How to develop intimate relations with those you love, by a former South African Anglican Bishop deported for his opposition to apartheid. He's now a therapist in California. The book contains 14 self. tests to help people analyze their problems. These include abandonment, sabotage, intimacy deprivation, among others. The author has wide experience with couples in various stages of conflict and alienation. Using these cases as guideposts, he leads us through an agenda of modern marital ills, burn. out and loneliness. Always perceptive and supportive, Crowther's approach will appeal to many people seeking to revitalize their personal life as well as their relationships.