Another sensuous woman, is she ever, (""I can remember times, for instance, when the man I was with went totally out of his mind with ecstasy during intercourse"") tells you how to improve your bed life. This takes care of where (not motels, or outdoors), how (every little niche of delightism), when (an orgasm a day), and everything which promotes the maintenance of high performance which includes obligatory masturbation, also once a day. You may want to know what not to say (""Tell him that it's small and he'll wither like an unwatered wisteria"") or how to show him you're really aroused. ""Squirm around."" It's hard not to.