An often illuminating psychiatric memoir.

Undertow: Surviving the Predatory Psychiatrist


In this debut memoir, a woman tells of abusive therapy sessions with a New-Age doctor.

When Seagraves began writing a book about her “journey through incest,” she wrote glowingly of her therapist. She noted his gentle guidance, helpful suggestions and comforting manner. But in that first draft, she didn’t accuse him, as she does here, of “cupping my breast, kissing me on the lips at his wife’s wake and funeral….I left out that he slid his hand under my underpants to stroke my abdomen.” She writes that her therapist, known for his “enthusiastic championing of esoteric spiritual systems,” was trained in bioenergetics, a body-oriented psychotherapy based upon the work of Wilhelm Reich. Seagraves was emotionally vulnerable when she began seeing him in 1985 at age 53, and during their sessions, she recalled disturbing memories of being raped by her abusive, sadistic father. She alleges that her therapist’s methods, however, were manipulative and disrespectful: “I’m not being weird. I’m not being sexual,” she says he told her, before lying on top of her, belly to belly, on the floor. When Seagraves eventually sued for medical malpractice, she says that she discovered that the therapist had “betrayed the confidences of at least fifty-four persons, mostly patients, many of whom I knew”; she also realized that she’d spent $17,000 on recommended “conferences, sessions, consultations, lessons, classes, exercises, weird treatments, and healers over three years.” Seagraves, a sensitive, skillful writer, vividly describes childhood scenes, her father’s cruelty, her mother’s distance, and her anguish and confusion. However, some readers may wonder why the author kept going to the therapy sessions for so long. Seagraves includes transcripts from recorded sessions, however, that show the powerful web that she claims the therapist wove.

An often illuminating psychiatric memoir.

Pub Date: April 30, 2014

ISBN: 978-1489568014

Page Count: 302

Publisher: CreateSpace

Review Posted Online: June 12, 2014

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If the authors are serious, this is a silly, distasteful book. If they are not, it’s a brilliant satire.


The authors have created a sort of anti-Book of Virtues in this encyclopedic compendium of the ways and means of power.

Everyone wants power and everyone is in a constant duplicitous game to gain more power at the expense of others, according to Greene, a screenwriter and former editor at Esquire (Elffers, a book packager, designed the volume, with its attractive marginalia). We live today as courtiers once did in royal courts: we must appear civil while attempting to crush all those around us. This power game can be played well or poorly, and in these 48 laws culled from the history and wisdom of the world’s greatest power players are the rules that must be followed to win. These laws boil down to being as ruthless, selfish, manipulative, and deceitful as possible. Each law, however, gets its own chapter: “Conceal Your Intentions,” “Always Say Less Than Necessary,” “Pose as a Friend, Work as a Spy,” and so on. Each chapter is conveniently broken down into sections on what happened to those who transgressed or observed the particular law, the key elements in this law, and ways to defensively reverse this law when it’s used against you. Quotations in the margins amplify the lesson being taught. While compelling in the way an auto accident might be, the book is simply nonsense. Rules often contradict each other. We are told, for instance, to “be conspicuous at all cost,” then told to “behave like others.” More seriously, Greene never really defines “power,” and he merely asserts, rather than offers evidence for, the Hobbesian world of all against all in which he insists we live. The world may be like this at times, but often it isn’t. To ask why this is so would be a far more useful project.

If the authors are serious, this is a silly, distasteful book. If they are not, it’s a brilliant satire.

Pub Date: Sept. 1, 1998

ISBN: 0-670-88146-5

Page Count: 430

Publisher: Viking

Review Posted Online: May 20, 2010

Kirkus Reviews Issue: July 15, 1998

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Striking research showing the immense complexity of ordinary thought and revealing the identities of the gatekeepers in our...


A psychologist and Nobel Prize winner summarizes and synthesizes the recent decades of research on intuition and systematic thinking.

The author of several scholarly texts, Kahneman (Emeritus Psychology and Public Affairs/Princeton Univ.) now offers general readers not just the findings of psychological research but also a better understanding of how research questions arise and how scholars systematically frame and answer them. He begins with the distinction between System 1 and System 2 mental operations, the former referring to quick, automatic thought, the latter to more effortful, overt thinking. We rely heavily, writes, on System 1, resorting to the higher-energy System 2 only when we need or want to. Kahneman continually refers to System 2 as “lazy”: We don’t want to think rigorously about something. The author then explores the nuances of our two-system minds, showing how they perform in various situations. Psychological experiments have repeatedly revealed that our intuitions are generally wrong, that our assessments are based on biases and that our System 1 hates doubt and despises ambiguity. Kahneman largely avoids jargon; when he does use some (“heuristics,” for example), he argues that such terms really ought to join our everyday vocabulary. He reviews many fundamental concepts in psychology and statistics (regression to the mean, the narrative fallacy, the optimistic bias), showing how they relate to his overall concerns about how we think and why we make the decisions that we do. Some of the later chapters (dealing with risk-taking and statistics and probabilities) are denser than others (some readers may resent such demands on System 2!), but the passages that deal with the economic and political implications of the research are gripping.

Striking research showing the immense complexity of ordinary thought and revealing the identities of the gatekeepers in our minds.

Pub Date: Nov. 1, 2011

ISBN: 978-0-374-27563-1

Page Count: 512

Publisher: Farrar, Straus and Giroux

Review Posted Online: Sept. 4, 2011

Kirkus Reviews Issue: Sept. 15, 2011

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