A sophisticated, mind-stretching argument for psychoanalysis as a way of understanding why we want a good life.
You can’t always get what you want.
The British psychoanalyst Phillips recognizes that, while psychotherapy may not be a flawless science, it offers a means of coping with the world and understanding the relationship between desire and happiness. This collection of essays brings together the legacies of Sigmund Freud and the American pragmatist philosopher Richard Rorty, both of whom were concerned with integrating human needs into a fulfilling social life. The result is a self-help book of a very high order, rich with quotations and explications of literary and philosophical texts phrased in an aphoristic style. “People always do things for good reasons, even though often they do not know what these reasons are. Psychoanalysis is there to help us work out what our reasons might be, and what we think about them.” The reader will work hard to find such clear statements, though. Much of the book delves deep into the work of thinkers such as D.W. Winnicott and Gilles Deleuze, trying to find concord between those who focus on the unconscious and those who focus on everyday lived life. “The psychoanalyst is an essentialist who believes in the unconscious…the pragmatist is an anti-essentialist, unwilling to believe in determinisms and committed to human agency and choice-making.” Psychoanalysis begins with resistance; pragmatism begins with acceptance. If you take Phillips at his word, you will go into psychoanalysis to struggle with unfulfilled desire while recognizing that the life you want will not be provided by others but found for yourself, both inside your head and outside in the world. Not a book for the casual reader.
A sophisticated, mind-stretching argument for psychoanalysis as a way of understanding why we want a good life.Pub Date: March 31, 2026
ISBN: 9780374617974
Page Count: 160
Publisher: Farrar, Straus and Giroux
Review Posted Online: Sept. 25, 2025
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Nov. 1, 2025
Striking research showing the immense complexity of ordinary thought and revealing the identities of the gatekeepers in our...
A psychologist and Nobel Prize winner summarizes and synthesizes the recent decades of research on intuition and systematic thinking.
The author of several scholarly texts, Kahneman (Emeritus Psychology and Public Affairs/Princeton Univ.) now offers general readers not just the findings of psychological research but also a better understanding of how research questions arise and how scholars systematically frame and answer them. He begins with the distinction between System 1 and System 2 mental operations, the former referring to quick, automatic thought, the latter to more effortful, overt thinking. We rely heavily, writes, on System 1, resorting to the higher-energy System 2 only when we need or want to. Kahneman continually refers to System 2 as “lazy”: We don’t want to think rigorously about something. The author then explores the nuances of our two-system minds, showing how they perform in various situations. Psychological experiments have repeatedly revealed that our intuitions are generally wrong, that our assessments are based on biases and that our System 1 hates doubt and despises ambiguity. Kahneman largely avoids jargon; when he does use some (“heuristics,” for example), he argues that such terms really ought to join our everyday vocabulary. He reviews many fundamental concepts in psychology and statistics (regression to the mean, the narrative fallacy, the optimistic bias), showing how they relate to his overall concerns about how we think and why we make the decisions that we do. Some of the later chapters (dealing with risk-taking and statistics and probabilities) are denser than others (some readers may resent such demands on System 2!), but the passages that deal with the economic and political implications of the research are gripping.
Striking research showing the immense complexity of ordinary thought and revealing the identities of the gatekeepers in our minds.Pub Date: Nov. 1, 2011
ISBN: 978-0-374-27563-1
Page Count: 512
Publisher: Farrar, Straus and Giroux
Review Posted Online: Sept. 3, 2011
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Sept. 15, 2011
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These are not hard and fast rules, but Meyer delivers important reading for those engaged in international business.
A helpful guide to working effectively with people from other cultures.
“The sad truth is that the vast majority of managers who conduct business internationally have little understanding about how culture is impacting their work,” writes Meyer, a professor at INSEAD, an international business school. Yet they face a wider array of work styles than ever before in dealing with clients, suppliers and colleagues from around the world. When is it best to speak or stay quiet? What is the role of the leader in the room? When working with foreign business people, failing to take cultural differences into account can lead to frustration, misunderstanding or worse. Based on research and her experiences teaching cross-cultural behaviors to executive students, the author examines a handful of key areas. Among others, they include communicating (Anglo-Saxons are explicit; Asians communicate implicitly, requiring listeners to read between the lines), developing a sense of trust (Brazilians do it over long lunches), and decision-making (Germans rely on consensus, Americans on one decider). In each area, the author provides a “culture map scale” that positions behaviors in more than 20 countries along a continuum, allowing readers to anticipate the preferences of individuals from a particular country: Do they like direct or indirect negative feedback? Are they rigid or flexible regarding deadlines? Do they favor verbal or written commitments? And so on. Meyer discusses managers who have faced perplexing situations, such as knowledgeable team members who fail to speak up in meetings or Indians who offer a puzzling half-shake, half-nod of the head. Cultural differences—not personality quirks—are the motivating factors behind many behavioral styles. Depending on our cultures, we understand the world in a particular way, find certain arguments persuasive or lacking merit, and consider some ways of making decisions or measuring time natural and others quite strange.
These are not hard and fast rules, but Meyer delivers important reading for those engaged in international business.Pub Date: May 27, 2014
ISBN: 978-1-61039-250-1
Page Count: 288
Publisher: PublicAffairs
Review Posted Online: April 15, 2014
Kirkus Reviews Issue: May 1, 2014
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