by Lisa Rhodes-Ryabchich ‧ RELEASE DATE: Nov. 25, 2020
A confident assortment of poems that give cathartic voice to our worst selves.
Rhodes-Ryabchich’s poetry collection makes room for our pettiest impulses.
The ode, generally speaking, is a form of celebration, a storied poetic form honoring a person, a moment, or some other worthy subject. In her latest group of poems, the author sardonically inverts the ode, turning it into a tool of confession and deconstruction applied to her life’s uglier memories, such as getting called slurs, suffering eating disorders, and a suicide attempt. This is not to say the author has written a dour collection devoid of humor or levity—some pieces are slyly comedic, such as “SELF PORTRAIT AS A PIECE OF TOFU AND AVOCADO,” which includes lines like “I combine well with American cheese and plum tomatoes.” Even these lighter moments reveal their speakers’ desires and anxieties about never achieving greatness: “My biggest fear is that I will spoil, before being enjoyed / by some hungry, health-conscious person.” Many of the poems have the “Ode to” title formulation for hyper-specific subjects including contact lenses and jealous mothers, as well as broader topics, like “kindness.” Rhodes-Ryabchich is fond of long, expository titles (“WHAT I THINK OF THE BABYSITTERS WHO TELL ME THEY WONT’ BABYSIT MY DISABLED CHILD”) that often belie the shrewd perceptions the works contain, be they considerations of ableism, infidelity, racism, or mental-health bias. In these pages, these speakers refuse to bite their tongues.
This is a difficult book to absorb in a single setting due to its near-relentless insistence on the fact that life, frankly, can suck. Many references are made to the author’s disabled daughter, Kyla, and the challenges of raising a wheelchair-using child in an ableist, unforgiving world. It can be hard to parse the silver linings of these open-ended pontifications as they are largely about the gulf between the cards we hope for and the cards life deals us. But this acerbic quality can also be cleansing, especially for readers who have felt sidelined in their own lives. “Kindness” demonstrates that the titular virtue need not be metaphorically reduced to sunshine and soft things—these poems locate grace in places like a child’s hard-won ability to self-regulate their emotions after a tantrum (“I’m watching my daughter grow / and wondering how much of this / she has in her, and why it happens and maybe / it’s better this way— she is expressing her wants / and needs, and this is the way she does it every day”). This is a collection best suited for moments when readers can address their darkest impulses and need a private space to ridicule and pout and complain. The title comes from the Greek term for “turning point,” often employed in tragedies when the protagonist’s fate has been sealed. This book is not so dark and nihilistic as that, but the concept reminds us that we do keep score of our wrongs, archiving those bad memories that “would remain in my mind, a miniature minitour— / deformed and beastly” whether we like it or not.
A confident assortment of poems that give cathartic voice to our worst selves.Pub Date: Nov. 25, 2020
ISBN: 9789388319317
Page Count: 91
Publisher: Cyberwit.net
Review Posted Online: March 5, 2024
Review Program: Kirkus Indie
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by Timothy Paul Jones ‧ RELEASE DATE: Sept. 1, 2005
Worthwhile reference stuffed with facts and illustrations.
A compendium of charts, time lines, lists and illustrations to accompany study of the Bible.
This visually appealing resource provides a wide array of illustrative and textually concise references, beginning with three sets of charts covering the Bible as a whole, the Old Testament and the New Testament. These charts cover such topics as biblical weights and measures, feasts and holidays and the 12 disciples. Most of the charts use a variety of illustrative techniques to convey lessons and provide visual interest. A worthwhile example is “How We Got the Bible,” which provides a time line of translation history, comparisons of canons among faiths and portraits of important figures in biblical translation, such as Jerome and John Wycliffe. The book then presents a section of maps, followed by diagrams to conceptualize such structures as Noah’s Ark and Solomon’s Temple. Finally, a section on Christianity, cults and other religions describes key aspects of history and doctrine for certain Christian sects and other faith traditions. Overall, the authors take a traditionalist, conservative approach. For instance, they list Moses as the author of the Pentateuch (the first five books of the Hebrew Bible) without making mention of claims to the contrary. When comparing various Christian sects and world religions, the emphasis is on doctrine and orthodox theology. Some chapters, however, may not completely align with the needs of Catholic and Orthodox churches. But the authors’ leanings are muted enough and do not detract from the work’s usefulness. As a resource, it’s well organized, inviting and visually stimulating. Even the most seasoned reader will learn something while browsing.
Worthwhile reference stuffed with facts and illustrations.Pub Date: Sept. 1, 2005
ISBN: 978-1-5963-6022-8
Page Count: -
Publisher: N/A
Review Posted Online: May 23, 2010
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by Jennette McCurdy ‧ RELEASE DATE: Aug. 9, 2022
The heartbreaking story of an emotionally battered child delivered with captivating candor and grace.
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The former iCarly star reflects on her difficult childhood.
In her debut memoir, titled after her 2020 one-woman show, singer and actor McCurdy (b. 1992) reveals the raw details of what she describes as years of emotional abuse at the hands of her demanding, emotionally unstable stage mom, Debra. Born in Los Angeles, the author, along with three older brothers, grew up in a home controlled by her mother. When McCurdy was 3, her mother was diagnosed with breast cancer. Though she initially survived, the disease’s recurrence would ultimately take her life when the author was 21. McCurdy candidly reconstructs those in-between years, showing how “my mom emotionally, mentally, and physically abused me in ways that will forever impact me.” Insistent on molding her only daughter into “Mommy’s little actress,” Debra shuffled her to auditions beginning at age 6. As she matured and starting booking acting gigs, McCurdy remained “desperate to impress Mom,” while Debra became increasingly obsessive about her daughter’s physical appearance. She tinted her daughter’s eyelashes, whitened her teeth, enforced a tightly monitored regimen of “calorie restriction,” and performed regular genital exams on her as a teenager. Eventually, the author grew understandably resentful and tried to distance herself from her mother. As a young celebrity, however, McCurdy became vulnerable to eating disorders, alcohol addiction, self-loathing, and unstable relationships. Throughout the book, she honestly portrays Debra’s cruel perfectionist personality and abusive behavior patterns, showing a woman who could get enraged by everything from crooked eyeliner to spilled milk. At the same time, McCurdy exhibits compassion for her deeply flawed mother. Late in the book, she shares a crushing secret her father revealed to her as an adult. While McCurdy didn’t emerge from her childhood unscathed, she’s managed to spin her harrowing experience into a sold-out stage act and achieve a form of catharsis that puts her mind, body, and acting career at peace.
The heartbreaking story of an emotionally battered child delivered with captivating candor and grace.Pub Date: Aug. 9, 2022
ISBN: 978-1-982185-82-4
Page Count: 320
Publisher: Simon & Schuster
Review Posted Online: May 30, 2022
Kirkus Reviews Issue: July 1, 2022
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