A sincere memoir about growing up an immigrant and overcoming adversity through hard work and humor.
Koy, the star of numerous Netflix and Comedy Central specials, tells the stories behind his jokes, promising in the introduction to get real and personal in a way he never has before. “I never really opened up about all the barriers I had to overcome in the racist entertainment industry as I built my career brick by brick and show by show,” he writes. “I never really opened up—until this book.” Readers familiar with the author’s stand-up will still find the swagger, foul language, and family-inspired humor intact but also genuine care for his storytelling. Koy relates the difficulty of navigating his own identity as the son of an American military father and Filipino band-managing mother. “My mom is where I get all my talent from, no question,” writes the author—in addition to his meticulous study of the comics he loved as a child and Filipino upbringing in general, a community with “entertainment in our blood, running through our veins. People as poor as us, all we’ve got is entertainment.” When his older brother’s schizophrenia prompted his father to leave, Koy began to struggle with this unstable home life and lackluster academic ambitions. After listening to Richard Pryor on cassette and seeing Eddie Murphy: Delirious, he decided to become a comedian, a winding journey that eventually led to success after battles with prejudice and his own initial shortcomings. Throughout, Koy is candid and heartfelt about his family and personal life, and he provides an illuminating behind-the-scenes look at his artistic process, which involves not just joke-writing but real introspection. Featuring countless moments of hilarity, the narrative also serves as an opportunity for the author to connect with his audience beyond the stage.
Koy goes behind the funny, showing his wide-ranging comedic talent and abundant wells of perseverance.