building on his Fighting Oligarchy tour, which this year drew 280,000 people to rallies in red and blue states, Sanders amplifies his enduring campaign for economic fairness. The Vermont senator offers well-timed advice for combating corruption and issues a robust plea for national soul-searching. His argument rests on alarming data on the widening wealth gap’s impact on democracy. Bolstered by a 2010 Supreme Court decision that removed campaign finance limits, “100 billionaire families spent $2.6 billion” on 2024 elections. Sanders focuses on the Trump administration and congressional Republicans, describing their enactment of the “Big Beautiful Bill,” with its $1 trillion in tax breaks for the richest Americans and big social safety net cuts, as the “largest transfer of wealth” in living memory. But as is his custom, he spreads the blame, dinging Democrats for courting wealthy donors while ignoring the “needs and suffering” of the working class. “Trump filled the political vacuum that the Democrats created,” he writes, a resonant diagnosis. Urging readers not to surrender to despair, Sanders offers numerous legislative proposals. These would empower labor unions, cut the workweek to 32 hours, regulate campaign spending, reduce gerrymandering, and automatically register 18-year-olds to vote. Grassroots supporters can help by running for local office, volunteering with a campaign, and asking educators how to help support public schools. Meanwhile, Sanders asks us “to question the fundamental moral values that underlie” a system that enables “the top 1 percent” to “own more wealth than the bottom 93 percent.” Though his prose sometimes reads like a transcribed speech with built-in applause lines, Sanders’ ideas are specific, clear, and commonsensical. And because it echoes previous statements, his call for collective introspection lands as genuine.
A powerful reiteration of principles—and some fresh ideas—from the longest-serving independent in congressional history.Pub Date: Oct. 21, 2025
ISBN: 9798217089161
Page Count: 160
Publisher: Crown
Review Posted Online: Oct. 21, 2025
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Dec. 15, 2025
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A moving meditation on mortality by a gifted writer whose dual perspectives of physician and patient provide a singular...
A neurosurgeon with a passion for literature tragically finds his perfect subject after his diagnosis of terminal lung cancer.
Writing isn’t brain surgery, but it’s rare when someone adept at the latter is also so accomplished at the former. Searching for meaning and purpose in his life, Kalanithi pursued a doctorate in literature and had felt certain that he wouldn’t enter the field of medicine, in which his father and other members of his family excelled. “But I couldn’t let go of the question,” he writes, after realizing that his goals “didn’t quite fit in an English department.” “Where did biology, morality, literature and philosophy intersect?” So he decided to set aside his doctoral dissertation and belatedly prepare for medical school, which “would allow me a chance to find answers that are not in books, to find a different sort of sublime, to forge relationships with the suffering, and to keep following the question of what makes human life meaningful, even in the face of death and decay.” The author’s empathy undoubtedly made him an exceptional doctor, and the precision of his prose—as well as the moral purpose underscoring it—suggests that he could have written a good book on any subject he chose. Part of what makes this book so essential is the fact that it was written under a death sentence following the diagnosis that upended his life, just as he was preparing to end his residency and attract offers at the top of his profession. Kalanithi learned he might have 10 years to live or perhaps five. Should he return to neurosurgery (he could and did), or should he write (he also did)? Should he and his wife have a baby? They did, eight months before he died, which was less than two years after the original diagnosis. “The fact of death is unsettling,” he understates. “Yet there is no other way to live.”
A moving meditation on mortality by a gifted writer whose dual perspectives of physician and patient provide a singular clarity.Pub Date: Jan. 19, 2016
ISBN: 978-0-8129-8840-6
Page Count: 248
Publisher: Random House
Review Posted Online: Sept. 29, 2015
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Oct. 15, 2015
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