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Midwife of the Soul by Shira Friedman

Midwife of the Soul

A Teaching Memoir Through the Lens of an HSP Psychotherapist

by Shira Friedman

Pub Date: July 1st, 2025
ISBN: 9798891326804
Publisher: Atmosphere Press

A psychotherapist transforms an account of personal trauma into a soulful guide to healing, self-acceptance, and spiritual growth.

Friedman blends personal storytelling with therapeutic insight to create a memoir that will serve as a healing companion for highly sensitive persons (HSPs) and those supporting them. Using a mix of reflective vignettes and prescriptive wisdom, she retraces her journey from childhood abuse to a life of embodied self-awareness and purpose. Framing her story as one of “spiritual midwifery” (“deeply listening, perceiving, and compassionately responding to the needs of my soul”), Friedman draws eclectic inspiration from Jewish mysticism, somatic therapy, Hinduism, and holistic practices to depict the process of healing as a sacred rebirth. Her prose is warm, lyrical, and immersive, guiding readers through her memories of her early sensitivities, her feelings of disconnection, and her long search for meaning and belonging. Chapters move fluidly between memory and instruction, exploring such topics as energy regulation, creative expression, ecotherapy, and the psychosomatic roots of trauma. One section describes how dance and movement helped her to reclaim personal agency and reconnect with her body. Throughout, Friedman emphasizes that sensitivity is not a disorder to be cured, but a trait to be honored and nurtured. She presents a range of spiritual tools, including emotional reframing, grounding exercises, body-centered awareness, and nature-based healing, as accessible avenues for transformation. Although some themes, such as emotional alchemy, childhood wounding, and ego detachment, may feel highly metaphysical to readers unfamiliar with these concepts, the author explains them in plain language to reinforce her core message. Friedman’s narrative will likely be especially resonant for those whose sensitivity has been misunderstood or those navigating recovery. The result is both intimate and instructive, offering a thoughtful blend of memoir and mentorship.

A poetic, grounded, and empowering remembrance that views sensitivity as a transcendent strength.