A potent, if overlong, account of the damaging effects of abuse on mental health.
A millennial woman chronicles the pain of growing up in an unstable and abusive family in this memoir about mental illness and survival.
McConnell was 8 years old when she made the first entry in her new diary, and the journal quickly became a secret friend and safe place to express the confusion and fear of a young girl growing up in a perilous world. “I keep a lot of secrets,” she confesses as she describes the loneliness of waiting in a car while her mother and stepfather drank in a bar, the terror of being chased by strange men at a playground, and the disturbing blackouts during which she attacked school bullies with rage and violence. As the author came of age, her feeling of being “an invisible nothing” increased as she faced the even more serious dangers of her own alcohol and drug abuse and a gang-rape. In the context of her painful life, cherished milestones, such as a first kiss and first date, became invasive assaults. Her love of music and her struggle to get an education provided lifelines of hope in an otherwise desperate existence. In an author’s note at the end of this lengthy narrative, McConnell acknowledges that she has “taken artistic liberty” in reconstructing the events of her own life. In spite of this, the immediacy of the storytelling style and the sheer volume of convincing details attest to the truth behind this powerful memoir. The author creates this sense of reliability by employing the fearlessly self-revealing tone of a personal diary and by anchoring her personal drama in relatable moments of popular culture and historical events, from watching Little House on the Prairie and pretending Pa Ingles was her own father to celebrating the fall of the Berlin Wall just before going to jail for drunken driving. The length and unremitting bleakness of the book are daunting, and its important message might be more accessible if it were more compact. Still, McConnell’s childhood trauma is depicted with poignant honesty, and those who stick with the work will cheer her survival.
A potent, if overlong, account of the damaging effects of abuse on mental health.Pub Date: Nov. 12, 2021
ISBN: 978-1-63988-097-3
Page Count: 704
Publisher: Atmosphere Press
Review Posted Online: Jan. 5, 2022
Review Program: Kirkus Indie
A juicy story with some truly crazy moments, yet Anderson's good heart shines through.
The iconic model tells the story of her eventful life.
According to the acknowledgments, this memoir started as "a fifty-page poem and then grew into hundreds of pages of…more poetry." Readers will be glad that Anderson eventually turned to writing prose, since the well-told anecdotes and memorable character sketches are what make it a page-turner. The poetry (more accurately described as italicized notes-to-self with line breaks) remains strewn liberally through the pages, often summarizing the takeaway or the emotional impact of the events described: "I was / and still am / an exceptionally / easy target. / And, / I'm proud of that." This way of expressing herself is part of who she is, formed partly by her passion for Anaïs Nin and other writers; she is a serious maven of literature and the arts. The narrative gets off to a good start with Anderson’s nostalgic memories of her childhood in coastal Vancouver, raised by very young, very wild, and not very competent parents. Here and throughout the book, the author displays a remarkable lack of anger. She has faced abuse and mistreatment of many kinds over the decades, but she touches on the most appalling passages lightly—though not so lightly you don't feel the torment of the media attention on the events leading up to her divorce from Tommy Lee. Her trip to the pages of Playboy, which involved an escape from a violent fiance and sneaking across the border, is one of many jaw-dropping stories. In one interesting passage, Julian Assange's mother counsels Anderson to desexualize her image in order to be taken more seriously as an activist. She decided that “it was too late to turn back now”—that sexy is an inalienable part of who she is. Throughout her account of this kooky, messed-up, enviable, and often thrilling life, her humility (her sons "are true miracles, considering the gene pool") never fails her.
A juicy story with some truly crazy moments, yet Anderson's good heart shines through.Pub Date: Jan. 31, 2023
ISBN: 9780063226562
Page Count: 256
Publisher: Dey Street/HarperCollins
Review Posted Online: Dec. 5, 2022
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Jan. 1, 2023
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A determined if self-regarding portrait of a candidate striving to define herself and her campaign on her own terms.
An insider’s chronicle of a pivotal presidential campaign.
Several months into the mounting political upheaval of Donald Trump’s second term and following a wave of bestselling political exposés, most notably Jake Tapper and Alex Thompson’s Original Sin on Joe Biden’s health and late decision to step down, former Vice President Harris offers her own account of the consequential months surrounding Biden’s withdrawal and her swift campaign for the presidency. Structured as brief chapters with countdown headers from 107 days to Election Day, the book recounts the campaign’s daily rigors: vetting a running mate, navigating back-to-back rallies, preparing for the convention and the debate with Trump, and deflecting obstacles in the form of both Trump’s camp and Biden’s faltering team. Harris aims to set the record straight on issues that have remained hotly debated. While acknowledging Biden’s advancing decline, she also highlights his foreign-policy steadiness: “His years of experience in foreign policy clearly showed….He was always focused, always commander in chief in that room.” More blame is placed on his inner circle, especially Jill Biden, whom Harris faults for pushing him beyond his limits—“the people who knew him best, should have realized that any campaign was a bridge too far.” Throughout, she highlights her own qualifications and dismisses suggestions that an open contest might have better served the party: “If they thought I was down with a mini primary or some other half-baked procedure, I was quick to disabuse them.” Facing Trump’s increasingly unhinged behavior, Harris never openly doubts her ability to confront him. Yet she doesn’t fully persuade the reader that she had the capacity to counter his dominance, suggesting instead that her defeat stemmed from a lack of time—a theme underscored by the urgency of the book’s title. If not entirely sanguine about the future, she maintains a clear-eyed view of the damage already done: “Perhaps so much damage that we will have to re-create our government…something leaner, swifter, and much more efficient.”
A determined if self-regarding portrait of a candidate striving to define herself and her campaign on her own terms.Pub Date: Sept. 23, 2025
ISBN: 9781668211656
Page Count: 320
Publisher: Simon & Schuster
Review Posted Online: Sept. 23, 2025
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Nov. 15, 2025
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