Cindy Rasmussen

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Cindy was born into a family as the oldest of six children. She grew up in Colorado in the 1940's and 1950's. She moved to California in the early 1960's where she earned a BA Degree in Sociology from the University of California at Berkeley.

Shortly thereafter she began her first professional employment as a Social Caseworker for the San Diego County Department of Public Welfare. She worked two years in the Aid to Families with Dependent Children Unit, and two years in the Adoptions Division.

In 1966 she married Phil Rasmussen, a Naval Officer working for the elite special forces now known as Navy SEALs. The couple has three children, Mark born in 1969, Steven born in 1971 and Geoffrey born in 1977. Their second child, Steven, has autism and is the inspiration for the book Cindy has written about their family's journey through life with Steven.

While raising her family, Cindy also spent many hours doing volunteer activities. She served on the Training Committee of the San Diego County Regional Center, and the Board of the National Society for Autistic Children. She also served on the North Kitsap School Board in Poulsbo, Washington for eight years, and was President of the Board for the last two of those years.

Cindy now divides her time living with her husband Phil half a year in Washington on the Olympic Peninsula, and half a year in Jensen Beach, Florida.



BY Cindy Rasmussen • POSTED ON April 10, 2017

A debut memoir chronicles one family’s experiences with an autistic child.

The author makes her goals clear at the outset. Rasmussen wants to help her sons understand how their childhoods may have been shaped by their brother Steven’s autism. She aims to provide comfort to parents of autistic children, assuring them that they are not alone. The author also promotes an overall understanding and acceptance surrounding autism. The book moves chronologically through Steven’s early, middle, and adult years. His early tantrums and other challenging and often dangerous behaviors, such as scaling high fences, made for a sometimes-excruciating experience that tried his parents’ marriage and took attention away from his older brother. His diagnosis of autism at age 3 led to a treatment center that fostered some improvements and allowed for a saner family life, but the author describes ongoing obstacles that required tremendous vigilance and persistence as Steven grew. These included periodic disappearances—Steven would depart to seek swimming pools or elevators, two fascinations that continued in his adulthood. Transitions from routine, whether big or small, could wreak havoc on his ability to function. Teenage years brought sexual urges, but Steven was unable to manage them appropriately without repeated instruction. As an adult, he has lived in several group homes and held many jobs—the system is such that frequent adjustments have been required. The organization and tone of this highly personal book facilitate insight into what autism is like, its deep effect on families, and the countless practical hurdles that must be addressed when advocating for the affected child (and later, the adult with this condition). While the never-ending challenges are discussed candidly, Rasmussen nevertheless succeeds in providing practical observations and transmitting a genuine message of hope. She deftly describes the joy of Steven’s hard-won successes and the evolution of many positive qualities within her circle. The book’s family photographs and a section in which Steven’s father and brothers contribute their perspectives add an intimate feel to the memoir.

A frank and engaging read that explores autism and its long-ranging effects on a family.

Pub Date: April 10, 2017

ISBN: 978-1-942661-42-9

Publisher: Kitsap Publishing

Review Posted Online: May 31, 2017

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Poulsbo, WA

Favorite author

Ann Rule

Favorite book

Red Notice

Day job

Business Owner

Passion in life

Helping / Volunteering

Mother with autistic son writes inspiring new book, 2017 A Mother’s Amazing Quest to Help Her Child with Autism, 2017 The Seattle 7 Writers