A compelling argument that will inspire robust debate.
McConnell argues that there’s nothing more American than the ideal of motherhood—especially when the exploitation of mothers benefits capitalism.
The United States, Oman, and Papua New Guinea are the only three nations on Earth not offering paid parental leave, per the author. McConnell, a lawyer, asserts that this is due to the autonomy myth—the mentality that’s been responsible for keeping women and other marginalized groups down since the Pilgrims first set foot on Plymouth Rock. She perfectly encapsulates this mindset, defining it as believing “Independence is good and normal; dependence is depraved and abnormal.” The author makes her case in supremely cogent and delightfully pointed terms, conducting an intensive interrogation of female oppression: “Not coincidentally, the positive sides of these [independent] values are all manly virtues. Women are traditionally associated with dependency and assigned the work of caring for needy dependents, so denigration of dependency is fundamentally misogynistic.” And just so readers don’t start thinking the autonomy myth has only been weaponized against motherhood, McConnell explores how it’s also been used in other aspects of American life, including slavery. “One of the arguments against providing any assistance to the newly freed was that it would breed dependence,” she observes. The author starts strong with her well-researched (the text is supported by an extensive body of scholarly endnotes) takedown of what she sees as the perversity of the American economic system and never loses steam: “Each of us arrives in a state of debt,” she writes. “Far from being pathological, dependency is universal and inevitable. Once you acknowledge this basic human fact, the goal of ending dependency is revealed as truly bizarre.” Expect even the staunchest conservatives to call up their mothers with sincere thanks, and maybe even a little bit of contrition, after reading this one.
A compelling argument that will inspire robust debate.Pub Date: May 26, 2026
ISBN: 9798896363149
Page Count: 256
Publisher: She Writes Press
Review Posted Online: yesterday
Review Program: Kirkus Indie
A dauntless, moving account of a kidnapping and the horrors that followed.
Enduring the unthinkable.
This memoir—the first by an Israeli taken captive by Hamas on October 7, 2023—chronicles the 491 days the author was held in Gaza. Confined to tunnels beneath war-ravaged streets, Sharabi was beaten, humiliated, and underfed. When he was finally released in February, he learned that Hamas had murdered his wife and two daughters. In the face of scarcely imaginable loss, Sharabi has crafted a potent record of his will to survive. The author’s ordeal began when Hamas fighters dragged him from his home, in a kibbutz near Gaza. Alongside others, he was held for months at a time in filthy subterranean spaces. He catalogs sensory assaults with novelistic specificity. Iron shackles grip his ankles. Broken toilets produce an “unbearable stink,” and “tiny white worms” swarm his toothbrush. He gets one meal a day, his “belly caving inward.” Desperate for more food, he stages a fainting episode, using a shaving razor to “slice a deep gash into my eyebrow.” Captors share their sweets while celebrating an Iranian missile attack on Israel. He and other hostages sneak fleeting pleasures, finding and downing an orange soda before a guard can seize it. Several times, Sharabi—51 when he was kidnapped—gives bracing pep talks to younger compatriots. The captives learn to control what they can, trading family stories and “lift[ing] water bottles like dumbbells.” Remarkably, there’s some levity. He and fellow hostages nickname one Hamas guard “the Triangle” because he’s shaped like a SpongeBob SquarePants character. The book’s closing scenes, in which Sharabi tries to console other hostages’ families while learning the worst about his own, are heartbreaking. His captors “are still human beings,” writes Sharabi, bravely modeling the forbearance that our leaders often lack.
A dauntless, moving account of a kidnapping and the horrors that followed.Pub Date: Oct. 7, 2025
ISBN: 9780063489790
Page Count: 208
Publisher: Harper Influence/HarperCollins
Review Posted Online: Aug. 15, 2025
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Sept. 15, 2025
A moving meditation on mortality by a gifted writer whose dual perspectives of physician and patient provide a singular...
A neurosurgeon with a passion for literature tragically finds his perfect subject after his diagnosis of terminal lung cancer.
Writing isn’t brain surgery, but it’s rare when someone adept at the latter is also so accomplished at the former. Searching for meaning and purpose in his life, Kalanithi pursued a doctorate in literature and had felt certain that he wouldn’t enter the field of medicine, in which his father and other members of his family excelled. “But I couldn’t let go of the question,” he writes, after realizing that his goals “didn’t quite fit in an English department.” “Where did biology, morality, literature and philosophy intersect?” So he decided to set aside his doctoral dissertation and belatedly prepare for medical school, which “would allow me a chance to find answers that are not in books, to find a different sort of sublime, to forge relationships with the suffering, and to keep following the question of what makes human life meaningful, even in the face of death and decay.” The author’s empathy undoubtedly made him an exceptional doctor, and the precision of his prose—as well as the moral purpose underscoring it—suggests that he could have written a good book on any subject he chose. Part of what makes this book so essential is the fact that it was written under a death sentence following the diagnosis that upended his life, just as he was preparing to end his residency and attract offers at the top of his profession. Kalanithi learned he might have 10 years to live or perhaps five. Should he return to neurosurgery (he could and did), or should he write (he also did)? Should he and his wife have a baby? They did, eight months before he died, which was less than two years after the original diagnosis. “The fact of death is unsettling,” he understates. “Yet there is no other way to live.”
A moving meditation on mortality by a gifted writer whose dual perspectives of physician and patient provide a singular clarity.Pub Date: Jan. 19, 2016
ISBN: 978-0-8129-8840-6
Page Count: 248
Publisher: Random House
Review Posted Online: Sept. 29, 2015
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Oct. 15, 2015
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