A personal, conversational guide to successfully working through loss.
A self-help book that explores the many different causes and types of grieving.
Cappello (Soul Exercises for the Open Mind, 2015, etc.) explores various manifestations of grief in this study—from feeling like a victim to bullying others to addiction and depression. Loss isn’t always accidental or shocking, the author points out, and it’s sometimes self-inflicted, but grief can still set in, all the same. He recognizes the universal need for coping practices that can help people to avoid becoming stuck in a cycle of despair. The book prominently notes that calling on virtues, such as compassion and empathy, can help one push through stages of the grieving process, including anger and denial. Cappello also stresses the importance of other virtues, such as steadfastness, thrift, gratitude, reliability, and chastity, which he says can help build one’s self-worth. The book is divided into two parts, with the first looking at grief from a broad perspective and the second exploring specific types of grieving and related healing practices. Throughout, the author relays illustrative stories and anecdotes about his clients as a psychic medium. From its very first pages, this guide effectively reinforces the idea that one shouldn’t pass judgment on other people’s grief—a refreshing approach that avoids normative statements about how to cope with loss. In all, this is a unique guide that provides useful strategies for emotional growth after a loved one’s death. Interestingly, the author uses the first letters of each chapter title to create an acronym (spelling out “HEAL THE HEART”), with each chapter addressing an important element of recovery (“Healing Requires Making a Decision,” “Expressing Gratitude,” “Adaptability,” and so on). The affirmations (such as “I deserve to be happy and live a fulfilled life”) and practical guidance at the end of each chapter make this book a particularly powerful coping tool.
A personal, conversational guide to successfully working through loss.Pub Date: Nov. 4, 2016
ISBN: 978-1-5043-6268-9
Page Count: 193
Publisher: BalboaPress
Review Posted Online: Feb. 14, 2017
Review Program: Kirkus Indie
Honest messages from one of America's best known women.
A compilation of advice from the Queen of All Media.
After writing a column for 14 years titled “What I Know For Sure” for O, The Oprah Winfrey Magazine, Winfrey brings together the highlights into one gift-ready collection. Grouped into themes like Joy, Resilience, Connection, Gratitude, Possibility, Awe, Clarity and Power, each short essay is the distilled thought of a woman who has taken the time to contemplate her life’s journey thus far. Whether she is discussing traveling across the country with her good friend, Gayle, the life she shares with her dogs or building a fire in the fireplace, Winfrey takes each moment and finds the good in it, takes pride in having lived it and embraces the message she’s received from that particular time. Through her actions and her words, she shows readers how she's turned potentially negative moments into life-enhancing experiences, how she's found bliss in simple pleasures like a perfectly ripe peach, and how she's overcome social anxiety to become part of a bigger community. She discusses the yo-yo dieting, exercise and calorie counting she endured for almost two decades as she tried to modify her physical body into something it was not meant to be, and how one day she decided she needed to be grateful for each and every body part: "This is the body you've been given—love what you've got." Since all of the sections are brief and many of the essays are only a couple paragraphs long—and many members of the target audience will have already read them in the magazine—they are best digested in short segments in order to absorb Winfrey's positive and joyful but repetitive message. The book also features a new introduction by the author.
Honest messages from one of America's best known women.Pub Date: Sept. 2, 2014
ISBN: 978-1250054050
Page Count: 240
Publisher: Flatiron View Books
Review Posted Online: Aug. 22, 2014
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Aug. 1, 2014
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An eye-opening glimpse into the attempted self-unmaking of one of Hollywood’s most recognizable talents.
The debut memoir from the pop and fashion star.
Early on, Simpson describes the book she didn’t write: “a motivational manual telling you how to live your best life.” Though having committed to the lucrative deal years before, she “walked away,” fearing any sort of self-help advice she might give would be hypocritical. Outwardly, Simpson was at the peak of her success, with her fashion line generating “one billion dollars in annual sales.” However, anxiety was getting the better of her, and she admits she’d become a “feelings addict,” just needing “enough noise to distract me from the pain I’d been avoiding since childhood. The demons of traumatic abuse that refused to let me sleep at night—Tylenol PM at age twelve, red wine and Ambien as a grown, scared woman. Those same demons who perched on my shoulder, and when they saw a man as dark as them, leaned in to my ear to whisper, ‘Just give him your light. See if it saves him…’ ” On Halloween 2017, Simpson hit rock bottom, and, with the intervention of her devoted friends and husband, began to address her addictions and underlying fears. In this readable but overlong narrative, the author traces her childhood as a Baptist preacher’s daughter moving 18 times before she “hit fifth grade,” and follows her remarkable rise to fame as a singer. She reveals the psychological trauma resulting from years of sexual abuse by a family friend, experiences that drew her repeatedly into bad relationships with men, most publicly with ex-husband Nick Lachey. Admitting that she was attracted to the validating power of an audience, Simpson analyzes how her failings and triumphs have enabled her to take control of her life, even as she was hounded by the press and various music and movie executives about her weight. Simpson’s memoir contains plenty of personal and professional moments for fans to savor. One of Kirkus and Rolling Stone’s Best Music Books of 2020.
An eye-opening glimpse into the attempted self-unmaking of one of Hollywood’s most recognizable talents.Pub Date: Feb. 4, 2020
ISBN: 978-0-06-289996-5
Page Count: 416
Publisher: Dey Street/HarperCollins
Review Posted Online: Feb. 15, 2020
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