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YOUR FUTURE SELF

HOW TO MAKE TOMORROW BETTER TODAY

An encouraging, practical guide for decision-making.

How to act on your own behalf.

Hershfield, a psychologist and professor of marketing, offers thoughtful, research-based guidance about making decisions in the present to create a better future for yourself. “If you were able to sit down and have a conversation with your future self,” he asks, “what would you say, and what would happen as a result?” Marshaling abundant anecdotes, hypothetical scenarios, and findings from social science research, the author asserts that often we use “the emotional states of our current selves to make decisions for future selves who will no longer feel the same way.” Instead, we must recognize that our future self may have different needs and perspectives from our present self. Everyone changes over time. Rather than there being “a central self at our core,” Hershfield has found from his own research that each individual is “an aggregation of separate, distinct selves.” When we become “overly anchored on present-day concerns,” though, we imagine that a future self will feel exactly the same way as we do now. The author suggests that connecting with a vividly imagined future self can make us more likely to act on that future self’s behalf—by saving more for retirement, for example, or by choosing a healthy diet and exercising. Some strategies to help make that connection include writing a letter to a future self or looking at age-progressed images. “In a variety of ways,” he writes, “we see our distant selves as if they are other people. What matters is the relationships we have with those other people.” When deciding whether to commit to some future activity, we should weigh “how much burden and stress” the activity may create against the positive opportunities that may arise from the experience. To help achieve our goals, Hershfield proposes assorted commitment devices to help us follow a desired course of action and overcome undermining behavior.

An encouraging, practical guide for decision-making.

Pub Date: June 6, 2023

ISBN: 9780316421256

Page Count: 304

Publisher: Little, Brown Spark

Review Posted Online: March 21, 2023

Kirkus Reviews Issue: April 15, 2023

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GREENLIGHTS

A conversational, pleasurable look into McConaughey’s life and thought.

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All right, all right, all right: The affable, laconic actor delivers a combination of memoir and self-help book.

“This is an approach book,” writes McConaughey, adding that it contains “philosophies that can be objectively understood, and if you choose, subjectively adopted, by either changing your reality, or changing how you see it. This is a playbook, based on adventures in my life.” Some of those philosophies come in the form of apothegms: “When you can design your own weather, blow in the breeze”; “Simplify, focus, conserve to liberate.” Others come in the form of sometimes rambling stories that never take the shortest route from point A to point B, as when he recounts a dream-spurred, challenging visit to the Malian musician Ali Farka Touré, who offered a significant lesson in how disagreement can be expressed politely and without rancor. Fans of McConaughey will enjoy his memories—which line up squarely with other accounts in Melissa Maerz’s recent oral history, Alright, Alright, Alright—of his debut in Richard Linklater’s Dazed and Confused, to which he contributed not just that signature phrase, but also a kind of too-cool-for-school hipness that dissolves a bit upon realizing that he’s an older guy on the prowl for teenage girls. McConaughey’s prep to settle into the role of Wooderson involved inhabiting the mind of a dude who digs cars, rock ’n’ roll, and “chicks,” and he ran with it, reminding readers that the film originally had only three scripted scenes for his character. The lesson: “Do one thing well, then another. Once, then once more.” It’s clear that the author is a thoughtful man, even an intellectual of sorts, though without the earnestness of Ethan Hawke or James Franco. Though some of the sentiments are greeting card–ish, this book is entertaining and full of good lessons.

A conversational, pleasurable look into McConaughey’s life and thought.

Pub Date: Oct. 20, 2020

ISBN: 978-0-593-13913-4

Page Count: 304

Publisher: Crown

Review Posted Online: Oct. 27, 2020

Kirkus Reviews Issue: Dec. 1, 2020

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THINKING, FAST AND SLOW

Striking research showing the immense complexity of ordinary thought and revealing the identities of the gatekeepers in our...

A psychologist and Nobel Prize winner summarizes and synthesizes the recent decades of research on intuition and systematic thinking.

The author of several scholarly texts, Kahneman (Emeritus Psychology and Public Affairs/Princeton Univ.) now offers general readers not just the findings of psychological research but also a better understanding of how research questions arise and how scholars systematically frame and answer them. He begins with the distinction between System 1 and System 2 mental operations, the former referring to quick, automatic thought, the latter to more effortful, overt thinking. We rely heavily, writes, on System 1, resorting to the higher-energy System 2 only when we need or want to. Kahneman continually refers to System 2 as “lazy”: We don’t want to think rigorously about something. The author then explores the nuances of our two-system minds, showing how they perform in various situations. Psychological experiments have repeatedly revealed that our intuitions are generally wrong, that our assessments are based on biases and that our System 1 hates doubt and despises ambiguity. Kahneman largely avoids jargon; when he does use some (“heuristics,” for example), he argues that such terms really ought to join our everyday vocabulary. He reviews many fundamental concepts in psychology and statistics (regression to the mean, the narrative fallacy, the optimistic bias), showing how they relate to his overall concerns about how we think and why we make the decisions that we do. Some of the later chapters (dealing with risk-taking and statistics and probabilities) are denser than others (some readers may resent such demands on System 2!), but the passages that deal with the economic and political implications of the research are gripping.

Striking research showing the immense complexity of ordinary thought and revealing the identities of the gatekeepers in our minds.

Pub Date: Nov. 1, 2011

ISBN: 978-0-374-27563-1

Page Count: 512

Publisher: Farrar, Straus and Giroux

Review Posted Online: Sept. 3, 2011

Kirkus Reviews Issue: Sept. 15, 2011

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