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BECOME WHO YOU ARE

A NEW THEORY OF SELF-ESTEEM, HUMAN GREATNESS, AND THE OPPOSITE OF DEPRESSION

A paradigm-challenging new look at real happiness.

Bush conducts an unusual, society-oriented examination of the roots of happiness in this nonfiction work.

Although his book concerns “the opposite of depression,” the author, a motivational speaker, stresses from the outset that this doesn’t necessarily mean that it’s about eliminating sadness. Bush’s subject is a positive state, not the absence of a negative one; as he asserts, “It’s about striving for greatness, not recovering from an illness.” In searching for what the author refers to as a “grand, unified theory of happiness,” he proposes a new model of happiness itself. After noting that the realization of some long-held wish for sudden good fortune (winning the lottery, for example) often does not bring long-term happiness, Bush imagines a “z-axis” of virtue that complicates the usual spectrum of pain and pleasure—the z-axis is firmly rooted in the social elements of human nature. “Your actions must,” he contends, “exemplify traits that you value in others.” The author posits that “a good life is an admirable life.” Bush draws from a wide range of self-help and psychology authors as well as ancient and modern philosophers, and his book is attractively arranged and illustrated with graphs and flowcharts, but its core message is surprisingly simple: When the self one presents to the world is favorably aligned with one’s own values, one’s happiness increases. While he’s elaborating on this idea, Bush’s prose is always bracingly direct (“You don’t need meaning,” he writes; “You need virtue”). Some of his ideas might be controversial—the author tends to take motivational rather than medical stances on issues such as depression and autism, and his “z-axis” may resonate with monsters (“You should only care about social approval insofar as it reflects your own approval” sounds good on paper, but it’s also the life philosophy of sociopaths). Still, the bulk of the text has an energy that self-help readers will find invigorating.

A paradigm-challenging new look at real happiness.

Pub Date: Feb. 27, 2024

ISBN: 978-1737846246

Page Count: 272

Publisher: Dtm Press

Review Posted Online: Feb. 6, 2024

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THINKING, FAST AND SLOW

Striking research showing the immense complexity of ordinary thought and revealing the identities of the gatekeepers in our...

A psychologist and Nobel Prize winner summarizes and synthesizes the recent decades of research on intuition and systematic thinking.

The author of several scholarly texts, Kahneman (Emeritus Psychology and Public Affairs/Princeton Univ.) now offers general readers not just the findings of psychological research but also a better understanding of how research questions arise and how scholars systematically frame and answer them. He begins with the distinction between System 1 and System 2 mental operations, the former referring to quick, automatic thought, the latter to more effortful, overt thinking. We rely heavily, writes, on System 1, resorting to the higher-energy System 2 only when we need or want to. Kahneman continually refers to System 2 as “lazy”: We don’t want to think rigorously about something. The author then explores the nuances of our two-system minds, showing how they perform in various situations. Psychological experiments have repeatedly revealed that our intuitions are generally wrong, that our assessments are based on biases and that our System 1 hates doubt and despises ambiguity. Kahneman largely avoids jargon; when he does use some (“heuristics,” for example), he argues that such terms really ought to join our everyday vocabulary. He reviews many fundamental concepts in psychology and statistics (regression to the mean, the narrative fallacy, the optimistic bias), showing how they relate to his overall concerns about how we think and why we make the decisions that we do. Some of the later chapters (dealing with risk-taking and statistics and probabilities) are denser than others (some readers may resent such demands on System 2!), but the passages that deal with the economic and political implications of the research are gripping.

Striking research showing the immense complexity of ordinary thought and revealing the identities of the gatekeepers in our minds.

Pub Date: Nov. 1, 2011

ISBN: 978-0-374-27563-1

Page Count: 512

Publisher: Farrar, Straus and Giroux

Review Posted Online: Sept. 3, 2011

Kirkus Reviews Issue: Sept. 15, 2011

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THE CULTURE MAP

BREAKING THROUGH THE INVISIBLE BOUNDARIES OF GLOBAL BUSINESS

These are not hard and fast rules, but Meyer delivers important reading for those engaged in international business.

A helpful guide to working effectively with people from other cultures.

“The sad truth is that the vast majority of managers who conduct business internationally have little understanding about how culture is impacting their work,” writes Meyer, a professor at INSEAD, an international business school. Yet they face a wider array of work styles than ever before in dealing with clients, suppliers and colleagues from around the world. When is it best to speak or stay quiet? What is the role of the leader in the room? When working with foreign business people, failing to take cultural differences into account can lead to frustration, misunderstanding or worse. Based on research and her experiences teaching cross-cultural behaviors to executive students, the author examines a handful of key areas. Among others, they include communicating (Anglo-Saxons are explicit; Asians communicate implicitly, requiring listeners to read between the lines), developing a sense of trust (Brazilians do it over long lunches), and decision-making (Germans rely on consensus, Americans on one decider). In each area, the author provides a “culture map scale” that positions behaviors in more than 20 countries along a continuum, allowing readers to anticipate the preferences of individuals from a particular country: Do they like direct or indirect negative feedback? Are they rigid or flexible regarding deadlines? Do they favor verbal or written commitments? And so on. Meyer discusses managers who have faced perplexing situations, such as knowledgeable team members who fail to speak up in meetings or Indians who offer a puzzling half-shake, half-nod of the head. Cultural differences—not personality quirks—are the motivating factors behind many behavioral styles. Depending on our cultures, we understand the world in a particular way, find certain arguments persuasive or lacking merit, and consider some ways of making decisions or measuring time natural and others quite strange.

These are not hard and fast rules, but Meyer delivers important reading for those engaged in international business.

Pub Date: May 27, 2014

ISBN: 978-1-61039-250-1

Page Count: 288

Publisher: PublicAffairs

Review Posted Online: April 15, 2014

Kirkus Reviews Issue: May 1, 2014

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