PASSPORTS AND PACIFIERS

Entertaining vignettes and useful advice by a mother of four who’s been traveling with her children since they were infants.

Jain shares amusing anecdotes and things she’s learned during her journeys with her kids in the United States and abroad in a blend of engaging remembrance and practical travel manual. She advocates traveling with kids as a means to instill in them a sense of compassion and a love of new experiences, but the key goal is to have fun together as a family. The story loosely follows the Jain family’s trips (which sometimes included the children’s grandparents) to destinations in New England, California, and Canada as well as in Costa Rica, the Bahamas, the Azores, Italy, and Scandinavia, with flashbacks to some of the author’s own travel adventures before she had kids. The transitions between the various accounts are sometimes abrupt, making the narrative feel disjointed. The adventures include well-known tourist attractions, such as the Leaning Tower of Pisa and Disneyland, in addition to wildlife observation, hikes, and ferry rides. Most chapters feature one or two “Lesson Learned” sidebars that offer practical advice on such topics as choosing accommodations, deciding what to pack, applying for passports, and finding ways to afford it all. She effectively stresses that both children and travel can be unpredictable, so resourcefulness and flexibility are essential. The author has a flair for apt descriptions: She compares a crowd in the Sistine Chapel to “four-year-olds clustered around a soccer ball” and bikes in Copenhagen at rush hour to “the mosquitos of Belize,” and she muses about mountains “capping the earth like meringue on a pie.” Her voice is down-to-earth and her sense of humor and commitment to environmental sustainability are evident throughout.

A parenting memoir and travel guide that will inspire families to have new experiences.