Well-earned wisdom serenely imparted.
The author of Silence (2017) and Walking (2019) ponders discipline, courage, failure, and happiness.
Between 1990 and 1994, Norwegian explorer, art collector, and publisher Kagge completed three impressive feats: walking to the North and South Poles and climbing Mount Everest. In a slim volume illustrated by bone-chilling photographs of rugged glacial terrain, the author shares some of what he learned from those experiences as well as from other challenges—sailing across the Atlantic on a 35-foot boat severely battered by a storm, for example, and raising three teenage girls (“more daunting,” he admits, than climbing Everest). “What I know of discipline I learned above the tree line,” he reveals. Drawing on the insights of several other explorers—such as Roald Amundsen and Thor Heyerdahl—and thinkers including Socrates, Aristotle, John Stuart Mill, Wittgenstein, Pascal, and Kant, Kagge meditates about fear, solitude, and the meaning of challenges. “For any undertaking to be truly challenging, you have to stand to lose something,” he writes. Humans need challenges to “make us feel like we have to earn the gift of life.” Although being able to surmount danger “feels like a confirmation of our own existence,” a challenge need not involve the kind of physical exertion Kagge undertook in the polar expeditions, where, he found, the hardest thing was getting up in the morning and leaving his warm sleeping bag. Challenge also involves finding purpose, taking responsibility, and nurturing one’s dreams: “having dreams, and wondering about the world around me, is what will keep me going,” he writes. For Kagge, the secret to a good life is to “keep your joys simple.” Having met thousands of people on his world travels, he has come to believe that most undervalue themselves. “It seems that many of us are afraid of our own greatness,” he writes, “and so we make ourselves less than we are.”
Well-earned wisdom serenely imparted.Pub Date: Nov. 17, 2020
ISBN: 978-1-5247-4911-8
Page Count: 192
Publisher: Pantheon
Review Posted Online: Oct. 26, 2020
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Nov. 15, 2020
A conversational, pleasurable look into McConaughey’s life and thought.
All right, all right, all right: The affable, laconic actor delivers a combination of memoir and self-help book.
“This is an approach book,” writes McConaughey, adding that it contains “philosophies that can be objectively understood, and if you choose, subjectively adopted, by either changing your reality, or changing how you see it. This is a playbook, based on adventures in my life.” Some of those philosophies come in the form of apothegms: “When you can design your own weather, blow in the breeze”; “Simplify, focus, conserve to liberate.” Others come in the form of sometimes rambling stories that never take the shortest route from point A to point B, as when he recounts a dream-spurred, challenging visit to the Malian musician Ali Farka Touré, who offered a significant lesson in how disagreement can be expressed politely and without rancor. Fans of McConaughey will enjoy his memories—which line up squarely with other accounts in Melissa Maerz’s recent oral history, Alright, Alright, Alright—of his debut in Richard Linklater’s Dazed and Confused, to which he contributed not just that signature phrase, but also a kind of too-cool-for-school hipness that dissolves a bit upon realizing that he’s an older guy on the prowl for teenage girls. McConaughey’s prep to settle into the role of Wooderson involved inhabiting the mind of a dude who digs cars, rock ’n’ roll, and “chicks,” and he ran with it, reminding readers that the film originally had only three scripted scenes for his character. The lesson: “Do one thing well, then another. Once, then once more.” It’s clear that the author is a thoughtful man, even an intellectual of sorts, though without the earnestness of Ethan Hawke or James Franco. Though some of the sentiments are greeting card–ish, this book is entertaining and full of good lessons.
A conversational, pleasurable look into McConaughey’s life and thought.Pub Date: Oct. 20, 2020
ISBN: 978-0-593-13913-4
Page Count: 304
Publisher: Crown
Review Posted Online: Oct. 27, 2020
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Dec. 1, 2020
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A sweet final word from an actor who leaves a legacy of compassion and kindness.
The late actor offers a gentle guide for living with more purpose, love, and joy.
Mixing poetry, prescriptive challenges, and elements of memoir, Heche (1969-2022) delivers a narrative that is more encouraging workbook than life story. The author wants to share what she has discovered over the course of a life filled with abuse, advocacy, and uncanny turning points. Her greatest discovery? Love. “Open yourself up to love and transform kindness from a feeling you extend to those around you to actions that you perform for them,” she writes. “Only by caring can we open ourselves up to the universe, and only by opening up to the universe can we fully experience all the wonders that it holds, the greatest of which is love.” Throughout the occasionally overwrought text, Heche is heavy on the concept of care. She wants us to experience joy as she does, and she provides a road map for how to get there. Instead of slinking away from Hollywood and the ridicule that she endured there, Heche found the good and hung on, with Alec Baldwin and Harrison Ford starring as particularly shining knights in her story. Some readers may dismiss this material as vapid Hollywood stuff, but Heche’s perspective is an empathetic blend of Buddhism (minimize suffering), dialectical behavioral therapy (tolerating distress), Christianity (do unto others), and pre-Socratic philosophy (sufficient reason). “You’re not out to change the whole world, but to increase the levels of love and kindness in the world, drop by drop,” she writes. “Over time, these actions wear away the coldness, hate, and indifference around us as surely as water slowly wearing away stone.” Readers grieving her loss will take solace knowing that she lived her love-filled life on her own terms. Heche’s business and podcast partner, Heather Duffy, writes the epilogue, closing the book on a life well lived.
A sweet final word from an actor who leaves a legacy of compassion and kindness.Pub Date: Jan. 24, 2023
ISBN: 9781627783316
Page Count: 176
Publisher: Viva Editions
Review Posted Online: Feb. 6, 2023
Kirkus Reviews Issue: March 1, 2023
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