An adoptee’s idiosyncratic account that will appeal to his family and friends.
A debut memoir recounts a man’s troubled life and the painful search for the biological mother who gave him up for adoption.
Farrant was born in 1952 in Yonkers, New York, and quickly given up for adoption. His adoptive parents, Betty and Larry, raised him in Manhattan, an experience that was a “tumultuous” one for the author. The household was a thoroughly “toxic environment”—Larry was physically and emotionally abusive, his personality soured by a spate of professional disappointments. And while Betty was loving and kind, she was an alcoholic who was powerless to defend the author from Larry. As a result, Farrant was crippled by self-doubts and struggled with depression and anxiety. He would end up with several failed marriages and estranged from three of his children. He never had much interest in locating his biological mother, Barbara May Shinn, but finally realized, at the age of 64, that it was of the greatest importance to him: “And it was in that moment that I allowed myself to fully realize just how important it was to me to know my roots—that I had masked an inherent, burning desire with rational, yet disingenuous, excuses.” Farrant’s heartfelt memoir oscillates between an account of his emotionally bedraggled life and the search for the identity of his biological mother—she died in 2005. The author’s remembrance is lucidly, even elegantly composed and laced with a bold candor. In addition, he poignantly captures the pain of the alienation engendered by a loss of identity. But his recollection is largely a distinctively personal one and will be best appreciated by those who know him and bring to their reading an abiding curiosity about Farrant’s life.
An adoptee’s idiosyncratic account that will appeal to his family and friends.Pub Date: N/A
ISBN: 978-1-6480-4293-5
Page Count: 178
Publisher: Dorrance Publishing Co.
Review Posted Online: Oct. 6, 2020
Review Program: Kirkus Indie
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Alternately admiring and critical, unvarnished, and a closely detailed account of a troubled innovator.
A warts-and-all portrait of the famed techno-entrepreneur—and the warts are nearly beyond counting.
To call Elon Musk (b. 1971) “mercurial” is to undervalue the term; to call him a genius is incorrect. Instead, Musk has a gift for leveraging the genius of others in order to make things work. When they don’t, writes eminent biographer Isaacson, it’s because the notoriously headstrong Musk is so sure of himself that he charges ahead against the advice of others: “He does not like to share power.” In this sharp-edged biography, the author likens Musk to an earlier biographical subject, Steve Jobs. Given Musk’s recent political turn, born of the me-first libertarianism of the very rich, however, Henry Ford also comes to mind. What emerges clearly is that Musk, who may or may not have Asperger’s syndrome (“Empathy did not come naturally”), has nurtured several obsessions for years, apart from a passion for the letter X as both a brand and personal name. He firmly believes that “all requirements should be treated as recommendations”; that it is his destiny to make humankind a multi-planetary civilization through innovations in space travel; that government is generally an impediment and that “the thought police are gaining power”; and that “a maniacal sense of urgency” should guide his businesses. That need for speed has led to undeniable successes in beating schedules and competitors, but it has also wrought disaster: One of the most telling anecdotes in the book concerns Musk’s “demon mode” order to relocate thousands of Twitter servers from Sacramento to Portland at breakneck speed, which trashed big parts of the system for months. To judge by Isaacson’s account, that may have been by design, for Musk’s idea of creative destruction seems to mean mostly chaos.
Alternately admiring and critical, unvarnished, and a closely detailed account of a troubled innovator.Pub Date: Sept. 12, 2023
ISBN: 9781982181284
Page Count: 688
Publisher: Simon & Schuster
Review Posted Online: Sept. 12, 2023
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Oct. 15, 2023
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Dillard’s story reflects maturity and understanding from someone who was forced to mature and understand too much too soon.
A measured memoir from a daughter of the famous family.
Growing up in the Institute of Basic Life Principles community, which she came to realize was “a cult, thriving on a culture of fear and manipulation,” Duggar and her 18 siblings were raised never to question parental authority. As the author recalls, she felt no need to, describing the loving home of her girlhood. When a documentary crew approached her father, Jim Bob, and proposed first a series of TV specials that would be called 17 Kids and Counting (later 18 and 19 Kids and Counting), he agreed, telling his family that this was a chance to share their conservative Christian faith. It was also a chance to become wealthy, but Jill, who was dedicated to following the rules, didn’t question where the money went. A key to her falling out with her family was orchestrated by Jim Bob, who introduced her to missionary Derick Dillard. Their wedding was one of the most-watched episodes of the series. Even though she was an adult, Jill’s parents and the show continued to expect more of the young couple. When they attempted to say no to filming some aspects of their lives, Jill discovered that a sheet of paper her father asked her to sign the day before her wedding was part of a contract in which she had unwittingly agreed to full cooperation. Writing about her sex offender brother, Josh, and the legal action she and Derick had to take to get their questions answered, Jill describes how she was finally able—through therapy, prayer, and the establishment of boundaries—to reconcile love for her parents with Jim Bob’s deception and reframe her faith outside the IBLP.
Dillard’s story reflects maturity and understanding from someone who was forced to mature and understand too much too soon.Pub Date: Sept. 12, 2023
ISBN: 9781668024447
Page Count: 288
Publisher: Gallery Books/Simon & Schuster
Review Posted Online: yesterday
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Nov. 1, 2023
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