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YOUR BRAIN WEIGHS 500 POUNDS

CHANGE YOUR MINDSET TO ACHIEVE DESIRED OUTCOMES

A formulaic but forceful series of personal and entrepreneurial guidelines.

Pledger presents a collection of principles designed to help readers improve habits and reach greater potential in this motivational guide.

In the introduction to his book, the author makes the flat declaration that he is not a self-help guru, but he nevertheless promises that, if readers commit to the various principles (which Pledger calls “recipes”) he puts forth, the book “will transform your perspectives, overhaul your habits, and revolutionize the way you pursue your goals,” which will strike many readers as pretty much exactly the kind of thing a self-help guru would say. In a series of 100 brief chapters, each presenting one of the “recipes” for the “brain diet” Pledger recommends, the author lays out a broad series of precepts drawn from both his own experience and the writings and sayings of self-help gurus such as Tony Robbins, Atomic Habits author James Clear, and, inevitably, Warren Buffett. Pledger discusses dozens of aspects of both personal behavior (such as proper comportment and making small talk) and professional habits (including the “grind” mindset and the willingness to face adversity and criticism), always in bite-sized sections with references to familiar examples from history (Thomas Edison) and pop culture (Rocky Balboa). In every instance, he counsels humility, adaptability, and a willingness to learn from setbacks. “You can think of failure as one of your most valuable teachers,” he writes, “even if it never says a word.” In almost every section of his book, the author simultaneously prioritizes flexibility and steadfast commitment to goals.

Pledger might claim that he’s not a self-help guru, but, as noted, he sure sounds like one; he thanks his readers for joining him on this “journey” and dispenses very, very familiar self-help advice at almost every turn, writing things like “Think deliberately and control your emotions,” and “Choose your social circles wisely.” He advocates making a commitment to book-reading for at least 30 minutes a day (invoking Warren Buffett), stressing that readers have an edge over nonreaders. Such bromides and many others like them fill these pages and are also predictable staples of self-help literature. If Pledger is indeed a self-help guru, his readers will find that he’s a very good one; something about simply hammering away at one of these cliched “principles” after another lends them a cumulative effect. He also takes compelling side paths, some of which are a winning combination of contemporarily savvy and old-fashioned: He advises his readers, for instance, to practice proper social etiquette (including something he calls “conversational courtesy”) and cautions them against indulging in the “impulsive thinking” encouraged by social media. He’s a stern guide to the guidance he lays out, but he’s also invariably encouraging, assuring readers that sticking to a routine will pay dividends. (“If you work out every day for ninety days, it is probable that you will be in better shape after three months.”) The material on offer here will be nothing new to frequent readers of motivational literature, but familiar advice can still be good advice, and this book is full of good advice.

A formulaic but forceful series of personal and entrepreneurial guidelines.

Pub Date: Nov. 14, 2023

ISBN: 9781544544403

Page Count: 224

Publisher: Lioncrest Publishing

Review Posted Online: Dec. 27, 2023

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CALL ME ANNE

A sweet final word from an actor who leaves a legacy of compassion and kindness.

The late actor offers a gentle guide for living with more purpose, love, and joy.

Mixing poetry, prescriptive challenges, and elements of memoir, Heche (1969-2022) delivers a narrative that is more encouraging workbook than life story. The author wants to share what she has discovered over the course of a life filled with abuse, advocacy, and uncanny turning points. Her greatest discovery? Love. “Open yourself up to love and transform kindness from a feeling you extend to those around you to actions that you perform for them,” she writes. “Only by caring can we open ourselves up to the universe, and only by opening up to the universe can we fully experience all the wonders that it holds, the greatest of which is love.” Throughout the occasionally overwrought text, Heche is heavy on the concept of care. She wants us to experience joy as she does, and she provides a road map for how to get there. Instead of slinking away from Hollywood and the ridicule that she endured there, Heche found the good and hung on, with Alec Baldwin and Harrison Ford starring as particularly shining knights in her story. Some readers may dismiss this material as vapid Hollywood stuff, but Heche’s perspective is an empathetic blend of Buddhism (minimize suffering), dialectical behavioral therapy (tolerating distress), Christianity (do unto others), and pre-Socratic philosophy (sufficient reason). “You’re not out to change the whole world, but to increase the levels of love and kindness in the world, drop by drop,” she writes. “Over time, these actions wear away the coldness, hate, and indifference around us as surely as water slowly wearing away stone.” Readers grieving her loss will take solace knowing that she lived her love-filled life on her own terms. Heche’s business and podcast partner, Heather Duffy, writes the epilogue, closing the book on a life well lived.

A sweet final word from an actor who leaves a legacy of compassion and kindness.

Pub Date: Jan. 24, 2023

ISBN: 9781627783316

Page Count: 176

Publisher: Viva Editions

Review Posted Online: Feb. 6, 2023

Kirkus Reviews Issue: March 1, 2023

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THE ART OF SOLITUDE

A very welcome instance of philosophy that can help readers live a good life.

A teacher and scholar of Buddhism offers a formally varied account of the available rewards of solitude.

“As Mother Ayahuasca takes me in her arms, I realize that last night I vomited up my attachment to Buddhism. In passing out, I died. In coming to, I was, so to speak, reborn. I no longer have to fight these battles, I repeat to myself. I am no longer a combatant in the dharma wars. It feels as if the course of my life has shifted onto another vector, like a train shunted off its familiar track onto a new trajectory.” Readers of Batchelor’s previous books (Secular Buddhism: Imagining the Dharma in an Uncertain World, 2017, etc.) will recognize in this passage the culmination of his decadeslong shift away from the religious commitments of Buddhism toward an ecumenical and homegrown philosophy of life. Writing in a variety of modes—memoir, history, collage, essay, biography, and meditation instruction—the author doesn’t argue for his approach to solitude as much as offer it for contemplation. Essentially, Batchelor implies that if you read what Buddha said here and what Montaigne said there, and if you consider something the author has noticed, and if you reflect on your own experience, you have the possibility to improve the quality of your life. For introspective readers, it’s easy to hear in this approach a direct response to Pascal’s claim that “all of humanity's problems stem from man's inability to sit quietly in a room alone.” Batchelor wants to relieve us of this inability by offering his example of how to do just that. “Solitude is an art. Mental training is needed to refine and stabilize it,” he writes. “When you practice solitude, you dedicate yourself to the care of the soul.” Whatever a soul is, the author goes a long way toward soothing it.

A very welcome instance of philosophy that can help readers live a good life.

Pub Date: Feb. 18, 2020

ISBN: 978-0-300-25093-0

Page Count: 200

Publisher: Yale Univ.

Review Posted Online: Nov. 24, 2019

Kirkus Reviews Issue: Dec. 15, 2019

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