A thoughtful and well-reasoned guide to making lifestyle decisions.
A manual looks at how individual choices shape the future of society.
In this companion to his Coming of Age in the Global Village (1990), Cook offers a framework for describing the different viewpoints, mentalities, and ways of thinking about all aspects of human life—religion and spirituality, personal responsibility, systems of governance, consumption, the environment, and militarism, among many others. This framework is a way to understand and guide people toward making decisions that are optimal for their own lives and for the future of humanity as a whole. The author outlines these viewpoints through a series of 52 choices between opposing worldviews, detailed in the book’s appendix and on a companion website. Using his own preferences as examples, Cook explains how the combination of values and choices he has made has allowed him to pursue a sustainable lifestyle, reduce his carbon footprint, build a community of friends and relatives, and develop an authentic spiritual life. He provides his choices as an example for readers to adapt to their own circumstances. Drawing on the author’s scientific background as a professor and research specialist, the book also takes an analytical approach to climate change and other crucial topics, showing how and why humans can and should take steps toward sustainability. Although the prose can be meandering at times and the volume’s pacing could be tighter, readers will likely be willing to overlook occasional narrative shortcomings in favor of Cook’s enthusiastic and authentic storytelling. Throughout the text, he demonstrates a deep knowledge of wide-ranging subjects, and the book’s many references to Coming of Age demonstrate that the author has returned to his topics many times since 1990, refining and strengthening his analysis in the intervening decades. The manual makes a persuasive case for moving toward a more sustainable lifestyle—although few readers are likely to join Cook in “peecycling,” using their own urine to fertilize homegrown crops—and for making choices that are true to one’s values without demonizing those who follow a different path.
A thoughtful and well-reasoned guide to making lifestyle decisions.Pub Date: N/A
ISBN: 978- 0-9627349-5-3
Page Count: 424
Publisher: Parthenon Books
Review Posted Online: May 12, 2022
Kirkus Reviews Issue: July 15, 2022
Review Program: Kirkus Indie
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The Stoics did much better with the much shorter Enchiridion.
A follow-on to the author’s garbled but popular 48 Laws of Power, promising that readers will learn how to win friends and influence people, to say nothing of outfoxing all those “toxic types” out in the world.
Greene (Mastery, 2012, etc.) begins with a big sell, averring that his book “is designed to immerse you in all aspects of human behavior and illuminate its root causes.” To gauge by this fat compendium, human behavior is mostly rotten, a presumption that fits with the author’s neo-Machiavellian program of self-validation and eventual strategic supremacy. The author works to formula: First, state a “law,” such as “confront your dark side” or “know your limits,” the latter of which seems pale compared to the Delphic oracle’s “nothing in excess.” Next, elaborate on that law with what might seem to be as plain as day: “Losing contact with reality, we make irrational decisions. That is why our success often does not last.” One imagines there might be other reasons for the evanescence of glory, but there you go. Finally, spin out a long tutelary yarn, seemingly the longer the better, to shore up the truism—in this case, the cometary rise and fall of one-time Disney CEO Michael Eisner, with the warning, “his fate could easily be yours, albeit most likely on a smaller scale,” which ranks right up there with the fortuneteller’s “I sense that someone you know has died" in orders of probability. It’s enough to inspire a new law: Beware of those who spend too much time telling you what you already know, even when it’s dressed up in fresh-sounding terms. “Continually mix the visceral with the analytic” is the language of a consultant’s report, more important-sounding than “go with your gut but use your head, too.”
The Stoics did much better with the much shorter Enchiridion.Pub Date: Oct. 23, 2018
ISBN: 978-0-525-42814-5
Page Count: 580
Publisher: Viking
Review Posted Online: July 30, 2018
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Aug. 15, 2018
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BOOK REVIEW
A sweet final word from an actor who leaves a legacy of compassion and kindness.
The late actor offers a gentle guide for living with more purpose, love, and joy.
Mixing poetry, prescriptive challenges, and elements of memoir, Heche (1969-2022) delivers a narrative that is more encouraging workbook than life story. The author wants to share what she has discovered over the course of a life filled with abuse, advocacy, and uncanny turning points. Her greatest discovery? Love. “Open yourself up to love and transform kindness from a feeling you extend to those around you to actions that you perform for them,” she writes. “Only by caring can we open ourselves up to the universe, and only by opening up to the universe can we fully experience all the wonders that it holds, the greatest of which is love.” Throughout the occasionally overwrought text, Heche is heavy on the concept of care. She wants us to experience joy as she does, and she provides a road map for how to get there. Instead of slinking away from Hollywood and the ridicule that she endured there, Heche found the good and hung on, with Alec Baldwin and Harrison Ford starring as particularly shining knights in her story. Some readers may dismiss this material as vapid Hollywood stuff, but Heche’s perspective is an empathetic blend of Buddhism (minimize suffering), dialectical behavioral therapy (tolerating distress), Christianity (do unto others), and pre-Socratic philosophy (sufficient reason). “You’re not out to change the whole world, but to increase the levels of love and kindness in the world, drop by drop,” she writes. “Over time, these actions wear away the coldness, hate, and indifference around us as surely as water slowly wearing away stone.” Readers grieving her loss will take solace knowing that she lived her love-filled life on her own terms. Heche’s business and podcast partner, Heather Duffy, writes the epilogue, closing the book on a life well lived.
A sweet final word from an actor who leaves a legacy of compassion and kindness.Pub Date: Jan. 24, 2023
ISBN: 9781627783316
Page Count: 176
Publisher: Viva Editions
Review Posted Online: Feb. 6, 2023
Kirkus Reviews Issue: March 1, 2023
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