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GETTING THE BEST CARE

RESCUE YOUR LOVED ONE FROM THE HEALTHCARE CONVEYOR BELT

A compassionate, thoughtfully considered approach to caregiving.

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A nurse advocates proactive care for the elderly in this manual.

Many older patients, writes Fitzpatrick (co-author: What to Ask the Doc, 2003), face “unnecessary treatments,” including “tests, surgeries, and medications” that may actually exacerbate health problems. Her sensible approach is to start with the simple question “What is the goal?” as a guiding principle to help caregivers and patients make wise medical decisions. This practical book lays out a clear path to answering that question in a variety of situations, each of them well-illustrated via real patient examples. For instance, the author relates the stories of her own mother and brother, demonstrating how a proactive caregiver who understands what her relatives want can lobby for an appropriate plan of care. Other anecdotes depict how undefined goals lead to consequences, the importance of informed consent, how to address the special requirements of a patient with dementia, and the differences between palliative and hospice care. In one case, a patient with advanced lung cancer “and his entire family needlessly suffered because they were on the healthcare conveyor belt.” But the book is not merely a collection of tales; it also offers helpful information about DNRs (“Do Not Resuscitate” orders), patient specifics like feeding tubes and pressure sores, things to consider before going to a hospital, and advice about nursing homes and medication management. In addition to 14 highly informative chapters, the author includes six useful appendices, such as a decision guide focusing on whether or not to go to the emergency room, detailed items to discuss at medical appointments, and a chart of potentially harmful medications. All of the material is presented in comprehensible text with a minimum of medical jargon. Fitzpatrick is consistently positive and goal-oriented throughout; she does not hesitate to put the needs of the patient first, counseling caregivers on how to question medical professionals and, if necessary, challenge them. Writes the author: “In my experience, both personally and professionally, planning and communication hold the keys to a lower stress level.”

A compassionate, thoughtfully considered approach to caregiving.

Pub Date: Jan. 31, 2019

ISBN: 978-0-9747002-1-2

Page Count: 224

Publisher: Urpoint

Review Posted Online: March 8, 2019

Kirkus Reviews Issue: April 15, 2019

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NUTCRACKER

This is not the Nutcracker sweet, as passed on by Tchaikovsky and Marius Petipa. No, this is the original Hoffmann tale of 1816, in which the froth of Christmas revelry occasionally parts to let the dark underside of childhood fantasies and fears peek through. The boundaries between dream and reality fade, just as Godfather Drosselmeier, the Nutcracker's creator, is seen as alternately sinister and jolly. And Italian artist Roberto Innocenti gives an errily realistic air to Marie's dreams, in richly detailed illustrations touched by a mysterious light. A beautiful version of this classic tale, which will captivate adults and children alike. (Nutcracker; $35.00; Oct. 28, 1996; 136 pp.; 0-15-100227-4)

Pub Date: Oct. 28, 1996

ISBN: 0-15-100227-4

Page Count: 136

Publisher: Harcourt

Review Posted Online: May 19, 2010

Kirkus Reviews Issue: Aug. 15, 1996

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TO THE ONE I LOVE THE BEST

EPISODES FROM THE LIFE OF LADY MENDL (ELSIE DE WOLFE)

An extravaganza in Bemelmans' inimitable vein, but written almost dead pan, with sly, amusing, sometimes biting undertones, breaking through. For Bemelmans was "the man who came to cocktails". And his hostess was Lady Mendl (Elsie de Wolfe), arbiter of American decorating taste over a generation. Lady Mendl was an incredible person,- self-made in proper American tradition on the one hand, for she had been haunted by the poverty of her childhood, and the years of struggle up from its ugliness,- until she became synonymous with the exotic, exquisite, worshipper at beauty's whrine. Bemelmans draws a portrait in extremes, through apt descriptions, through hilarious anecdote, through surprisingly sympathetic and understanding bits of appreciation. The scene shifts from Hollywood to the home she loved the best in Versailles. One meets in passing a vast roster of famous figures of the international and artistic set. And always one feels Bemelmans, slightly offstage, observing, recording, commenting, illustrated.

Pub Date: Feb. 23, 1955

ISBN: 0670717797

Page Count: -

Publisher: Viking

Review Posted Online: Oct. 25, 2011

Kirkus Reviews Issue: Feb. 1, 1955

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