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I DIDN'T LEAVE BECAUSE OF YOU

While it leaves some unanswered questions, this abandonment tale should help start a conversation.

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This picture book hopes to comfort children whose parents have left them.

For kids, there are few experiences more painful than abandonment. Sometimes, though, a parent has little choice in the matter, as the narrator explains to a beloved child in warmly expressed rhyming couplets or tercets. Reasons for leaving can include substance abuse, mental illness, or incarceration—situations where departing is a necessary part of protecting children. But the tale emphasizes that no matter what, absent parents don’t forget their children. The story closes with the hope that the youngster will heal and a request for forgiveness, with a final reminder that whatever the reason, “I didn’t leave because of you.” A single work, especially a picture book, can’t solve such a complex issue, which can be oversimplified; some parents do, in fact, forget about their kids. At times, the target audience seems to be guilt-stricken parents rather than their children, who may not understand concepts like thinking “your life would be better if I didn’t stay.” Nevertheless, it’s important for abandoned kids to know it’s not their fault, and White’s story could foster discussion. The digital images by debut illustrator Manning depict racially diverse characters and sympathetically portray children’s distress.

While it leaves some unanswered questions, this abandonment tale should help start a conversation. (question and answer section)

Pub Date: Sept. 6, 2016

ISBN: 978-1-63177-646-5

Page Count: 38

Publisher: Mascot Books

Review Posted Online: Aug. 6, 2020

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THE ONE AND ONLY SPARKELLA MAKES A PLAN

From the Sparkella series , Vol. 2

A second scintillating celebration of personal style and dad-daughter DIY.

Reality puts only a temporary damper on big, glittery plans for a sleepover castle.

New school friend Tam, who shared bánh mi at lunch in The One and Only Sparkella (2021), is arriving in two hours, and before that Sparkella needs to make a castle “fit for two royal highnesses.” Unfortunately, even with Dad’s help, the flimsy cardboard construction collapses as soon as Sparkella climbs inside to test it. What to do? After giving the pouting princess some personal time in the garage, Dad points the way: “I think you have to take what you have and make it SPARKLE like only you can.” And, indeed, by the time brown-skinned “Tam, Queen of Kittens” is dropped off by her grandma, a pair of folding tables have been transformed with paint, wrapping paper, and colorful fabrics into the sparkliest castle ever! Laying on saturated colors and sprays of tiny stars with a lavish hand, Barnes depicts the two young “royals” in flamboyantly decorated settings—even Dad’s motorcycle is a dazzling confection awash in bows, and Dad himself, light-skinned like Sparkella, isn’t the least decorative element considering his fondness for sporting a purple boa and outrageous eyewear when occasion demands. (This book was reviewed digitally.)

A second scintillating celebration of personal style and dad-daughter DIY. (Picture book. 6-8)

Pub Date: May 31, 2022

ISBN: 978-1-250-75076-1

Page Count: 48

Publisher: Feiwel & Friends

Review Posted Online: May 31, 2022

Kirkus Reviews Issue: July 1, 2022

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MY LITTLE SWEET BOY

Though directed at sons, the guidance presented is sensible for kids of all genders navigating life.

A companion offering to actor Duff’s My Little Brave Girl (2021) with sound, sensitive advice from parents to children on their journey through childhood.

A gracefully drawn watercolor palette limns a diverse group of boys portrayed not just as brave and strong, but as kind, caring, and observant. They can climb trees and be physically active while also being encouraged to “honor the power of all [their] emotions.” A boy is sitting unhappily with his dad on their front stoop waving goodbye to his mom, who’s leaving for a trip; when you’re sad, it’s certainly OK to cry. Understanding right from wrong is important, demonstrated by two boys shown intervening when a third is being nasty to a fourth younger child. Picking apples and planting and harvesting a vegetable garden illustrate ways to take care of their bodies. A boy making signs for his class president candidacy depicts confidence and the ability to use his voice. A final scene stresses the importance of listening, questioning, and being willing to learn, whether by choosing books to read, walking to school with other children, or conversing with a grandparent. The visual examples given to enhance each portion of the narrative should elicit discussion through the inferences implied.

Though directed at sons, the guidance presented is sensible for kids of all genders navigating life. (Picture book. 6-8)

Pub Date: Nov. 7, 2023

ISBN: 9780593300756

Page Count: 32

Publisher: Random House

Review Posted Online: Aug. 26, 2023

Kirkus Reviews Issue: Oct. 1, 2023

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