BOYS WILL BE HUMAN

What does it mean to be a man?

In actor and filmmaker Baldoni’s energetic introduction, he positions himself as a flawed but funny and earnest student of the nature of masculinity. He has written an adult nonfiction title about it, Man Enough (2021), and hosts The Man Enough Podcast. The eight chapters include quotes, relevant research, personal anecdotes, and advice—all presented in an accessible, conversational tone. Each chapter ends with a breakdown of key points that can guide further action. Occasional text boxes labeled “Gut Check” offer prompts that can lead to greater self-knowledge. The opening chapter, “Boys Will Be Brave,” ties bravery to the concept of doing what’s right, uncouples it from a pervasive ideal of brash masculinity, and traces one’s sense of justice and bravery to family dynamics and upbringing. Being brave isn’t easy; readers are encouraged to be true to themselves and ask for help when they need it. “Boys Will Be Bigger” tackles body image and its pitfalls; Baldoni assures readers that there is no such thing as the perfect male body and that we are not defined by our bodies. Puberty is different for everyone and can be complicated. “Boys Will Be Knights” focuses a realistic lens on love and romance. The book thoughtfully explores consent, sexual assault, homophobia, race and White privilege, and other themes that are inextricably entwined with notions of masculinity.

Helpful advice and humorous myth-busting; will draw readers in and encourage reflection.