A calming and invaluable handbook of life strategies.
Retired U.S. Marine and self-help and personal finance author Smith offers a set of motivational and practical guidelines for teenagers.
In these pages, the author, who holds a master’s degree in business administration, expands his remit from the specific realm of money matters to an array of skills that one can master during one’s teenage years. He promptly notes that these years can be complicated and stressful, but he underlines the importance of discipline and resilience when learning strategies for a happy and successful adulthood. He discusses a wide range of subjects from social media to mental health and dealing with conflict—and, of course, he includes a typically excellent chapter on managing one’s finances. At the core of many of his discussions is what he refers to as the LION method, which stands for “Legendary, Intentional, Organized, and Now-Focused”: a goal-setting approach where the objectives are “inspiring, purposeful, clear, and actionable.” In many discussions, Smith uses the example of his friend’s son James as a personalizing focus; when James encounters a challenge when sharpening his “emotional intelligence” or dealing with procrastination, young readers will more readily see themselves in the situations. Smith buttresses his assertions in every chapter with references and citations and includes an extensive bibliography. This information is welcome, but the book’s greatest strength is its consistently encouraging tone, which readers may appreciate even more than all the practical advice. For instance, he calmly and confidently warns readers about negative thoughts—not to avoid them, but to understand them: “Thoughts like this are disempowering,” he writes, “and they’re going to stand in your way unless you actively challenge and dissect them.” His tips on so many aspects of teen life are never hurried, never fad-driven, and always realistic. He acknowledges, for example, that “online culture” will inevitably play a big role in any modern person’s life and goes on to stress the importance of “each of us making smart and thoughtful choices every day,” which is excellent advice, all around.
A calming and invaluable handbook of life strategies.Pub Date: Aug. 15, 2025
ISBN: 9798291999967
Page Count: 154
Publisher: N/A
Review Posted Online: Dec. 16, 2025
Review Program: Kirkus Indie
Readers unfamiliar with the anecdotal material Greene presents may find interesting avenues to pursue, but they should...
Greene (The 33 Strategies of War, 2007, etc.) believes that genius can be learned if we pay attention and reject social conformity.
The author suggests that our emergence as a species with stereoscopic, frontal vision and sophisticated hand-eye coordination gave us an advantage over earlier humans and primates because it allowed us to contemplate a situation and ponder alternatives for action. This, along with the advantages conferred by mirror neurons, which allow us to intuit what others may be thinking, contributed to our ability to learn, pass on inventions to future generations and improve our problem-solving ability. Throughout most of human history, we were hunter-gatherers, and our brains are engineered accordingly. The author has a jaundiced view of our modern technological society, which, he writes, encourages quick, rash judgments. We fail to spend the time needed to develop thorough mastery of a subject. Greene writes that every human is “born unique,” with specific potential that we can develop if we listen to our inner voice. He offers many interesting but tendentious examples to illustrate his theory, including Einstein, Darwin, Mozart and Temple Grandin. In the case of Darwin, Greene ignores the formative intellectual influences that shaped his thought, including the discovery of geological evolution with which he was familiar before his famous voyage. The author uses Grandin's struggle to overcome autistic social handicaps as a model for the necessity for everyone to create a deceptive social mask.
Readers unfamiliar with the anecdotal material Greene presents may find interesting avenues to pursue, but they should beware of the author's quirky, sometimes misleading brush-stroke characterizations.Pub Date: Nov. 13, 2012
ISBN: 978-0-670-02496-4
Page Count: 320
Publisher: Viking
Review Posted Online: Sept. 12, 2012
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Oct. 1, 2012
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Doyle offers another lucid, inspiring chronicle of female empowerment and the rewards of self-awareness and renewal.
More life reflections from the bestselling author on themes of societal captivity and the catharsis of personal freedom.
In her third book, Doyle (Love Warrior, 2016, etc.) begins with a life-changing event. “Four years ago,” she writes, “married to the father of my three children, I fell in love with a woman.” That woman, Abby Wambach, would become her wife. Emblematically arranged into three sections—“Caged,” “Keys,” “Freedom”—the narrative offers, among other elements, vignettes about the soulful author’s girlhood, when she was bulimic and felt like a zoo animal, a “caged girl made for wide-open skies.” She followed the path that seemed right and appropriate based on her Catholic upbringing and adolescent conditioning. After a downward spiral into “drinking, drugging, and purging,” Doyle found sobriety and the authentic self she’d been suppressing. Still, there was trouble: Straining an already troubled marriage was her husband’s infidelity, which eventually led to life-altering choices and the discovery of a love she’d never experienced before. Throughout the book, Doyle remains open and candid, whether she’s admitting to rigging a high school homecoming court election or denouncing the doting perfectionism of “cream cheese parenting,” which is about “giving your children the best of everything.” The author’s fears and concerns are often mirrored by real-world issues: gender roles and bias, white privilege, racism, and religion-fueled homophobia and hypocrisy. Some stories merely skim the surface of larger issues, but Doyle revisits them in later sections and digs deeper, using friends and familial references to personify their impact on her life, both past and present. Shorter pieces, some only a page in length, manage to effectively translate an emotional gut punch, as when Doyle’s therapist called her blooming extramarital lesbian love a “dangerous distraction.” Ultimately, the narrative is an in-depth look at a courageous woman eager to share the wealth of her experiences by embracing vulnerability and reclaiming her inner strength and resiliency.
Doyle offers another lucid, inspiring chronicle of female empowerment and the rewards of self-awareness and renewal.Pub Date: March 10, 2020
ISBN: 978-1-9848-0125-8
Page Count: 352
Publisher: Dial Books
Review Posted Online: Dec. 21, 2019
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Jan. 15, 2020
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