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YOU’RE ON FIRE, IT’S FINE

EFFECTIVE STRATEGIES FOR PARENTING TEENS WITH SELF-DESTRUCTIVE BEHAVIORS

Help and hope for parents who struggle with their teens’ risky behaviors.

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Empathetic and practical advice for parenting teens with emotional challenges.

May is a licensed professional adolescent mental health counselor whose practice focuses on high-risk teens, a calling rooted in her own recovery from family dysfunction and self-destructive behavior as a teen and young adult. She combines her professional and personal perspectives (her own child struggled with depression) to provide parents who feel “overwhelmed and unsure of how to move forward” with an “instruction manual for raising kids like me.” The author explains how dangerous and impulsive behaviors can be coping mechanisms for emotionally sensitive teens (dubbed “Fire Feelers”) and asserts that understanding children’s underlying pain is the first step toward helping them manage overwhelming feelings. She advises parents to let go of judgment—including self-judgment—and model healthy behavior and self-care, and provides practical techniques for handling difficult interactions and managing stress. Throughout the text, stories from May’s own life and counseling practice provide relatable examples of important concepts. Sidebars titled “Parent Like a Therapist” and “Top Takeaways” highlight and summarize key points. The author lays out psychological concepts and coping strategies simply and clearly, making them easy to understand and apply for even the most stressed-out parent. She is frank and matter-of-fact, making blunt statements like, “Listen up, buttercup... yelling doesn’t work” and “Looking for a quick fix? You won’t find it here.” She is also candid about failures, challenges, and potential setbacks, advising parents that it’s essential to be prepared for “your teen’s behavior to trigger and test you” and warning that the process of stopping a behavior may cause it to escalate temporarily. While acknowledging it isn’t easy, May shows parents how to go beyond “doing damage control” and become proactive. Parents will find a lifeline in May’s conviction that “You can repair your relationship with your teen, no matter what you’ve been through.”

Help and hope for parents who struggle with their teens’ risky behaviors.

Pub Date: May 15, 2024

ISBN: 9781544545585

Page Count: 166

Publisher: Lioncrest Publishing

Review Posted Online: Nov. 22, 2025

Kirkus Reviews Issue: Jan. 15, 2026

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A WEALTH OF PIGEONS

A CARTOON COLLECTION

A virtuoso performance and an ode to an undervalued medium created by two talented artists.

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The veteran actor, comedian, and banjo player teams up with the acclaimed illustrator to create a unique book of cartoons that communicates their personalities.

Martin, also a prolific author, has always been intrigued by the cartoons strewn throughout the pages of the New Yorker. So when he was presented with the opportunity to work with Bliss, who has been a staff cartoonist at the magazine since 1997, he seized the moment. “The idea of a one-panel image with or without a caption mystified me,” he writes. “I felt like, yeah, sometimes I’m funny, but there are these other weird freaks who are actually funny.” Once the duo agreed to work together, they established their creative process, which consisted of working forward and backward: “Forwards was me conceiving of several cartoon images and captions, and Harry would select his favorites; backwards was Harry sending me sketched or fully drawn cartoons for dialogue or banners.” Sometimes, he writes, “the perfect joke occurs two seconds before deadline.” There are several cartoons depicting this method, including a humorous multipanel piece highlighting their first meeting called “They Meet,” in which Martin thinks to himself, “He’ll never be able to translate my delicate and finely honed droll notions.” In the next panel, Bliss thinks, “I’m sure he won’t understand that the comic art form is way more subtle than his blunt-force humor.” The team collaborated for a year and created 150 cartoons featuring an array of topics, “from dogs and cats to outer space and art museums.” A witty creation of a bovine family sitting down to a gourmet meal and one of Dumbo getting his comeuppance highlight the duo’s comedic talent. What also makes this project successful is the team’s keen understanding of human behavior as viewed through their unconventional comedic minds.

A virtuoso performance and an ode to an undervalued medium created by two talented artists.

Pub Date: Nov. 17, 2020

ISBN: 978-1-250-26289-9

Page Count: 272

Publisher: Celadon Books

Review Posted Online: Aug. 30, 2020

Kirkus Reviews Issue: Sept. 15, 2020

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THAT'S A GREAT QUESTION, I'D LOVE TO TELL YOU

A frank and funny but uneven essay collection about neurodiversity.

An experimental, illustrated essay collection that questions neurotypical definitions of what is normal.

From a young age, writer and comedian Myers has been different. In addition to coping with obsessive compulsive disorder and panic attacks, she struggled to read basic social cues. During a round of seven minutes in heaven—a game in which two players spend seven minutes in a closet and are expected to kiss—Myers misread the romantic advances of her best friend and longtime crush, Marley. In Paris, she accidentally invited a sex worker to join her friends for “board games and beer,” thinking he was simply a random stranger who happened to be hitting on her. In community college, a stranger’s request for a pen spiraled her into a panic attack but resulted in a tentative friendship. When the author moved to Australia, she began taking notes on her colleagues in an effort to know them better. As the author says to her co-worker, Tabitha, “there are unspoken social contracts within a workplace that—by some miracle—everyone else already understands, and I don’t….When things Go Without Saying, they Never Get Said, and sometimes people need you to Say Those Things So They Understand What The Hell Is Going On.” At its best, Myers’ prose is vulnerable and humorous, capturing characterization in small but consequential life moments, and her illustrations beautifully complement the text. Unfortunately, the author’s tendency toward unnecessary capitalization and experimental forms is often unsuccessful, breaking the book’s otherwise steady rhythm.

A frank and funny but uneven essay collection about neurodiversity.

Pub Date: Oct. 28, 2025

ISBN: 9780063381308

Page Count: 272

Publisher: Morrow/HarperCollins

Review Posted Online: Sept. 12, 2025

Kirkus Reviews Issue: Oct. 15, 2025

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