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UNSHELTERED LOVE

BY Traci Medford-Rosow • POSTED ON March 14, 2023

A New Yorker connects with her unhoused neighbors in this memoir.

Medford-Rosow’s story of developing meaningful personal relationships with houseless people who spent their days near her Manhattan home is effectively a 2020 time capsule. It recounts the changes that Covid-19 brought to New York City and offers a humane account of the realities that people without housing face. The sudden shutdown of many local businesses in March 2020 meant that local panhandlers had few donors, so Medford-Rosow and her husband, Joel, began taking daily walks through their neighborhood, first offering people dollar bills and then homemade sandwiches. Over time, they developed close relationships with several people, got to know their stories, and supported them as they tried to move into sheltered housing. Medford-Rosow connected most deeply with a woman who served as this book’s developmental editor and contributed short essays to the text under the pseudonym Maggie Wright; in them, she writes about the same events as the author but from her own perspective. In these pages, Medford-Rosow writes about emotional moments with an admirable lack of sentimentality. Throughout, she takes pains not to portray herself and Joel as heroic—for instance, she still worries that the city’s plan to use nearby hotels as shelters will hurt local property values—and she offers no broad policy recommendations. Instead, Maggie’s personal journey, with its many setbacks and successes, serves as the book’s core, and it’s an effective one; her middle-class background and struggles with addiction are likely to resonate with many readers. The book also does an effective job of evoking the uncertainty of the early days of the Covid-19 pandemic, from the initial assumptions that offices would only be closed briefly to phases of reopening to premature claims of victory as the first wave receded.

A focused and engaging remembrance of a specific community changed by the Covid-19 pandemic.

Pub Date: March 14, 2023

ISBN: 9781631959820

Page count: 272pp

Publisher: Morgan James Publishing

Review Posted Online: Dec. 15, 2022

Kirkus Reviews Issue: Feb. 1, 2023

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UNBLINDED

BY Traci Medford-Rosow • POSTED ON April 10, 2018

This biography chronicles a man’s sudden vision loss, his self-reinvention, and his seemingly miraculous partial recovery of sight.

In New York City in February 1997, Coughlin’s sight began deteriorating. Five days later, he was completely blind—stricken in his 30s by a rare, irreversible genetic disorder of the optic nerve that normally affects teens and young adults. Already alcohol-dependent, he was soon unemployed and dependent on disability checks. He confronted countless challenges in navigating city life, including physical barriers, inconsiderate strangers, and bureaucratic delays. In his favor, however, were his persistence and his preternatural ability to enlist help from others. For example, he persuaded a clerk to sell him a cane without the required mobility certification, and an ally at Gay Men’s Health Crisis helped him join a support group of HIV-positive blind people even though he was upfront about being HIV-negative. He continued to pursue his love of visual arts and photography by engaging a curator to narrate museum visits and a sighted Alcoholics Anonymous colleague to help take pictures. Coughlin also achieved sobriety and took up meditation, prayer, and ayurvedic practices. His physical and spiritual health improved, which helped him deal with the loss of another job and a beloved guide dog. Fifteen years after becoming blind, his sight began to return, but he already saw life differently. He began a journal (reprinted as an appendix), in which he cites “patience, prayer and turmeric” as “the corner stones of my journey out of the darkness.” Each chapter closes with a selected journal entry, foreshadowing and eventually merging with the narrative. Medford-Rosow and debut author Coughlin skillfully condense two decades into 33 easy-to-read vignettes about Coughlin’s challenges, setbacks, and breakthroughs. This results in a multilayered account that works on several levels, offering granular details of the blindness experience, detailing the difference between physical sight and personal vision, and highlighting the redemptive power of healing. The authors convey Coughlin’s spirituality and faith without being preachy, and they balance poignant moments with workaday complaints and unvarnished assessments of Coughlin’s behavior and relationships. The patient delivery allows this truly exceptional story to speak for itself.

An emotional account of a remarkable personal odyssey.

Pub Date: April 10, 2018

ISBN: 978-1-68350-784-0

Page count: 201pp

Publisher: Morgan James Publishing

Review Posted Online: Dec. 12, 2019

Kirkus Reviews Issue: Feb. 1, 2020

Awards, Press & Interests

UNBLINDED: ONE MAN'S COURAGEOUS JOURNEY THROUGH DARKNESS TO SIGHT: Kirkus Star

UNBLINDED: ONE MAN'S COURAGEOUS JOURNEY THROUGH DARKNESS TO SIGHT: Named to Kirkus Reviews' Best Books, 2020

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