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LOVING GHOSTS

: HOW THE DEAD TRANSFORMED MY LIFE

A woman blows open psychically and becomes a healer, a ghost lover and a full-trance medium.

A healer’s personal journey is fraught with paranormal activity.

At age 48, author May began a nine-year spiritual rite of passage which included visits from the dead. As things go bump in her dark night of the soul, she works through hefty emotional baggage, in particular the rage she felt at her mother’s suicide. She journals and sketches, consults channels and psychics and recalls past lives (she may have been Joan of Arc), while developing discernment in her choice of practitioners. A dedicated horse lover and Vermont farmer, she is sustained by her deep connection to the animal kingdom–“My root chakra is sitting on my horse’s heart chakra.” The book is both mystery and memoir, as the author investigates circumstances surrounding a friend’s untimely death while dealing with life’s more mundane complications, such as marital and financial woes. Reality dissolves, and in its place there’s automatic writing, shape-shifting into a wolf, visits from Christ, fairies and a levitating fuzzball. It’s a high concentration of the strange, even for the psychically tuned in. A reader outside the author’s circle may conclude that, as she writes, there’s “absolutely nothing [they] can verify.” Did a three-quarter-ton diesel truck barreling out of control toward a snow bank magically right itself? Does an 18-inch-tall gal in pilgrim garb, with a face like a dried apple, arrive in the middle of the night to eat fear? Some who cross the author’s path claim they’ve never met anyone like her, and that’s certainly true. Still, there’s something to be said for having one’s views dramatically challenged and expanded through the written word. May’s mind-bending story may be the unabashed truth, an elaborate fabrication or a bit of both, but it’s one hell of a tale and more expertly plotted than the Twilight series.

A woman blows open psychically and becomes a healer, a ghost lover and a full-trance medium.

Pub Date: Sept. 30, 2009

ISBN: 978-1-4392-5232-1

Page Count: -

Publisher: N/A

Review Posted Online: May 23, 2010

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THE ART OF SOLITUDE

A very welcome instance of philosophy that can help readers live a good life.

A teacher and scholar of Buddhism offers a formally varied account of the available rewards of solitude.

“As Mother Ayahuasca takes me in her arms, I realize that last night I vomited up my attachment to Buddhism. In passing out, I died. In coming to, I was, so to speak, reborn. I no longer have to fight these battles, I repeat to myself. I am no longer a combatant in the dharma wars. It feels as if the course of my life has shifted onto another vector, like a train shunted off its familiar track onto a new trajectory.” Readers of Batchelor’s previous books (Secular Buddhism: Imagining the Dharma in an Uncertain World, 2017, etc.) will recognize in this passage the culmination of his decadeslong shift away from the religious commitments of Buddhism toward an ecumenical and homegrown philosophy of life. Writing in a variety of modes—memoir, history, collage, essay, biography, and meditation instruction—the author doesn’t argue for his approach to solitude as much as offer it for contemplation. Essentially, Batchelor implies that if you read what Buddha said here and what Montaigne said there, and if you consider something the author has noticed, and if you reflect on your own experience, you have the possibility to improve the quality of your life. For introspective readers, it’s easy to hear in this approach a direct response to Pascal’s claim that “all of humanity's problems stem from man's inability to sit quietly in a room alone.” Batchelor wants to relieve us of this inability by offering his example of how to do just that. “Solitude is an art. Mental training is needed to refine and stabilize it,” he writes. “When you practice solitude, you dedicate yourself to the care of the soul.” Whatever a soul is, the author goes a long way toward soothing it.

A very welcome instance of philosophy that can help readers live a good life.

Pub Date: Feb. 18, 2020

ISBN: 978-0-300-25093-0

Page Count: 200

Publisher: Yale Univ.

Review Posted Online: Nov. 24, 2019

Kirkus Reviews Issue: Dec. 15, 2019

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ON LIVING

A moving, heartfelt account of a hospice veteran.

Lessons about life from those preparing to die.

A longtime hospice chaplain, Egan (Fumbling: A Pilgrimage Tale of Love, Grief, and Spiritual Renewal on the Camino de Santiago, 2004) shares what she has learned through the stories of those nearing death. She notices that for every life, there are shared stories of heartbreak, pain, guilt, fear, and regret. “Every one of us will go through things that destroy our inner compass and pull meaning out from under us,” she writes. “Everyone who does not die young will go through some sort of spiritual crisis.” The author is also straightforward in noting that through her experiences with the brokenness of others, and in trying to assist in that brokenness, she has found healing for herself. Several years ago, during a C-section, Egan suffered a bad reaction to the anesthesia, leading to months of psychotic disorders and years of recovery. The experience left her with tremendous emotional pain and latent feelings of shame, regret, and anger. However, with each patient she helped, the author found herself better understanding her own past. Despite her role as a chaplain, Egan notes that she rarely discussed God or religious subjects with her patients. Mainly, when people could talk at all, they discussed their families, “because that is how we talk about God. That is how we talk about the meaning of our lives.” It is through families, Egan began to realize, that “we find meaning, and this is where our purpose becomes clear.” The author’s anecdotes are often thought-provoking combinations of sublime humor and tragic pathos. She is not afraid to point out times where she made mistakes, even downright failures, in the course of her work. However, the nature of her work means “living in the gray,” where right and wrong answers are often hard to identify.

A moving, heartfelt account of a hospice veteran.

Pub Date: Oct. 25, 2016

ISBN: 978-1-59463-481-9

Page Count: 224

Publisher: Riverhead

Review Posted Online: Aug. 2, 2016

Kirkus Reviews Issue: Aug. 15, 2016

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