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LITTLE TIN HEART

A MEMOIR

Self-assured, daring writing that holds nothing back.

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A writer of American and Iraqi heritage recalls growing up in the mid-20th-century American Midwest.

Kane’s debut memoir opens in Neosho, Missouri, in 1938. Her mother, Doris Hisaw, was 17 years old and had a part-time job working in a local grocery store. Some 9,000 miles away in Basra, Iraq, the author’s father, 27-year-old Nejib Tooni, and his brother Kamil were given 500 British pounds and told by their father to travel to America to find wives. Within hours of meeting Doris in Neosho, Nejib asked for her hand in marriage. Doris’ parents forbade the relationship, but, unable to contain their desire, the couple decided to elope. There was a misunderstanding with the FBI—Doris’ mother had apparently told them that Nejib intended to kidnap Doris and make her a part of his harem back home—a story that made national news. But soon, the two made the long journey to Iraq. This incredible story forms a dramatic prelude to the author’s recollection of her early childhood; she lived with her family in Basra before they returned to Neosho as World War II raged in Europe and the South Pacific. The small town had changed dramatically during their six-year absence; it was now filled with girls wearing blue jeans and “bobbysoxers” swooning over Frank Sinatra, and the author says that she felt “dowdy” in comparison. The memoir charts Kane’s coming-of-age, which included early curiosity about sexual matters followed by an extended period of latency before she began to date boys. As an adult, Kane secured a job in New York City working for Time magazine. Her sense of achievement was somewhat shaken, however, when her father unexpectedly slapped her across the face one day for calling him “mean.” Kane is a devastatingly honest writer, and her memoir often shares deeply confidential and personal details. In one scene during her recounting of her childhood, for example, Kane describes playing “hospital” at the age of 7 with her young friend in graphic detail; very few writers possess the nerve to explore precocious sexual urges in such a candid manner. She also addresses her complex relationship with her parents, and she confides how, in later life, she contemplated suicide. Over several years, she says, she compiled a list of reasons to stay alive: “I labored over this list of mysteries for consideration,” she says, which included “curiosity,” “beauty,” and “love.” Kane also displays an unwavering faith in the power of words, which, in her case, became a tool for survival. There’s a great sense of positivity and hope to be found when Kane writes: “I learned that I did not have to live: I chose to live.” The author’s somewhat conservative reportage of her parents’ courtship is less captivating, and it pales in comparison to the dazzling, florid, and profound confessional that follows it. Still, this minor flaw detracts little from a sharply written and fascinatingly introspective work.

Self-assured, daring writing that holds nothing back.

Pub Date: N/A

ISBN: N/A

Page Count: 357

Publisher: Kurti Publishing

Review Posted Online: July 26, 2018

Kirkus Reviews Issue: Oct. 1, 2018

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NIGHT

The author's youthfulness helps to assure the inevitable comparison with the Anne Frank diary although over and above the...

Elie Wiesel spent his early years in a small Transylvanian town as one of four children. 

He was the only one of the family to survive what Francois Maurois, in his introduction, calls the "human holocaust" of the persecution of the Jews, which began with the restrictions, the singularization of the yellow star, the enclosure within the ghetto, and went on to the mass deportations to the ovens of Auschwitz and Buchenwald. There are unforgettable and horrifying scenes here in this spare and sombre memoir of this experience of the hanging of a child, of his first farewell with his father who leaves him an inheritance of a knife and a spoon, and of his last goodbye at Buchenwald his father's corpse is already cold let alone the long months of survival under unconscionable conditions. 

The author's youthfulness helps to assure the inevitable comparison with the Anne Frank diary although over and above the sphere of suffering shared, and in this case extended to the death march itself, there is no spiritual or emotional legacy here to offset any reader reluctance.

Pub Date: Jan. 16, 2006

ISBN: 0374500010

Page Count: 120

Publisher: Hill & Wang

Review Posted Online: Oct. 7, 2011

Kirkus Reviews Issue: Jan. 15, 2006

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THE PURSUIT OF HAPPYNESS

FROM MEAN STREETS TO WALL STREET

Well-told and admonitory.

Young-rags-to-mature-riches memoir by broker and motivational speaker Gardner.

Born and raised in the Milwaukee ghetto, the author pulled himself up from considerable disadvantage. He was fatherless, and his adored mother wasn’t always around; once, as a child, he spied her at a family funeral accompanied by a prison guard. When beautiful, evanescent Moms was there, Chris also had to deal with Freddie “I ain’t your goddamn daddy!” Triplett, one of the meanest stepfathers in recent literature. Chris did “the dozens” with the homies, boosted a bit and in the course of youthful adventure was raped. His heroes were Miles Davis, James Brown and Muhammad Ali. Meanwhile, at the behest of Moms, he developed a fondness for reading. He joined the Navy and became a medic (preparing badass Marines for proctology), and a proficient lab technician. Moving up in San Francisco, married and then divorced, he sold medical supplies. He was recruited as a trainee at Dean Witter just around the time he became a homeless single father. All his belongings in a shopping cart, Gardner sometimes slept with his young son at the office (apparently undiscovered by the night cleaning crew). The two also frequently bedded down in a public restroom. After Gardner’s talents were finally appreciated by the firm of Bear Stearns, his American Dream became real. He got the cool duds, hot car and fine ladies so coveted from afar back in the day. He even had a meeting with Nelson Mandela. Through it all, he remained a prideful parent. His own no-daddy blues are gone now.

Well-told and admonitory.

Pub Date: June 1, 2006

ISBN: 0-06-074486-3

Page Count: 320

Publisher: Amistad/HarperCollins

Review Posted Online: May 19, 2010

Kirkus Reviews Issue: March 15, 2006

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