BORN TO FLY

A popular country singer discusses her life traumas and offers advice about men, marriage, and parenthood.

Missouri native Evans was a self-professed "daddy's girl" who bonded with her father over a shared love of singing and showed a special gift for music at an early age. Her mother put together a family band, and soon Evans and her siblings were playing all over Missouri at everything from state fairs to Eagles Lodge dances. Difficulty coping with the stress suffered when Evans sustained injuries from being hit by a car led to familial strife, and her parents divorced just as she reached adolescence. Because her father ignored her, Evans began a long-term pattern of " 'begging' men to love me” and choosing abusive partners. It was her dream of country singer stardom that helped her leave a bad relationship (which she does not discuss in detail) and go to Nashville. A series of lucky breaks led to a seven-record deal with RCA, but the author did not achieve fame until the release of her third album. Sadly, her "fairy tale" life fell apart when she had a "meltdown" and then divorced the husband she neither describes nor names. A second marriage to a divorced father and former University of Alabama quarterback led to a happy blended family Evans dubs the "Barker Bunch.” In the second half of the book, the author offers such secrets for a happy marriage as “don’t be too needy or clingy [and] have your own friends.” Regarding her children, Evan writes about the need for discipline and fostering open lines of communication. Interspersed throughout with personal photographs, the memoir, though neither insightful nor revealing, will likely appeal to the singer's fans and country music lovers.

Light, not-especially-memorable reading.