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THE ANTIDOTE by Oliver Burkeman Kirkus Star


Happiness for People Who Can't Stand Positive Thinking

by Oliver Burkeman

Pub Date: Nov. 13th, 2012
ISBN: 978-0-86547-941-8
Publisher: Faber & Faber/Farrar, Straus and Giroux

A fascinating, wide-ranging exploration of negativity, positivity, failure, success and what it means to be happy.

Guardian feature writer Burkeman's (Help!, 2011) popular newspaper column, "This Column Will Change Your Life," often reads like a more nuanced, erudite version of the writings of Malcolm Gladwell and Jonah Lehrer. Burkeman places a psychological theory at the center and then builds outward. Here, the author begins by poking gentle fun at the shelves of "by your bootstraps" optimism-laden positivity books and the motivational seminars that offer a secret, answer or formula. Burkeman quickly pivots to the underlying structure of the book, which is a thoughtful examination of the various alternatives to the optimism-at-all-costs approach. His research yields some surprising, counterintuitive results, with examples of how embracing goal-setting as essential to achievement and profit can blind those involved to a need for change, should the goals prove to run counter to the original aim. By Burkeman's report, this is a difficult pill for businesspeople to swallow, but noting the effect of relentless goal pursuit on the Mt. Everest hikers made famous in the book Into Thin Air suggests that single-mindedness can be dangerous. Throughout the book, the author advises against this single-mindedness, exploring the benefits of keeping an open mind and not careening wildly toward some type of narrowly defined idea of closure or happiness—“the grinning insistence on optimism...or the demand that success be guaranteed.”

This broad approach toward harnessing our "negative capability" deserves wide readership; the author’s nonprescriptive message has the potential to effect genuine, lasting changes for people who find happiness just out of reach.