Emphasizes that philosophers have no monopoly on wisdom, that the gilded life is not the good life, and that the good life...
A curious soul searching for and sharing the many definitions of “the good life.”
The project is really an extended question, and it is a worthy one: What constitutes the good life? The answers are equally worthy: faith, friends and family. Shelton (Angel Letters, 2009) interviews his way through friends and acquaintances from Yale’s Divinity School, Silicon Valley’s tech circles and his hometown in Georgia. Each ruminates on the importance of the three “F”s. The author also quotes liberally from Thoreau, Einstein, Lewis and dozens of others. But, implicitly, the project is shot through with various authorities: God (usually Christian, but not always); Abraham Maslow, whose famous hierarchy of needs, mentioned only briefly in the text, nevertheless gets heavy treatment by those preaching creativity and self-actualization as the highest goals; and finally Epicurus, who proposed simple pleasures as the highest aim. The book carries enough chocolate eating, Caribbean sailing and wine drinking that a fourth “F,” fun, deserves a place. This is not hedonism—Shelton’s impulses veer sharply from Las Vegas—but he can be enticed to a quiet beach. Fun aside, Shelton’s question and his impulses are serious. As a theology student, he clearly wrestles with the big questions, but he eschews philosophy jargon in favor of everyday explanations from his interviewees. And many of them deliver refreshing advice: A Hawaiian sketches the distinction between making intimate relationships a goal and actually building intimate relationships; a neuroscientist finds meaning in the idea of a universe that, in the molecular machinations of the human mind, is actually thinking about itself. These are thoughtful people with genuine insights. Where Shelton goes awry is in editing the work too lightly. The interview format, while good for breadth, is not always good for depth.
Emphasizes that philosophers have no monopoly on wisdom, that the gilded life is not the good life, and that the good life is there for the taking.Pub Date: July 26, 2012
ISBN: 978-1475207767
Page Count: 168
Publisher: CreateSpace
Review Posted Online: Oct. 11, 2012
Review Program: Kirkus Indie
It’s not Shakespeare, not by a long shot. But at least it’s not James Franco.
A noted actor turns to verse: “Poems are a Saturday in the middle of the week.”
McConaughey, author of the gracefully written memoir Greenlights, has been writing poems since his teens, closing with one “written in an Australian bathtub” that reads just as a poem by an 18-year-old (Rimbaud excepted) should read: “Ignorant minds of the fortunate man / Blind of the fate shaping every land.” McConaughey is fearless in his commitment to the rhyme, no matter how slight the result (“Oops, took a quick peek at the sky before I got my glasses, / now I can’t see shit, sure hope this passes”). And, sad to say, the slight is what is most on display throughout, punctuated by some odd koanlike aperçus: “Eating all we can / at the all-we-can-eat buffet, / gives us a 3.8 education / and a 4.2 GPA.” “Never give up your right to do the next right thing. This is how we find our way home.” “Memory never forgets. Even though we do.” The prayer portion of the program is deeply felt, but it’s just as sentimental; only when he writes of life-changing events—a court appearance to file a restraining order against a stalker, his decision to quit smoking weed—do we catch a glimpse of the effortlessly fluent, effortlessly charming McConaughey as exemplified by the David Wooderson (“alright, alright, alright”) of Dazed and Confused. The rest is mostly a soufflé in verse. McConaughey’s heart is very clearly in the right place, but on the whole the book suggests an old saw: Don’t give up your day job.
It’s not Shakespeare, not by a long shot. But at least it’s not James Franco.Pub Date: Sept. 16, 2025
ISBN: 9781984862105
Page Count: 208
Publisher: Crown
Review Posted Online: Aug. 15, 2025
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Sept. 15, 2025
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SEEN & HEARD
SEEN & HEARD
A conversational, pleasurable look into McConaughey’s life and thought.
All right, all right, all right: The affable, laconic actor delivers a combination of memoir and self-help book.
“This is an approach book,” writes McConaughey, adding that it contains “philosophies that can be objectively understood, and if you choose, subjectively adopted, by either changing your reality, or changing how you see it. This is a playbook, based on adventures in my life.” Some of those philosophies come in the form of apothegms: “When you can design your own weather, blow in the breeze”; “Simplify, focus, conserve to liberate.” Others come in the form of sometimes rambling stories that never take the shortest route from point A to point B, as when he recounts a dream-spurred, challenging visit to the Malian musician Ali Farka Touré, who offered a significant lesson in how disagreement can be expressed politely and without rancor. Fans of McConaughey will enjoy his memories—which line up squarely with other accounts in Melissa Maerz’s recent oral history, Alright, Alright, Alright—of his debut in Richard Linklater’s Dazed and Confused, to which he contributed not just that signature phrase, but also a kind of too-cool-for-school hipness that dissolves a bit upon realizing that he’s an older guy on the prowl for teenage girls. McConaughey’s prep to settle into the role of Wooderson involved inhabiting the mind of a dude who digs cars, rock ’n’ roll, and “chicks,” and he ran with it, reminding readers that the film originally had only three scripted scenes for his character. The lesson: “Do one thing well, then another. Once, then once more.” It’s clear that the author is a thoughtful man, even an intellectual of sorts, though without the earnestness of Ethan Hawke or James Franco. Though some of the sentiments are greeting card–ish, this book is entertaining and full of good lessons.
A conversational, pleasurable look into McConaughey’s life and thought.Pub Date: Oct. 20, 2020
ISBN: 978-0-593-13913-4
Page Count: 304
Publisher: Crown
Review Posted Online: Oct. 27, 2020
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Dec. 1, 2020
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