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Claire N. Rubman

Claire N. Rubman

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Dr Rubman earned her PhD in cognitive, developmental psychology and has taught for the last 30 years.
As a professor and a parent, she is passionate about applying the research that she teaches in the classroom to make a real difference in the world.
She has given numerous lectures and workshops across the country on topics such as;

• how children actually learn through play
• discipline that really works
• technology and “tots” and childcare best practices
• kindergarten readiness and student facing instruction
• the importance of a risk-free environment for children
• childhood obesity
• the magic formula for reading success

Beyond lecturing, Dr. Rubman has;
• published parenting magazine articles
• served as the “ask the expert” for Texas Family Magazine
• conducted workshops for the Child Care Council in the “Distinguished Speaker Series” in New York
• served as a consultant for a graduate school online degree program for teachers
• edited textbooks for McGraw Hill on topics such as adolescent psychology and culture & diversity

• she is especially proud of the “best paper award” that she won for a paper and lecture on “The 21st Century Brain & Other Stories”!

In her free time, she loves to laugh, play chess, discuss books at her neighborhood book club, kayak, walk her dog and solve puzzles!
She also loves to spend time with 3 grown children who bring her endless joy…

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BOOK REVIEW

THIS MAY BE DIFFICULT TO READ

BY Claire N. Rubman • POSTED ON Nov. 18, 2022

Rubman, a cognitive developmental psychologist, conducts a comprehensive examination of childhood literacy in this nonfiction work.

The author begins with a series of sobering statistics: Over 42 million Americans are defined as functionally illiterate (meaning they can’t follow written directions), 70% of high school graduates end up requiring some kind of remedial reading help, and 1 in 5 college students enrolls in a remedial reading class in their freshman year. As she points out, statistics like these are nothing new; Americans have heard for years that the systems tasked with building children’s literacy skills are failing. Rubman asserts that the goal of this book is to offer solutions to change this. “Together,” she writes, “we can analyze why, as a society, we seem to be failing to educate our nation’s children and why so many parents obsess so unsuccessfully over this process.” A central concept that runs throughout the book is introduced early: Children acquire their knowledge in their own way. “Remember, their brains are different from our brains,” Rubman writes. “They don’t think, speak, or learn like we do.” As the author explains, this is crucial to remember because, despite many parents’ hopes that their children will take to reading very early (before kindergarten), a child’s brain isn’t finished undergoing the process of myelination, in which neural pathways develop their message-bearing abilities. Allowing that process of natural development to work at its own pace is at the core of Rubman's revisionist approach to helping kids get the most out of their reading.

The author’s experience, insight, and, above all, compassion shine through on every page of her book, even when she’s carefully demolishing what she views as the incorrect thinking of earlier theorists on the subject of children’s literacy; for example, she extensively debunks the so-called “Mozart Effect” that was in vogue some years ago. She includes well-made graphics to illustrate concepts such as neural development, and she adds bullet-pointed sections and actual test passages designed to flesh out the intricacies of reading comprehension. Along the way, she clarifies a wide array of reading-related matters in ways that parents and educators will find very helpful: “It is not the size of the word that determines its level of difficulty, per se,” she writes of one such issue, “rather its phonetic friendliness and frequency of use…determine…the ‘ease’ with which it’s read.” Her myth-busting energy never flags, which is extremely helpful, as many adults remain beholden to popular fallacies. Regarding the idea that children learn better when they read to adults than they do when adults read to them, Rubman convincingly contends that the reverse is true. “When you read to children, you allow them the luxury of focusing their attentional energy on the meaning of the story,” she writes. “This is an ideal time to work on comprehension skills.” The author’s calm wisdom is very encouraging, and her main message—that there are no shortcuts and that development takes time—will be much appreciated by parents feeling peer pressure to produce little Einsteins.

A wide-ranging and winningly compassionate revamping of how to think about children’s reading.

Pub Date: Nov. 18, 2022

ISBN: 9798987086117

Page count: 254pp

Publisher: Educational & Parenting Matters

Review Posted Online: March 8, 2023

Kirkus Reviews Issue: May 1, 2023

Awards, Press & Interests

Favorite author

David Elkind

Hometown

Glasgow, Scotland

THIS MAY BE DIFFICULT TO READ: BUT YOU REALLY SHOULD (FOR YOUR CHILD’S SAKE): National Parenting Product Award, 2023

This May Be Difficult to Read: US Review of Books - Recommended, 2023

THIS MAY BE DIFFICULT TO READ: BUT YOU REALLY SHOULD (FOR YOUR CHILD’S SAKE): National Parenting Product Award, 2023

THIS MAY BE DIFFICULT TO READ: BUT YOU REALLY SHOULD (FOR YOUR CHILD’S SAKE): Mom's Choice Gold Award, 2023

THIS MAY BE DIFFICULT TO READ: BUT YOU REALLY SHOULD (FOR YOUR CHILD’S SAKE): Mom's Choice Gold Award, 2023

This May Be Difficult to Read: Independent Press Award, Distinguished Favorite, 2023

Online BookClub, 2023

Self-Publishing Review, 2023

US Review of Books, 2023

Bookshop.org, 2023

Foreword, 2023

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This May Be Difficult to Read

Somewhere in your harried life between work, laundry, dinner and extra curricular activities, you are tasked with preparing your child for kindergarten, college and beyond - no small feat... It is hard to parent, and it is hard to teach. When you are a parent that is trying to teach a child, then it becomes exponentially harder. Could you be doing more to help your child? Nobody expects their child to fail, yet here are the facts: - One in every five college students has to take a remedial reading class in their freshman year. - In the last 15 years, 15 million high school students graduated with reading skills that were below the acceptable grade level. - 42 million Americans can't follow the directions on a can of soup. They are functionally illiterate. We need to do better as a society. We need to disrupt a paradigm that hasn't shifted in over 50 years. It's time to reinvent reading. Take the frustration and stress out of parenting by incorporating learning into your already existing routine. Transform your daily interactions into valuable reading experiences and make your home a veritable ecosystem where fun and learning are commonplace. Help is here for parents who are trying to teach their children to read and succeed! Here is the missing information that parents need to empower their children to read and love literature! - 10 facts or myths about reading (you decide) - Learn to "think as your child thinks" and "read as your child reads" - Experience the cognitive overload that your child encounters when he, she or they are learning to read. - Learn about 5 missing strategies that are essential for reading success - Discuss how to create a "need to read" in your home when learning is a byproduct of fun!
Published: Jan. 1, 2023
ISBN: 9798987086117
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