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Your Passport to HMT

A derivative but passionate call for establishing productive priorities.

Shah presents a guide to achieving the most important things in life.

The acronym in the title of this nonfiction debut stands for “health, money, and time,” which are characterized by the author as the central aspirations of human life, the things that really matter. In discussing these things—specifically, how to get them and how to maintain them—Shah aims his advice principally at younger readers who are trying to sort out life’s priorities for the first time—but everything he writes is applicable to older readers as well. (The book has a concluding section specifically addressed to parents and teachers, although parts of other sections urge parents to “teach your kids about civic sense, moral values, honesty, respect, finance, leadership, and becoming active on all fronts.”) Virtually all of his guidance revolves around two other sets of initials: AUC (Areas Under a person’s Control) and ABC (Areas Beyond a person’s Control). Discerning the difference between these categories and adjusting one’s actions accordingly is, in the author’s contention, the single most important step toward securing health, money, and time. “Worrying about how others behave, act, or react is pointless—it’s an ABC,” he writes. “Instead, focusing on how you respond with a smile, kindness, and positivity is your AUC.” He maps these concepts onto various facets of life, from work to entertainment to health to relationships, stressing to his younger readers that they’ll find HMT unsatisfying if they get them too late in life to enjoy them; Shah cautions that it’s important that his readers get an early start in developing the knowledge and discipline they’ll need to take control of their lives.

The text’s formatting—a series of prose-blocks with no paragraph indentations and occasionally no clear breaks between them—can distractingly make the reading experience feel more like phone-scrolling. A great deal of Shah’s counsel takes the form of aphoristic truisms (about the virtues of hard work and the importance of healthy relationships, for example) that were already cliches centuries ago, many of them presented here as though nobody had ever taught them before. But the author’s simple, straightforward enthusiasm is also a strength of the book, which is, in part, aimed at readers who may not have had the basics spelled out to them in this kind of detail. These readers are presented with plenty of warnings about the dangers of indulging themselves in the present at the expense of the future. Shah writes, for instance, about a young woman named Jahnavi who neglected her studies in favor of her mountaineering passion, only to end up 10 years later “living in Bangalore, sitting at home taking care of her kids as a housewife while her husband works in a technology firm for 12 hours.” (The moral of the story: “If you can’t take the pain of preparation, you have to take the pain of consequences.”) Some of these examples might strike younger readers as odd or even self-contradictory, but Shah’s consistent message will no doubt do this audience good: Don’t waste time and energy worrying about things you can’t control, devote your energy to improving the things you can control, and keep the big-picture perspective about the things that matter most. A derivative but passionate call for establishing productive priorities.

Pub Date: Jan. 5, 2025

ISBN: 9798305035674

Page Count: 100

Publisher: N/A

Review Posted Online: May 5, 2025

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CALL ME ANNE

A sweet final word from an actor who leaves a legacy of compassion and kindness.

The late actor offers a gentle guide for living with more purpose, love, and joy.

Mixing poetry, prescriptive challenges, and elements of memoir, Heche (1969-2022) delivers a narrative that is more encouraging workbook than life story. The author wants to share what she has discovered over the course of a life filled with abuse, advocacy, and uncanny turning points. Her greatest discovery? Love. “Open yourself up to love and transform kindness from a feeling you extend to those around you to actions that you perform for them,” she writes. “Only by caring can we open ourselves up to the universe, and only by opening up to the universe can we fully experience all the wonders that it holds, the greatest of which is love.” Throughout the occasionally overwrought text, Heche is heavy on the concept of care. She wants us to experience joy as she does, and she provides a road map for how to get there. Instead of slinking away from Hollywood and the ridicule that she endured there, Heche found the good and hung on, with Alec Baldwin and Harrison Ford starring as particularly shining knights in her story. Some readers may dismiss this material as vapid Hollywood stuff, but Heche’s perspective is an empathetic blend of Buddhism (minimize suffering), dialectical behavioral therapy (tolerating distress), Christianity (do unto others), and pre-Socratic philosophy (sufficient reason). “You’re not out to change the whole world, but to increase the levels of love and kindness in the world, drop by drop,” she writes. “Over time, these actions wear away the coldness, hate, and indifference around us as surely as water slowly wearing away stone.” Readers grieving her loss will take solace knowing that she lived her love-filled life on her own terms. Heche’s business and podcast partner, Heather Duffy, writes the epilogue, closing the book on a life well lived.

A sweet final word from an actor who leaves a legacy of compassion and kindness.

Pub Date: Jan. 24, 2023

ISBN: 9781627783316

Page Count: 176

Publisher: Viva Editions

Review Posted Online: Feb. 6, 2023

Kirkus Reviews Issue: March 1, 2023

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THE ART OF SOLITUDE

A very welcome instance of philosophy that can help readers live a good life.

A teacher and scholar of Buddhism offers a formally varied account of the available rewards of solitude.

“As Mother Ayahuasca takes me in her arms, I realize that last night I vomited up my attachment to Buddhism. In passing out, I died. In coming to, I was, so to speak, reborn. I no longer have to fight these battles, I repeat to myself. I am no longer a combatant in the dharma wars. It feels as if the course of my life has shifted onto another vector, like a train shunted off its familiar track onto a new trajectory.” Readers of Batchelor’s previous books (Secular Buddhism: Imagining the Dharma in an Uncertain World, 2017, etc.) will recognize in this passage the culmination of his decadeslong shift away from the religious commitments of Buddhism toward an ecumenical and homegrown philosophy of life. Writing in a variety of modes—memoir, history, collage, essay, biography, and meditation instruction—the author doesn’t argue for his approach to solitude as much as offer it for contemplation. Essentially, Batchelor implies that if you read what Buddha said here and what Montaigne said there, and if you consider something the author has noticed, and if you reflect on your own experience, you have the possibility to improve the quality of your life. For introspective readers, it’s easy to hear in this approach a direct response to Pascal’s claim that “all of humanity's problems stem from man's inability to sit quietly in a room alone.” Batchelor wants to relieve us of this inability by offering his example of how to do just that. “Solitude is an art. Mental training is needed to refine and stabilize it,” he writes. “When you practice solitude, you dedicate yourself to the care of the soul.” Whatever a soul is, the author goes a long way toward soothing it.

A very welcome instance of philosophy that can help readers live a good life.

Pub Date: Feb. 18, 2020

ISBN: 978-0-300-25093-0

Page Count: 200

Publisher: Yale Univ.

Review Posted Online: Nov. 24, 2019

Kirkus Reviews Issue: Dec. 15, 2019

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