SECRETS THAT SPARKLE (AND SECRETS THAT STING)

In this picture book, kids learn the difference between secrets that should be kept and those that should be shared.

Stephenson-Laws uses simple verse in an ABCB rhyme scheme to introduce the idea that there are different kinds of secrets: “Some secrets are sweet, / like a gift in a box, / But some hide a feeling / that squiggles and knocks.” Examples of “sweet” secrets include hiding a birthday card for dad’s surprise party. Examples of secrets that should be shared with a trusted adult are never explicitly stated and can therefore refer to a wide variety of circumstances. References to “words or touch” that feel “wrong or unclear”—along with the reminder that “your body is yours, / from your toes to your core”—heavily infer that such secrets involve sexual abuse. The book reassures readers they will never be blamed for what happened or for sharing the “secret.” Stephenson-Laws approaches a potentially tricky topic with empathy and actionable guidelines, such as encouraging kids to trust their gut by acting on the “twisty” and “yuck” feelings when asked to keep secrets they shouldn’t. Uzoka’s illustrations consist of beautiful watercolor blends in an old-fashioned style featuring diverse ethnicities. Unfortunately, they also reinforce the stereotype that only men can be predators. Despite this, the author’s reassuring words pair well with the images’ soft colors, resulting in a calming yet encouraging approach to a difficult issue.

A thoughtful primer for children that comfortingly and articulately explains a delicate topic.