BODY TRAPS

BREAKING THE BINDS THAT KEEP YOU FROM FEELING GOOD ABOUT YOUR BODY

Rodin (Dean of Yale's Graduate School and head of a eating- disorder clinic at Yale) anatomizes women's obsessions with their bodies (with a nod to the occasional male fixation) and offers strategies for breaking these ``body traps.'' Women's concern with their appearance has never been more burdensome than now, Rodin says. This is partly because of the images of perfection incessantly imposed by the media; partly because of the seeming attainability of that perfection through new technology and rigid diet and health regimens; and partly because the new economic opportunities open to women have proved so unsettling to women and men alike that women feel compelled to be even more beautiful to compensate for their increased power. Rodin identifies several ``traps,'' or common forms of obsession—among them, shame at caring so much about ``trivial'' and ``superficial'' matters in the face of more serious global concerns; competition with and belittling of other women; overexercising; and food obsessions, diet mania, and eating disorders. Finally, there is ``The Success Trap,'' in which the woman who has succeeded in attaining a semblance of the ideal of culturally defined beauty dreads that her dramatic weight-loss can't be sustained, or feels bitter that a physical improvement can make such a difference in the way people treat her, or suffers from a sense that she's an imposter. Quizzes aid in targeting one's particular trap, and exercises suggest ways to break out of it. But personal transformation can only go so far, Rodin says; what's needed is for society to reshape its attitudes toward women's beauty. Less brilliant, perhaps, than Naomi Wolf's The Beauty Myth (1991), which covered similar territory—but more generally accessible and helpful.

Pub Date: June 18, 1992

ISBN: 0-688-08843-0

Page Count: 320

Publisher: Morrow/HarperCollins

Review Posted Online: May 20, 2010

Kirkus Reviews Issue: May 1, 1992

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The Stoics did much better with the much shorter Enchiridion.

THE LAWS OF HUMAN NATURE

A follow-on to the author’s garbled but popular 48 Laws of Power, promising that readers will learn how to win friends and influence people, to say nothing of outfoxing all those “toxic types” out in the world.

Greene (Mastery, 2012, etc.) begins with a big sell, averring that his book “is designed to immerse you in all aspects of human behavior and illuminate its root causes.” To gauge by this fat compendium, human behavior is mostly rotten, a presumption that fits with the author’s neo-Machiavellian program of self-validation and eventual strategic supremacy. The author works to formula: First, state a “law,” such as “confront your dark side” or “know your limits,” the latter of which seems pale compared to the Delphic oracle’s “nothing in excess.” Next, elaborate on that law with what might seem to be as plain as day: “Losing contact with reality, we make irrational decisions. That is why our success often does not last.” One imagines there might be other reasons for the evanescence of glory, but there you go. Finally, spin out a long tutelary yarn, seemingly the longer the better, to shore up the truism—in this case, the cometary rise and fall of one-time Disney CEO Michael Eisner, with the warning, “his fate could easily be yours, albeit most likely on a smaller scale,” which ranks right up there with the fortuneteller’s “I sense that someone you know has died" in orders of probability. It’s enough to inspire a new law: Beware of those who spend too much time telling you what you already know, even when it’s dressed up in fresh-sounding terms. “Continually mix the visceral with the analytic” is the language of a consultant’s report, more important-sounding than “go with your gut but use your head, too.”

The Stoics did much better with the much shorter Enchiridion.

Pub Date: Oct. 23, 2018

ISBN: 978-0-525-42814-5

Page Count: 580

Publisher: Viking

Review Posted Online: July 31, 2018

Kirkus Reviews Issue: Aug. 15, 2018

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MASTERY

Greene (The 33 Strategies of War, 2007, etc.) believes that genius can be learned if we pay attention and reject social conformity.

The author suggests that our emergence as a species with stereoscopic, frontal vision and sophisticated hand-eye coordination gave us an advantage over earlier humans and primates because it allowed us to contemplate a situation and ponder alternatives for action. This, along with the advantages conferred by mirror neurons, which allow us to intuit what others may be thinking, contributed to our ability to learn, pass on inventions to future generations and improve our problem-solving ability. Throughout most of human history, we were hunter-gatherers, and our brains are engineered accordingly. The author has a jaundiced view of our modern technological society, which, he writes, encourages quick, rash judgments. We fail to spend the time needed to develop thorough mastery of a subject. Greene writes that every human is “born unique,” with specific potential that we can develop if we listen to our inner voice. He offers many interesting but tendentious examples to illustrate his theory, including Einstein, Darwin, Mozart and Temple Grandin. In the case of Darwin, Greene ignores the formative intellectual influences that shaped his thought, including the discovery of geological evolution with which he was familiar before his famous voyage. The author uses Grandin's struggle to overcome autistic social handicaps as a model for the necessity for everyone to create a deceptive social mask.

Readers unfamiliar with the anecdotal material Greene presents may find interesting avenues to pursue, but they should beware of the author's quirky, sometimes misleading brush-stroke characterizations.

Pub Date: Nov. 13, 2012

ISBN: 978-0-670-02496-4

Page Count: 320

Publisher: Viking

Review Posted Online: Sept. 13, 2012

Kirkus Reviews Issue: Oct. 1, 2012

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