A warmly reassuring and useful, if sometimes overly effusive, New Age guide to mindful fulfillment.
Feeling anxious, inert, and adrift? Time to reconnect with the Divine Feminine, argues this self-helper.
Hoem, a psychotherapist and life coach, addresses readers who feel beset by the world’s horrors and brutality, prospects of environmental catastrophe and nuclear war, and a denatured personal life divided among frenetic busyness, listless staring at screens, and addictions. Drawing on Hindu yogic philosophy and theosophical lore, she invokes a cosmic life force known variously as the Divine Mother, Mother Mary, Sophia, Quan Yin, Grandmother Spider Woman, Goddess Kundalini Shakti, and the Healer of the World. The author elaborates a therapeutic framework of “everyday soul dances,” meaning the practice of investing ordinary life tasks with a heightened awareness, sacredness, and benevolent purpose. Hoem grounds this approach in a discussion of Hindu concepts like karma, dharma, and chakras as well as her own principles of “Consecration, Constancy, Courage, and Contemplation.” She also lays out a number of concrete activities for readers to do, including dream interpreting, praying, chanting of mantras, meditating—she includes links to recorded meditation sessions on her website everydaysouldances.com—and ruminating and journaling on knotty questions like “What is your highest purpose?” The author writes with insight and empathy about the psychological discontents of daily life and provides down-to-earth, practical tips for dispelling them with everything from breathing exercises—“Next, exhale completely allowing the breath to release from the top to the middle to the bottom”—to the slow reform of habits. (She recommends picking a simple self-improvement goal and practicing it for 90 days.) Sometimes, though, Hoem’s advice takes on an esoteric and supernatural cast. (“Ask your guides, the Divine Mother, angels, and other ascended masters who support you to guide you.”) Her writing often has a mystical feel and cadence, especially when she is channeling the voice of the Divine Mother, whether in prose—“I Am both that which is and that which is not”—or verse. (“Take time to find Me. / Open. / I am here. / Always. / Forever. / I Am. / You are. / We are One.”) Sometimes these raptures can feel overdone or vaporous, but readers seeking uplift, inspiration, and motivation will find them here in spades.
A warmly reassuring and useful, if sometimes overly effusive, New Age guide to mindful fulfillment.Pub Date: Dec. 27, 2019
ISBN: 978-1-9822-3358-7
Page Count: 284
Publisher: BalboaPress
Review Posted Online: Feb. 17, 2022
Kirkus Reviews Issue: April 15, 2022
Review Program: Kirkus Indie
It’s not Shakespeare, not by a long shot. But at least it’s not James Franco.
A noted actor turns to verse: “Poems are a Saturday in the middle of the week.”
McConaughey, author of the gracefully written memoir Greenlights, has been writing poems since his teens, closing with one “written in an Australian bathtub” that reads just as a poem by an 18-year-old (Rimbaud excepted) should read: “Ignorant minds of the fortunate man / Blind of the fate shaping every land.” McConaughey is fearless in his commitment to the rhyme, no matter how slight the result (“Oops, took a quick peek at the sky before I got my glasses, / now I can’t see shit, sure hope this passes”). And, sad to say, the slight is what is most on display throughout, punctuated by some odd koanlike aperçus: “Eating all we can / at the all-we-can-eat buffet, / gives us a 3.8 education / and a 4.2 GPA.” “Never give up your right to do the next right thing. This is how we find our way home.” “Memory never forgets. Even though we do.” The prayer portion of the program is deeply felt, but it’s just as sentimental; only when he writes of life-changing events—a court appearance to file a restraining order against a stalker, his decision to quit smoking weed—do we catch a glimpse of the effortlessly fluent, effortlessly charming McConaughey as exemplified by the David Wooderson (“alright, alright, alright”) of Dazed and Confused. The rest is mostly a soufflé in verse. McConaughey’s heart is very clearly in the right place, but on the whole the book suggests an old saw: Don’t give up your day job.
It’s not Shakespeare, not by a long shot. But at least it’s not James Franco.Pub Date: Sept. 16, 2025
ISBN: 9781984862105
Page Count: 208
Publisher: Crown
Review Posted Online: Aug. 15, 2025
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Sept. 15, 2025
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SEEN & HEARD
A sweet final word from an actor who leaves a legacy of compassion and kindness.
The late actor offers a gentle guide for living with more purpose, love, and joy.
Mixing poetry, prescriptive challenges, and elements of memoir, Heche (1969-2022) delivers a narrative that is more encouraging workbook than life story. The author wants to share what she has discovered over the course of a life filled with abuse, advocacy, and uncanny turning points. Her greatest discovery? Love. “Open yourself up to love and transform kindness from a feeling you extend to those around you to actions that you perform for them,” she writes. “Only by caring can we open ourselves up to the universe, and only by opening up to the universe can we fully experience all the wonders that it holds, the greatest of which is love.” Throughout the occasionally overwrought text, Heche is heavy on the concept of care. She wants us to experience joy as she does, and she provides a road map for how to get there. Instead of slinking away from Hollywood and the ridicule that she endured there, Heche found the good and hung on, with Alec Baldwin and Harrison Ford starring as particularly shining knights in her story. Some readers may dismiss this material as vapid Hollywood stuff, but Heche’s perspective is an empathetic blend of Buddhism (minimize suffering), dialectical behavioral therapy (tolerating distress), Christianity (do unto others), and pre-Socratic philosophy (sufficient reason). “You’re not out to change the whole world, but to increase the levels of love and kindness in the world, drop by drop,” she writes. “Over time, these actions wear away the coldness, hate, and indifference around us as surely as water slowly wearing away stone.” Readers grieving her loss will take solace knowing that she lived her love-filled life on her own terms. Heche’s business and podcast partner, Heather Duffy, writes the epilogue, closing the book on a life well lived.
A sweet final word from an actor who leaves a legacy of compassion and kindness.Pub Date: Jan. 24, 2023
ISBN: 9781627783316
Page Count: 176
Publisher: Viva Editions
Review Posted Online: Feb. 6, 2023
Kirkus Reviews Issue: March 1, 2023
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