A surprisingly handy, low-tech how-to guide.

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Creating the Good Life

A PRACTICAL GUIDE TO PERSONAL AND FINANCIAL HAPPINESS

A successful financial planner imparts a lifetime of wisdom in a debut self-help manual that’s poetic and practical.

In today’s world, it might seem justifiable to dismiss a book that advocates daily affirmations printed on index cards as little more than a well-meaning Luddite text. But in this case, that would be a mistake. Here, the author assembles a concrete, orderly battle plan carefully designed to fight old habits, negative thoughts and bad attitudes that prevent readers from getting the most out of life. Some app-obsessed readers may scoff, but there’s genuine therapeutic value in Decoster’s old-fashioned self-help approach, which speaks directly to the latest scientific discoveries about the brain’s neuroplasticity and changeability. The author also provides one of the most cogent explanations of the evolution of the brain as most readers are likely to find. Even the book’s use of well-worn sayings by Mark Twain, Albert Einstein, Will Rogers and others comes across as refreshingly spot-on. Decoster employs an earnest, conversational tone throughout, urging his readers to constantly take action by defining goals, supplanting false beliefs or establishing deadlines. As the author says, “Contrary to popular belief, knowledge is not power. It is only potential power.” Too often, discussions about personal responsibility inevitably devolve into “boot-strap” arguments. But Decoster’s take on responsibility (or, as he defines it, “response-ability”) is both humane and empowering. Understanding that human beings have the innate ability to improve will give readers an essential feeling of control while also giving them something to shoot for. The author acknowledges the craft involved in a life well-lived, and he lays out the nuts and bolts of getting it right.

A surprisingly handy, low-tech how-to guide. 

Pub Date: Oct. 18, 2012

ISBN: 978-1-4783-2183-5

Page Count: 174

Publisher: CreateSpace

Review Posted Online: March 3, 2014

Kirkus Reviews Issue: May 15, 2014

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Gucci demonstrates all the bravado and ferocious self-confidence that he counsels—and the photos are a nice bonus.

THE GUCCI MANE GUIDE TO GREATNESS

A hip-hop star who went on his first international tour wearing an ankle monitor explains how to succeed.

“The words you are about to read can help you,” writes Gucci. “That’s because there is truth in them. These are words of wisdom, like the Bible and its proverbs.” Unquestionably, Gucci likes to aim high, as many of his proverbs attest: “Stop Underestimating Yourself”; “Whatever You’re Thinking, Think Bigger”; “Nobody Cares. Work Harder”; “When They Sleep, I’m Grinding”; “Do More, Get More.” And never forget, “Women Are Brilliant.” Gucci not only shares his recipes for success. As in a cookbook that shows pictures of the end result, the author includes dozens of dazzling photos of himself and his beautiful wife, among them a series on his surprise wedding proposal at an Atlanta Hawks game. After the success of his bestselling debut, The Autobiography of Gucci Mane, Gucci has realized there is money to be made in the book business. In addition to the Bible, he has his eye on Malcolm Gladwell and his reported $5 million advances. While he is “cool with Malcolm Gladwell being more celebrated than me as an author…the difference between Malcolm Gladwell and me is that I’m going to make more money because I’m going to make so many books for my following….You can enjoy this book or not, but I’m going to make my fifty-second book, my hundred and eighth book.” Many readers will hope that one of them will be a diet book, as the 100-plus pounds Gucci has lost and kept off are a frequent topic—alas, he doesn’t reveal his weight loss secrets here. Until the next book, try to live the Gucci Mane way. “Avoid lazy and miserable people,” and “Find something to be excited about every day.”

Gucci demonstrates all the bravado and ferocious self-confidence that he counsels—and the photos are a nice bonus.

Pub Date: Oct. 13, 2020

ISBN: N/A

Page Count: 272

Publisher: Simon & Schuster

Review Posted Online: Sept. 10, 2020

Kirkus Reviews Issue: Oct. 1, 2020

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Doyle offers another lucid, inspiring chronicle of female empowerment and the rewards of self-awareness and renewal.

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More life reflections from the bestselling author on themes of societal captivity and the catharsis of personal freedom.

In her third book, Doyle (Love Warrior, 2016, etc.) begins with a life-changing event. “Four years ago,” she writes, “married to the father of my three children, I fell in love with a woman.” That woman, Abby Wambach, would become her wife. Emblematically arranged into three sections—“Caged,” “Keys,” “Freedom”—the narrative offers, among other elements, vignettes about the soulful author’s girlhood, when she was bulimic and felt like a zoo animal, a “caged girl made for wide-open skies.” She followed the path that seemed right and appropriate based on her Catholic upbringing and adolescent conditioning. After a downward spiral into “drinking, drugging, and purging,” Doyle found sobriety and the authentic self she’d been suppressing. Still, there was trouble: Straining an already troubled marriage was her husband’s infidelity, which eventually led to life-altering choices and the discovery of a love she’d never experienced before. Throughout the book, Doyle remains open and candid, whether she’s admitting to rigging a high school homecoming court election or denouncing the doting perfectionism of “cream cheese parenting,” which is about “giving your children the best of everything.” The author’s fears and concerns are often mirrored by real-world issues: gender roles and bias, white privilege, racism, and religion-fueled homophobia and hypocrisy. Some stories merely skim the surface of larger issues, but Doyle revisits them in later sections and digs deeper, using friends and familial references to personify their impact on her life, both past and present. Shorter pieces, some only a page in length, manage to effectively translate an emotional gut punch, as when Doyle’s therapist called her blooming extramarital lesbian love a “dangerous distraction.” Ultimately, the narrative is an in-depth look at a courageous woman eager to share the wealth of her experiences by embracing vulnerability and reclaiming her inner strength and resiliency.

Doyle offers another lucid, inspiring chronicle of female empowerment and the rewards of self-awareness and renewal.

Pub Date: March 10, 2020

ISBN: 978-1-9848-0125-8

Page Count: 352

Publisher: Dial Books

Review Posted Online: Dec. 22, 2019

Kirkus Reviews Issue: Jan. 15, 2020

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