A funny, thought-provoking, and profound memoir about the intersection of Blackness and health.
An “unambiguously Black” Cuban writer uses her life story to examine multiple aspects of community care.
After “two decades working my ass off in the food service industry,” Gordon was exhausted. She left New York City, where she was working as a server, self-medicating with drugs, and making ends meet by selling them. “I was weary in my soul, in my heart,” she writes. “Tired of everything.” She moved to Miami, intending to get sober and to heal. She started therapy and joined an online support group for adults who, like her, have such severe dental problems that they must have all of their teeth extracted and replaced by dentures. While in Miami, Gordon also began Casa de Tami, a program that invites individual Black activists from “marginalized genders” to stay at her home and be treated compassionately. Eventually, with the help of a community fundraiser, Gordon moved to New Orleans, where she continued to document the ways in which members of close-knit communities support each other’s healing. While much of the book is about deeply traumatic struggles, Gordon begins her story by letting readers know that she is not writing “trauma porn.” The author’s voice is intimate, vulnerable, frank, humorous, and affectionate, and her impressive capacity for self-reflection infuses her work with refreshingly original insights. She intersperses her memoir with a beautifully curated selection of the voices of people who share the author’s talent for conversational, honest prose. “I’m not a teacher, guru, or authority,” she writes. “Hood Wellness isn’t a how-to kind of book. It’s a reflection of the power of community and an affirmation that, regardless of our intersections and hardships, there is more for us when we walk together.” Gordon’s vision of a more just future feels both inspiring and possible.
A funny, thought-provoking, and profound memoir about the intersection of Blackness and health.Pub Date: June 18, 2024
ISBN: 9781955905343
Page Count: 312
Publisher: Row House Publishing
Review Posted Online: April 4, 2024
Kirkus Reviews Issue: May 1, 2024
It’s not Shakespeare, not by a long shot. But at least it’s not James Franco.
A noted actor turns to verse: “Poems are a Saturday in the middle of the week.”
McConaughey, author of the gracefully written memoir Greenlights, has been writing poems since his teens, closing with one “written in an Australian bathtub” that reads just as a poem by an 18-year-old (Rimbaud excepted) should read: “Ignorant minds of the fortunate man / Blind of the fate shaping every land.” McConaughey is fearless in his commitment to the rhyme, no matter how slight the result (“Oops, took a quick peek at the sky before I got my glasses, / now I can’t see shit, sure hope this passes”). And, sad to say, the slight is what is most on display throughout, punctuated by some odd koanlike aperçus: “Eating all we can / at the all-we-can-eat buffet, / gives us a 3.8 education / and a 4.2 GPA.” “Never give up your right to do the next right thing. This is how we find our way home.” “Memory never forgets. Even though we do.” The prayer portion of the program is deeply felt, but it’s just as sentimental; only when he writes of life-changing events—a court appearance to file a restraining order against a stalker, his decision to quit smoking weed—do we catch a glimpse of the effortlessly fluent, effortlessly charming McConaughey as exemplified by the David Wooderson (“alright, alright, alright”) of Dazed and Confused. The rest is mostly a soufflé in verse. McConaughey’s heart is very clearly in the right place, but on the whole the book suggests an old saw: Don’t give up your day job.
It’s not Shakespeare, not by a long shot. But at least it’s not James Franco.Pub Date: Sept. 16, 2025
ISBN: 9781984862105
Page Count: 208
Publisher: Crown
Review Posted Online: Aug. 15, 2025
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Sept. 15, 2025
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SEEN & HEARD
SEEN & HEARD
A sweet final word from an actor who leaves a legacy of compassion and kindness.
The late actor offers a gentle guide for living with more purpose, love, and joy.
Mixing poetry, prescriptive challenges, and elements of memoir, Heche (1969-2022) delivers a narrative that is more encouraging workbook than life story. The author wants to share what she has discovered over the course of a life filled with abuse, advocacy, and uncanny turning points. Her greatest discovery? Love. “Open yourself up to love and transform kindness from a feeling you extend to those around you to actions that you perform for them,” she writes. “Only by caring can we open ourselves up to the universe, and only by opening up to the universe can we fully experience all the wonders that it holds, the greatest of which is love.” Throughout the occasionally overwrought text, Heche is heavy on the concept of care. She wants us to experience joy as she does, and she provides a road map for how to get there. Instead of slinking away from Hollywood and the ridicule that she endured there, Heche found the good and hung on, with Alec Baldwin and Harrison Ford starring as particularly shining knights in her story. Some readers may dismiss this material as vapid Hollywood stuff, but Heche’s perspective is an empathetic blend of Buddhism (minimize suffering), dialectical behavioral therapy (tolerating distress), Christianity (do unto others), and pre-Socratic philosophy (sufficient reason). “You’re not out to change the whole world, but to increase the levels of love and kindness in the world, drop by drop,” she writes. “Over time, these actions wear away the coldness, hate, and indifference around us as surely as water slowly wearing away stone.” Readers grieving her loss will take solace knowing that she lived her love-filled life on her own terms. Heche’s business and podcast partner, Heather Duffy, writes the epilogue, closing the book on a life well lived.
A sweet final word from an actor who leaves a legacy of compassion and kindness.Pub Date: Jan. 24, 2023
ISBN: 9781627783316
Page Count: 176
Publisher: Viva Editions
Review Posted Online: Feb. 6, 2023
Kirkus Reviews Issue: March 1, 2023
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