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UNREASONABLE HOSPITALITY

THE REMARKABLE POWER OF GIVING PEOPLE MORE THAN THEY EXPECT

Sage advice about leadership.

A noted restaurateur and manager shares his experiences.

Guidara, co-owner of the world-renowned New York restaurant Eleven Madison Park, makes his nonfiction debut with an enthusiastic guide for leaders. Drawing on 25 years in restaurant work, including corporate and management positions, the author asserts that hospitality is crucial to the success of any business. In a restaurant, hospitality means “genuinely engaging with the person you’re serving, so you can make an authentic connection.” That engagement results from a culture of caring that emanates from everyone involved. A restaurant manager must ask a host of important questions: “How do you make the people who work for you and the people you serve feel seen and valued? How do you give them a sense of belonging? How do you make them feel part of something bigger than themselves? How do you make them feel welcome?” The author distinguishes between being “restaurant-smart”—doing what’s best for the guests—and “corporate-smart”—i.e., “running a tight ship.” When those two goals created tension, Guidara found that trust was essential to forging a productive team. “A leader’s responsibility,” he writes, “is to identify the strengths of the people on their team, no matter how buried those strengths might be.” A leader is also responsible for giving praise, choosing how and when to deliver criticism, and encouraging participation from all team members. Ultimately, a leader must know when to take the helm. “If you try to be all things to all people,” writes the author, “it’s proof that you don’t have a point of view—and if you want to make an impact, you need to have a point of view.” Most of Guidara’s anecdotes come from his eventful years as manager of Eleven Madison Park, which was chosen as the world’s best restaurant in 2017. That success, he insists, came from daring to enact “unreasonable hospitality”—going beyond flawless service and memorable cuisine to shower each guest with personal attention.

Sage advice about leadership.

Pub Date: Oct. 25, 2022

ISBN: 978-0-593-41857-4

Page Count: 288

Publisher: Optimism Press

Review Posted Online: Aug. 22, 2022

Kirkus Reviews Issue: Sept. 15, 2022

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THINKING, FAST AND SLOW

Striking research showing the immense complexity of ordinary thought and revealing the identities of the gatekeepers in our...

A psychologist and Nobel Prize winner summarizes and synthesizes the recent decades of research on intuition and systematic thinking.

The author of several scholarly texts, Kahneman (Emeritus Psychology and Public Affairs/Princeton Univ.) now offers general readers not just the findings of psychological research but also a better understanding of how research questions arise and how scholars systematically frame and answer them. He begins with the distinction between System 1 and System 2 mental operations, the former referring to quick, automatic thought, the latter to more effortful, overt thinking. We rely heavily, writes, on System 1, resorting to the higher-energy System 2 only when we need or want to. Kahneman continually refers to System 2 as “lazy”: We don’t want to think rigorously about something. The author then explores the nuances of our two-system minds, showing how they perform in various situations. Psychological experiments have repeatedly revealed that our intuitions are generally wrong, that our assessments are based on biases and that our System 1 hates doubt and despises ambiguity. Kahneman largely avoids jargon; when he does use some (“heuristics,” for example), he argues that such terms really ought to join our everyday vocabulary. He reviews many fundamental concepts in psychology and statistics (regression to the mean, the narrative fallacy, the optimistic bias), showing how they relate to his overall concerns about how we think and why we make the decisions that we do. Some of the later chapters (dealing with risk-taking and statistics and probabilities) are denser than others (some readers may resent such demands on System 2!), but the passages that deal with the economic and political implications of the research are gripping.

Striking research showing the immense complexity of ordinary thought and revealing the identities of the gatekeepers in our minds.

Pub Date: Nov. 1, 2011

ISBN: 978-0-374-27563-1

Page Count: 512

Publisher: Farrar, Straus and Giroux

Review Posted Online: Sept. 3, 2011

Kirkus Reviews Issue: Sept. 15, 2011

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Highly instructive for would-be tycoons, with plenty of entertaining interludes.

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Well-crafted memoir by the noted media mogul.

Diller’s home life as a youngster was anything but happy; as he writes early on, “The household I grew up in was perfectly dysfunctional.” His mother lived in her own world, his father was knee-deep in business deals, his brother was a heroin addict, and he tried to play by all the rules in order to allay “my fear of the consequences from my incipient homosexuality.” Somehow he fell into the orbit of show business figures like Lew Wasserman (“I was once arrested for joy-riding in Mrs. Wasserman’s Bentley”) and decided that Hollywood offered the right kind of escape. Starting in the proverbial mailroom, he worked his way up to be a junior talent agent, then scrambled up the ladder to become a high-up executive at ABC, head of Paramount and Fox, and an internet pioneer who invested in Match.com and took over a revitalized Ticketmaster. None of that ascent was easy, and Diller documents several key failures along the way, including boardroom betrayals (“What a monumental dope I’d been. They’d taken over the company—in a merger I’d created—with venality and duplicity”) and strategic missteps. It’s no news that the corporate world is rife with misbehavior, but the better part of Diller’s book is his dish on the players: He meets Jack Nicholson at the William Morris Agency, “wandering through the halls, looking for anyone who’d pay attention to him”; hangs out with Warren Beatty, ever on the make; mispronounces Barbra Streisand’s name (“her glare at me as she walked out would have fried a fish”); learns a remedy for prostatitis from Katharine Hepburn (“My father was an expert urological surgeon, and I know what I’m doing”); and much more in one of the better show-biz memoirs to appear in recent years.

Highly instructive for would-be tycoons, with plenty of entertaining interludes.

Pub Date: May 20, 2025

ISBN: 9780593317877

Page Count: 352

Publisher: Simon & Schuster

Review Posted Online: May 12, 2025

Kirkus Reviews Issue: June 15, 2025

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