Light, not-especially-memorable reading.
A popular country singer discusses her life traumas and offers advice about men, marriage, and parenthood.
Missouri native Evans was a self-professed "daddy's girl" who bonded with her father over a shared love of singing and showed a special gift for music at an early age. Her mother put together a family band, and soon Evans and her siblings were playing all over Missouri at everything from state fairs to Eagles Lodge dances. Difficulty coping with the stress suffered when Evans sustained injuries from being hit by a car led to familial strife, and her parents divorced just as she reached adolescence. Because her father ignored her, Evans began a long-term pattern of " 'begging' men to love me” and choosing abusive partners. It was her dream of country singer stardom that helped her leave a bad relationship (which she does not discuss in detail) and go to Nashville. A series of lucky breaks led to a seven-record deal with RCA, but the author did not achieve fame until the release of her third album. Sadly, her "fairy tale" life fell apart when she had a "meltdown" and then divorced the husband she neither describes nor names. A second marriage to a divorced father and former University of Alabama quarterback led to a happy blended family Evans dubs the "Barker Bunch.” In the second half of the book, the author offers such secrets for a happy marriage as “don’t be too needy or clingy [and] have your own friends.” Regarding her children, Evan writes about the need for discipline and fostering open lines of communication. Interspersed throughout with personal photographs, the memoir, though neither insightful nor revealing, will likely appeal to the singer's fans and country music lovers.
Light, not-especially-memorable reading.Pub Date: Sept. 8, 2020
ISBN: 978-1-5011-6258-9
Page Count: 224
Publisher: Howard Books/Simon & Schuster
Review Posted Online: June 15, 2020
Kirkus Reviews Issue: July 1, 2020
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Well-told and admonitory.
Young-rags-to-mature-riches memoir by broker and motivational speaker Gardner.
Born and raised in the Milwaukee ghetto, the author pulled himself up from considerable disadvantage. He was fatherless, and his adored mother wasn’t always around; once, as a child, he spied her at a family funeral accompanied by a prison guard. When beautiful, evanescent Moms was there, Chris also had to deal with Freddie “I ain’t your goddamn daddy!” Triplett, one of the meanest stepfathers in recent literature. Chris did “the dozens” with the homies, boosted a bit and in the course of youthful adventure was raped. His heroes were Miles Davis, James Brown and Muhammad Ali. Meanwhile, at the behest of Moms, he developed a fondness for reading. He joined the Navy and became a medic (preparing badass Marines for proctology), and a proficient lab technician. Moving up in San Francisco, married and then divorced, he sold medical supplies. He was recruited as a trainee at Dean Witter just around the time he became a homeless single father. All his belongings in a shopping cart, Gardner sometimes slept with his young son at the office (apparently undiscovered by the night cleaning crew). The two also frequently bedded down in a public restroom. After Gardner’s talents were finally appreciated by the firm of Bear Stearns, his American Dream became real. He got the cool duds, hot car and fine ladies so coveted from afar back in the day. He even had a meeting with Nelson Mandela. Through it all, he remained a prideful parent. His own no-daddy blues are gone now.
Well-told and admonitory.Pub Date: June 1, 2006
ISBN: 0-06-074486-3
Page Count: 320
Publisher: Amistad/HarperCollins
Review Posted Online: May 19, 2010
Kirkus Reviews Issue: March 15, 2006
This autobiography might almost be said to supply the roots to Wright's famous novel, Native Son.
It is a grim record, disturbing, the story of how — in one boy's life — the seeds of hate and distrust and race riots were planted. Wright was born to poverty and hardship in the deep south; his father deserted his mother, and circumstances and illness drove the little family from place to place, from degradation to degradation. And always, there was the thread of fear and hate and suspicion and discrimination — of white set against black — of black set against Jew — of intolerance. Driven to deceit, to dishonesty, ambition thwarted, motives impugned, Wright struggled against the tide, put by a tiny sum to move on, finally got to Chicago, and there — still against odds — pulled himself up, acquired some education through reading, allied himself with the Communists — only to be thrust out for non-conformity — and wrote continually. The whole tragedy of a race seems dramatized in this record; it is virtually unrelieved by any vestige of human tenderness, or humor; there are no bright spots. And yet it rings true. It is an unfinished story of a problem that has still to be met.
Perhaps this will force home unpalatable facts of a submerged minority, a problem far from being faced.
Pub Date: Feb. 28, 1945
ISBN: 0061130249
Page Count: 450
Publisher: N/A
Review Posted Online: Oct. 7, 2011
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Feb. 1, 1945
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